40-yr-old husband makes $125,000

[Anonymous]

I made that at 25 in engineering... He is doing it wrong. Has he switched jobs lately? That really is the only way to make a meaningful salary increase.

[Anonymous]

You should see how it would go over in money and finances though - they would say it was a horrible salary.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:ROLLING MY EYES SO HARD AT YOU, OP.

What a privileged little witch you are.

I have to agree. This post is absurd.

[Anonymous]

YOU AND YOUR COUSINS ARE FOOLS. I hope he divorces you and finds someone who appreciates and loves him for who and what he is. You definitely do not. Also it is pure stupidity to share and discuss personal finances with family. Truly, you are an idiot

[Anonymous]

My 49 yo husband makes $125k and I’m currently a freelancer but typically bring in $140-150k. We are essentially in the same do-Goode field and specialty. I do understand the compulsion to compare to family members. But for us, we are secure knowing we live well within our means and provide a great life for our two kids. Many people work more, Orin less satisfying jobs and make more, but they’re miserable. I’m able to sit on my ass now not working but helping Kids with distance learning because we are fortunate to have financial security. I will find work after covid because I’m determined to and have always worked. I guess my advice to you is the same as my advice to myself. Comparisons are interesting but they are just one data point. Others are more important, are you happy with the current balance in your household? Would a small or large increase in income be worth the additional strain in terms of the joy or stability it creates?

In our case, we are always thinking of upgrading to a new house, even though we love our house and it’s been a great investment and very convenient. We somehow think we should be in a more family friendly neighborhood with more kids. But that move would require both of us to have stable well paying jobs.

I have cousins that make more but make very different decisions, like private school, living in San Francisco, unfortunately dealing with divorce, etc. they have other factors we do not, so all things are not equal. A happy, healthy (knock wood) family is worth so much. You are fortunate. I am too,

[Anonymous]

Are you having trouble saving for retirement and college for your kids? I think $125k is a great salary, we each make about the same, but we don’t have any issues saving.

[Anonymous]

Divorce.

[Anonymous]

Honestly you sound very insecure if you didn't have any money troubles before that call and one shitty comment could have you running to the internet to see if your husband is worthy of respect.

[Anonymous]

Holy crap, this is one of the stupidest OPs I read in the world. You sound like such a loser.

"My cousin told me my husband doesn't make enough money, whine, whine, cry, cry, i'm such a baby!!!"

[Anonymous]

We are very open in my family about salaries, life, anything

You are foolish Op

[Anonymous]

If you can’t for retirement and college on $125k, you’re doing something wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:ROLLING MY EYES SO HARD AT YOU, OP.

What a privileged little witch you are.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you having trouble saving for retirement and college for your kids? I think $125k is a great salary, we each make about the same, but we don’t have any issues saving.

Same! I make far less and am saving quite a bit.

[Anonymous]

I would be so happy if my husband made that much in salary, OP. He’s chronically underemployed due to severe ADHD. Our HHI is much lower than this.

[Anonymous]

DH and I both have masers degrees, are over forty and have never made that much money. What universe are you living in??

I call troll.