My husband forces me to be a nagging b***h

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Anonymous wrote:My husband WILL NOT do anything I ask him to do until I get so f**king tired of asking him that I freak out and yell at him until he does it.
Oh my GOD! We fostered a litter of abandoned kittens until they were old enough to go into a rescue organization.
One of them pissed behind this ugly, God-awful desk in our carpeted office. There was then a piss war between them and the entire room smells disgusting:
I have been asking my husband (very nicely) to get rid of the desk for 2 months. "Honey, will you please make arrangements to have the desk removed from our office? It would really help me. I'm making your favorite dinner tonight! How many blowjobs would you like?" That's basically how it goes.
He'll barely acknowledge me and then never does it. I just want to clean/rip the carpets out of the room so I don't have to smell it.
He's leaving town for training next week and I asked him last week to have it removed before he leaves.
I asked him if he'd made arrangements today and he said he hadn't. I flipped the f**k out and started acting like a raving lunatic. I told him very clearly that I was sick of this motherf**kin desk in my motherf**kin house. He texted me an hour ago and told me it's being taken out tomorrow.
Why does the man make me turn into a shrew? I don't want to be one, I just want him to do his f**ling part.

You chose to do that. You could also have chosen to give it away on craigslist/ hire someone to drag it out to the garbage after the first weekend your husband didn't do it.

Hiring someone off Craigslist? What world are you living in? Great way to get yourself robbed or raped.

I didn't say hire someone off craigslist- I said give it away on craigslist. You're welcome.

For the bad advice? No thanks- you can keep it. That would still require a stranger waltzing through her home, presumably while she was the only one there, since her do-nothing husband surely won't care, and then dragging it out.

If you seriously think that's a good idea then you must either be very dumb or live in a very, very small town. Not DC.

Think a little bit out of the box. What if the OP asked some people to be there with her when the desk was picked up?! I know- it's blowing your mind, right?

So her husband has zero responsibility to move the damn thing, and it's up to OP to both hire and pay a moving company and then round up a friend group to protect her from the potential robbers/rapists?

LMAO. I would seriously hate to be you women.

You really read into a lot. I would hate to be you as well, because of your poor reading comprehension.

It really doesn't take a lot to see that you guys put up with a lot of shit and expect OP to do the same.

Sucks to be you.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband WILL NOT do anything I ask him to do until I get so f**king tired of asking him that I freak out and yell at him until he does it.
Oh my GOD! We fostered a litter of abandoned kittens until they were old enough to go into a rescue organization.
One of them pissed behind this ugly, God-awful desk in our carpeted office. There was then a piss war between them and the entire room smells disgusting:
I have been asking my husband (very nicely) to get rid of the desk for 2 months. "Honey, will you please make arrangements to have the desk removed from our office? It would really help me. I'm making your favorite dinner tonight! How many blowjobs would you like?" That's basically how it goes.
He'll barely acknowledge me and then never does it. I just want to clean/rip the carpets out of the room so I don't have to smell it.
He's leaving town for training next week and I asked him last week to have it removed before he leaves.
I asked him if he'd made arrangements today and he said he hadn't. I flipped the f**k out and started acting like a raving lunatic. I told him very clearly that I was sick of this motherf**kin desk in my motherf**kin house. He texted me an hour ago and told me it's being taken out tomorrow.
Why does the man make me turn into a shrew? I don't want to be one, I just want him to do his f**ling part.

You chose to do that. You could also have chosen to give it away on craigslist/ hire someone to drag it out to the garbage after the first weekend your husband didn't do it.

Hiring someone off Craigslist? What world are you living in? Great way to get yourself robbed or raped.

I didn't say hire someone off craigslist- I said give it away on craigslist. You're welcome.

For the bad advice? No thanks- you can keep it. That would still require a stranger waltzing through her home, presumably while she was the only one there, since her do-nothing husband surely won't care, and then dragging it out.

If you seriously think that's a good idea then you must either be very dumb or live in a very, very small town. Not DC.

Think a little bit out of the box. What if the OP asked some people to be there with her when the desk was picked up?! I know- it's blowing your mind, right?

So her husband has zero responsibility to move the damn thing, and it's up to OP to both hire and pay a moving company and then round up a friend group to protect her from the potential robbers/rapists?

LMAO. I would seriously hate to be you women.

You really read into a lot. I would hate to be you as well, because of your poor reading comprehension.

It really doesn't take a lot to see that you guys put up with a lot of shit and expect OP to do the same.

Sucks to be you.

