Grooming = cheating?

[Anonymous]

Maybe she had an OB appointment coming up and she's self-conscious with those.

[Anonymous]

Why do you only see her naked during sex?

Do you have separate rooms and bathrooms?

[Anonymous]

Yes, OP, I'd say she's probably cheating or at least sending naked pics. I can't believe how naive some of the PPs are. At least you noticed, unlike my husband (which explains why I was cheating in the first place...) Does she have the opportunity to meet up with someone?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.

That was a really naive response. But go ahead and believe that Covid prevents cheating.

Right? I laughed when I read that.

[Anonymous]

Guy : Is this a thing now? Most women in my age group do it (45+), at least the ones I’ve hooked up with post divorce. But my ex didn’t

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.

I like to think I'm up with current talk, but what is "bubbling"?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There is a pandemic going on. No one is cheating with people they are not bubbling with.

She is bored and tried out something new. Are you always so narrow minded and suspicious.

OP here, I am not narrow minded. In fact, I have raised the idea of exploring non-monogamy because I don't see the situation as sustainable long-term. But anyway, I wouldn't have been suspicious if she mentioned it as a "hey honey" but more that I found it. Zero chance she did it to spice things up.

You are half right. Yes: the situation is not sustainable. No: she does not get to vote on your non-monogamy solution to her uninterested-sexless problem. If she’s not on board with a normal active sex life, simply declare your marriage open. Asexuals cannot have fidelity when partnered with a normal person.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Guy : Is this a thing now? Most women in my age group do it (45+), at least the ones I’ve hooked up with post divorce. But my ex didn’t

Sure is. The 50-year old my ex had a 4-year affair with was on her 3rd guy. He was the longest. They find them on the Internet, usually Ashley Madison.

[Anonymous]

3 months and you ain’t so much as seen the kitty?


Damn

[Anonymous]

Did she have a gyn appointment recently? Totally normal to groom before you go to the gyn.

Also normal to cut it short every once in a while.

Did you mention it? It’s typically a signal to go down.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Did she have a gyn appointment recently? Totally normal to groom before you go to the gyn.

Also normal to cut it short every once in a while.

Did you mention it? It’s typically a signal to go down.

Stop. I feel like these type of posts come from cheating women to try to throw them off course.

She hasn’t had sex with him in 3 months. She has pulled away.

It’s really simple to ask or know if she’s going on for a GYN appointment which she might do anyways for proof of being STI free to show the married guys she meets on Ashley Madison.

Ask me how I know? 99.9% chance she is cheating. Now you need to turn into James Bond before you show your hand, OP. Note: they no longer usually use phone or text, but use Skype, Googlechat, What’sapp or some type of Internet messaging/chat which won’t show up on phone Bill and/or she probably has a burner/fake email account too.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Guy : Is this a thing now? Most women in my age group do it (45+), at least the ones I’ve hooked up with post divorce. But my ex didn’t

Sure is. The 50-year old my ex had a 4-year affair with was on her 3rd guy. He was the longest. They find them on the Internet, usually Ashley Madison.

+1. These married women will deny, deny, deny. This is how they can keep having affairs. Get crafty.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Did she have a gyn appointment recently? Totally normal to groom before you go to the gyn.

Also normal to cut it short every once in a while.

Did you mention it? It’s typically a signal to go down.

Stop. I feel like these type of posts come from cheating women to try to throw them off course.

She hasn’t had sex with him in 3 months. She has pulled away.

It’s really simple to ask or know if she’s going on for a GYN appointment which she might do anyways for proof of being STI free to show the married guys she meets on Ashley Madison.

Ask me how I know? 99.9% chance she is cheating. Now you need to turn into James Bond before you show your hand, OP. Note: they no longer usually use phone or text, but use Skype, Googlechat, What’sapp or some type of Internet messaging/chat which won’t show up on phone Bill and/or she probably has a burner/fake email account too.

Quite possible she caught an STI, hence no sex with Op. now she’s in the clear with no outbreaks or cleared the antibiotics— so kitty got cleaned up.

[Anonymous]

I've never cheated, and in fact have been cheated on and am therefore pretty quick to assume cheating, but......

Sometimes women just trim things up because they are feeling otherwise kind of ugh. Particularly in a pandemic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Not to go into details, but it's more hygienic and cuts down on odor, so maybe she read that somewhere and tried it.

Wrong. Women with less pubic hair are more prone to infections. Hair has a biological purpose.