husband called the cops - need divorce lawyer

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So, he isn't threatening the kids with violence, if that makes any difference. It's unspecified but I think threats are against me and destruction of my stuff.

Not wanting to feed your child is violent. Plain and clear.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I still don’t understand shuttling the baby back and forth three separate times when you could’ve just fed him. You knew he turned off the monitor, you knew he refused to feed him last time, you knew he wasn’t going to do it - yet you kept plopping a crying hungry baby on DH’s bed.

Not blaming you for his actions, but until you get this divorce settled, I wouldn’t be provoking him.

honestly I would document the hell out of the fact that he's refusing to take care of his own child

[Anonymous]

So threatening Violence (im assuming hitting) is ok????
Im a guy and I think that's wrong. You should leave based on that alone; it doesn't sound like it's a one time thing. No reason for a man to threaten violence to HIS Partner. Smh that's backwards. Sorry that you're in this situation, you sound like a very sweet person and unfortunately that makes you easy target for people like that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:There’s no reason to set up cameras to prove whatever. Just get separated. You don’t need to do all the crazy stuff to blame each other for it. Will he want 50/50? It’s a good thing you have a job.

I mean, he'll say he wants 50/50, but I don't think he really wants to spend that much time with the kids, it'd more be so I don't "win". He can't handle doing his part with me around.

Exactly. This is why he will NOT say he wants 50/50. He'll say he wants 100% custody because he wants to "win". Has nothing to do with doing his part. He will give them to his mom or whatever other woman he can rope into taking care of them. He wants to win and dominate you. There is no better way than threatening to take a woman's children away. REmember, you were the one who looked unhinged before the cops.

Yes; and in addition to this, men often fight for sole custody for the very basic reason that they do not want to pay child support. He will see this as winning, plus a way to save $.

[Anonymous]

I’d also suggest you check in with your friend (assuming they can be quiet) about the incident where your husband handled your three year old roughly. Ask her to write down her notes from that episode in case it comes up in court.