You would be right, if anyone had said anything like that.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband WILL NOT do anything I ask him to do until I get so f**king tired of asking him that I freak out and yell at him until he does it.
Oh my GOD! We fostered a litter of abandoned kittens until they were old enough to go into a rescue organization.
One of them pissed behind this ugly, God-awful desk in our carpeted office. There was then a piss war between them and the entire room smells disgusting:
I have been asking my husband (very nicely) to get rid of the desk for 2 months. "Honey, will you please make arrangements to have the desk removed from our office? It would really help me. I'm making your favorite dinner tonight! How many blowjobs would you like?" That's basically how it goes.
He'll barely acknowledge me and then never does it. I just want to clean/rip the carpets out of the room so I don't have to smell it.
He's leaving town for training next week and I asked him last week to have it removed before he leaves.
I asked him if he'd made arrangements today and he said he hadn't. I flipped the f**k out and started acting like a raving lunatic. I told him very clearly that I was sick of this motherf**kin desk in my motherf**kin house. He texted me an hour ago and told me it's being taken out tomorrow.
Why does the man make me turn into a shrew? I don't want to be one, I just want him to do his f**ling part.

Uh...

Why didn't you get rid of the desk if it was so important to you.

Also your husband is not a child, you don't offer rewards for good behavior...seriously wtf?

He probably goes all passive aggressive just to piss you off because he doesn't like living with, as you said a raving lunatic.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband WILL NOT do anything I ask him to do until I get so f**king tired of asking him that I freak out and yell at him until he does it.
Oh my GOD! We fostered a litter of abandoned kittens until they were old enough to go into a rescue organization.
One of them pissed behind this ugly, God-awful desk in our carpeted office. There was then a piss war between them and the entire room smells disgusting:
I have been asking my husband (very nicely) to get rid of the desk for 2 months. "Honey, will you please make arrangements to have the desk removed from our office? It would really help me. I'm making your favorite dinner tonight! How many blowjobs would you like?" That's basically how it goes.
He'll barely acknowledge me and then never does it. I just want to clean/rip the carpets out of the room so I don't have to smell it.
He's leaving town for training next week and I asked him last week to have it removed before he leaves.
I asked him if he'd made arrangements today and he said he hadn't. I flipped the f**k out and started acting like a raving lunatic. I told him very clearly that I was sick of this motherf**kin desk in my motherf**kin house. He texted me an hour ago and told me it's being taken out tomorrow.
Why does the man make me turn into a shrew? I don't want to be one, I just want him to do his f**ling part.

You chose to do that. You could also have chosen to give it away on craigslist/ hire someone to drag it out to the garbage after the first weekend your husband didn't do it.

Hiring someone off Craigslist? What world are you living in? Great way to get yourself robbed or raped.

I didn't say hire someone off craigslist- I said give it away on craigslist. You're welcome.

For the bad advice? No thanks- you can keep it. That would still require a stranger waltzing through her home, presumably while she was the only one there, since her do-nothing husband surely won't care, and then dragging it out.

If you seriously think that's a good idea then you must either be very dumb or live in a very, very small town. Not DC.

Think a little bit out of the box. What if the OP asked some people to be there with her when the desk was picked up?! I know- it's blowing your mind, right?

So her husband has zero responsibility to move the damn thing, and it's up to OP to both hire and pay a moving company and then round up a friend group to protect her from the potential robbers/rapists?

LMAO. I would seriously hate to be you women.

You really read into a lot. I would hate to be you as well, because of your poor reading comprehension.

It really doesn't take a lot to see that you guys put up with a lot of shit and expect OP to do the same.

Sucks to be you.

You would be right, if anyone had said anything like that.

Oh please....

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Is this the only thing that;s happened like this recently? If so, OP, you do come off like a lunatic.

If, instead, it's typical, you might consider whether he has adult ADD.

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Anonymous wrote:My husband WILL NOT do anything I ask him to do until I get so f**king tired of asking him that I freak out and yell at him until he does it.
Oh my GOD! We fostered a litter of abandoned kittens until they were old enough to go into a rescue organization.
One of them pissed behind this ugly, God-awful desk in our carpeted office. There was then a piss war between them and the entire room smells disgusting:
I have been asking my husband (very nicely) to get rid of the desk for 2 months. "Honey, will you please make arrangements to have the desk removed from our office? It would really help me. I'm making your favorite dinner tonight! How many blowjobs would you like?" That's basically how it goes.
He'll barely acknowledge me and then never does it. I just want to clean/rip the carpets out of the room so I don't have to smell it.
He's leaving town for training next week and I asked him last week to have it removed before he leaves.
I asked him if he'd made arrangements today and he said he hadn't. I flipped the f**k out and started acting like a raving lunatic. I told him very clearly that I was sick of this motherf**kin desk in my motherf**kin house. He texted me an hour ago and told me it's being taken out tomorrow.
Why does the man make me turn into a shrew? I don't want to be one, I just want him to do his f**ling part.

You chose to do that. You could also have chosen to give it away on craigslist/ hire someone to drag it out to the garbage after the first weekend your husband didn't do it.

Hiring someone off Craigslist? What world are you living in? Great way to get yourself robbed or raped.

I didn't say hire someone off craigslist- I said give it away on craigslist. You're welcome.

