Affluent people with dirty/messy houses

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Anonymous wrote:^^ and, I should add that they’re definitely not embarrassed. They couldn’t care less.

Yep. When we visit, we bring extra shoes because one of my kids will inevitably step into dog poop. They also refuse to use the dishwasher, so they "wash" (barely rinse) all the dishes in dirty soapy water and then they let them air dry. Almost all the forks and knives have old, nasty, crusty food leftovers from who knows when.

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Anonymous wrote:What’s with these people? They could easily pay the 200-400 a month for a cleaning service but are too cheap and too lazy to clean themselves so they allow their houses to become disgusting and unkempt. Don’t they feel embarrassed?

I've never met someone like this. It makes me wonder what your level of "disgusting and unkempt" means? Some dust on the coffee table and a few clothes strewn on a side chair?

Yep, this is it. Also dirty kitchens and bathrooms, cats and cat litter or cat hair on countertops and tables. Smelly houses in general from not airing the house daily or changing the sheets often enough. My ILs change their sheets every 2 weeks and don't air out the house that much, so their house smells like old people and dogs. Musty, dirty or damp towels in the powder room. No liner in the bathroom trash, so they throw all the nasty stuff (panty liners, dirty tissues, used floss) directly in the can and the trash can reeks. Mine also never clean up the trash can in the kitchen and they let the trash sit there for a week and the smell is overwhelming.

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Anonymous wrote:My ILs are super wealthy with cleaning service but they are incredibly dirty, so it's never clean enough even with the service. They wait for the gardener to pick up the dog poop from the yard and they have 3 huge dogs. They wear shoes indoors, they let the dogs on the furniture etc.

Taking off shoes to come indoors is very annoying when you aren’t wearing slip ons. What about when you need to go back and forth to load things in/out of the car?

No, it's not. You just bring everything by the door, go inside and then take your shoes off.

https://www.bobvila.com/slideshow/7-reasons-to-be-a-no-shoes-house-53098

That’s a good system but what about when I leave my wallet in my upstairs bedroom?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:We have a cleaning service so our house isn’t dirty. It does get cluttered / untidy though. The #1 reason we have a cleaning service is to force ourselves to tidy up before they come.

Yep, same here. It forces us to organize everything.

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I know plenty of well off people. Most don't take shoes off indoors. Their houses are fine. Even with dogs and cats.

It seems the world is divided into those who take shoes off and those who don't. The nasty secret is that everyone is just as healthy and clean either way. But do what makes you happy. We take shoes of but we don't think lesser of those who don't and think them dirtier.

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Anonymous wrote:My ILs are super wealthy with cleaning service but they are incredibly dirty, so it's never clean enough even with the service. They wait for the gardener to pick up the dog poop from the yard and they have 3 huge dogs. They wear shoes indoors, they let the dogs on the furniture etc.

Omg…My in laws are like this too, they live on 10 plus acres in Middleburg and have four huge furry drooly dogs so everything has a weird crust of dog drool and fur even with cleaners and there’s tons of poop in the yard. They also have horses.

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Anonymous wrote:We have a cleaning service so our house isn’t dirty. It does get cluttered / untidy though. The #1 reason we have a cleaning service is to force ourselves to tidy up before they come.

And we wear socks or slippers in the house but don’t mind if people wear shoes since the floors get cleaned once a week.

All of our kids’ friends take their shoes off though. It’s common in our friend group.

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Anonymous wrote:My ILs are super wealthy with cleaning service but they are incredibly dirty, so it's never clean enough even with the service. They wait for the gardener to pick up the dog poop from the yard and they have 3 huge dogs. They wear shoes indoors, they let the dogs on the furniture etc.

Omg…My in laws are like this too, they live on 10 plus acres in Middleburg and have four huge furry drooly dogs so everything has a weird crust of dog drool and fur even with cleaners and there’s tons of poop in the yard. They also have horses.

Yes! Hunting dogs? Mine were raised (by wolves) in boarding schools (St. Mark's and Andover) with absent parents so they never learned housekeeping. And they are buzzed most of the time, so it's hard to notice the mess after 1 or 2 or 3 bottles of wine. I found poop on the toilet seat in their powder room - they were waiting for the crew to clean it up. They don't have ANY cleaning supplies in the house, other than dishwashing liquid and dishwasher tabs.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn’t say we are affluent, but we could easily afford a cleaning service. But I am lazy and tired. I’m a SAHM with little kids, DH works long hours, house is always super cluttered and I can’t deal with tidying up before the maid comes. Did it for year when we just had one kid, but I just don’t have the time or energy at the moment. Plus with Covid, we hang out at home all the time and there aren’t as many places I am comfortable to go to hang out for hours while someone cleans.

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My house becomes a disaster in 7 hours.

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:My ILs are super wealthy with cleaning service but they are incredibly dirty, so it's never clean enough even with the service. They wait for the gardener to pick up the dog poop from the yard and they have 3 huge dogs. They wear shoes indoors, they let the dogs on the furniture etc.

Taking off shoes to come indoors is very annoying when you aren’t wearing slip ons. What about when you need to go back and forth to load things in/out of the car?

No, it's not. You just bring everything by the door, go inside and then take your shoes off.

https://www.bobvila.com/slideshow/7-reasons-to-be-a-no-shoes-house-53098

That’s a good system but what about when I leave my wallet in my upstairs bedroom?

Then you take off your shoes to go get it. Adds 2 min to the process. And how often are you forgetting anyway?

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Ew so many lazy and disgusting people on this thread. Including the SAHM who lives in filth

[Anonymous]

My house is tidy and picked up but not clean. I don't get to wash the kitchen floor every week. I don't even wash the sheets every two weeks, more like monthly, though the beds are made daily. It’s fine. We vacuum regularly and have a hair dog and cat. Plus I've tried with the no shoes policy but people often leaves theirs on, especially from going from the front door through the back, where our garage is.

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There is a difference between dirty and cluttered.

My family of 4 lives in a tiny home where we cannot actually put away everything that needs to be put away. It's always cluttered, despite a minimalist outlook.

We take off our shoes, clean weekly, etc, but it's still terribly, terribly cluttered. And that makes it hard to clean, which is such a pain.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:My house is tidy and picked up but not clean. I don't get to wash the kitchen floor every week. I don't even wash the sheets every two weeks, more like monthly, though the beds are made daily. It’s fine. We vacuum regularly and have a hair dog and cat. Plus I've tried with the no shoes policy but people often leaves theirs on, especially from going from the front door through the back, where our garage is.

Don't you have sex in bed?