For the bad advice? No thanks- you can keep it. That would still require a stranger waltzing through her home, presumably while she was the only one there, since her do-nothing husband surely won't care, and then dragging it out.

If you seriously think that's a good idea then you must either be very dumb or live in a very, very small town. Not DC.

NP here. I use craigslist all the time to buy or sell stuff. It's a great way to get rid of unwanted furniture. If you think the few people that have had bad experiences are representative of Craigslist as a whole than I'm sorry, but you are a nutcase. Don't use escalators either PP, didn't you know you can fall through them?? Seriously, some people lol

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Anonymous wrote:My husband WILL NOT do anything I ask him to do until I get so f**king tired of asking him that I freak out and yell at him until he does it.
Oh my GOD! We fostered a litter of abandoned kittens until they were old enough to go into a rescue organization.
One of them pissed behind this ugly, God-awful desk in our carpeted office. There was then a piss war between them and the entire room smells disgusting:
I have been asking my husband (very nicely) to get rid of the desk for 2 months. "Honey, will you please make arrangements to have the desk removed from our office? It would really help me. I'm making your favorite dinner tonight! How many blowjobs would you like?" That's basically how it goes.
He'll barely acknowledge me and then never does it. I just want to clean/rip the carpets out of the room so I don't have to smell it.
He's leaving town for training next week and I asked him last week to have it removed before he leaves.
I asked him if he'd made arrangements today and he said he hadn't. I flipped the f**k out and started acting like a raving lunatic. I told him very clearly that I was sick of this motherf**kin desk in my motherf**kin house. He texted me an hour ago and told me it's being taken out tomorrow.
Why does the man make me turn into a shrew? I don't want to be one, I just want him to do his f**ling part.

You chose to do that. You could also have chosen to give it away on craigslist/ hire someone to drag it out to the garbage after the first weekend your husband didn't do it.

Hiring someone off Craigslist? What world are you living in? Great way to get yourself robbed or raped.

I didn't say hire someone off craigslist- I said give it away on craigslist. You're welcome.

For the bad advice? No thanks- you can keep it. That would still require a stranger waltzing through her home, presumably while she was the only one there, since her do-nothing husband surely won't care, and then dragging it out.

If you seriously think that's a good idea then you must either be very dumb or live in a very, very small town. Not DC.

NP here. I use craigslist all the time to buy or sell stuff. It's a great way to get rid of unwanted furniture. If you think the few people that have had bad experiences are representative of Craigslist as a whole than I'm sorry, but you are a nutcase. Don't use escalators either PP, didn't you know you can fall through them?? Seriously, some people lol

Sure. Using craigslist once in w while is alright. But if you dont meet someone in a safe, public place- then you're a fool. And you're DEFINITELY a fool if you bring them to your home and give them a tour while leading them to the office to move your furniture. Anyone with a brain and any street smarts at all knows that.

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OP: your acting like a victim. Knock it the hell off. You wanted this act done so you don't get to dictate the act, lay out the timeline, get sympathy for being a victim and throw yourself on the cross for your final act.

BTW this is some seriously petty shit and you are behaving in like someone who is very insecure and immature. BE A GROWN UP. SOLVE YOUR OWN PROBLEMS.

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Sure. Using craigslist once in w while is alright. But if you dont meet someone in a safe, public place- then you're a fool. And you're DEFINITELY a fool if you bring them to your home and give them a tour while leading them to the office to move your furniture. Anyone with a brain and any street smarts at all knows that.

Nope, you just sound incredibly paranoid or you live in a very bad area. You can usually weed out the crazies, it's not like you have to deal with everyone that responds to your ad. Most people on Craigslist are not criminals, shocking I know.

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I stopped taking this thread seriously when the op said she trades sexual favors for chores...go to therapy imo

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Why are so many people scared of Craigslist LOL. Most of the people that use it are just like me when I use it, honest people that are looking for a good deal. Not criminals looking to stake out their next robbery lmao. These must be he same people that get scared whenever there is a Muslim on their flight. Unless your the type of person using one of the shadier subs of craigslist, like the hookup section, than you have nothing to worry about.

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Whoops pp here, Should have been "then"

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Sure. Using craigslist once in w while is alright. But if you dont meet someone in a safe, public place- then you're a fool. And you're DEFINITELY a fool if you bring them to your home and give them a tour while leading them to the office to move your furniture. Anyone with a brain and any street smarts at all knows that.

Nope, you just sound incredibly paranoid or you live in a very bad area. You can usually weed out the crazies, it's not like you have to deal with everyone that responds to your ad. Most people on Craigslist are not criminals, shocking I know.

Nope, I live in a great area. Which is why i don't invited strangers over to case out the neighborhood and my home.

Plenty of criminals aren't on craigslist.

Again, the naiveté is staggering....

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^oops aren't = are

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Why don't you just shut the hell up and relax?

If what you want done is a huge urgent priority TO YOU -- then YOU SHOULD DO IT.