<vent> Why does DH always think we'll have sex when he comes back from business trips?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Like everything compromise. A lot of us are over it like many things. You know like in-laws, steps, etc. but you go and put on a good face.
Think of it like that.

Sounds like you think "Compromise" means the DW does what her husband wants. You need to learn the real definition

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Like everything compromise. A lot of us are over it like many things. You know like in-laws, steps, etc. but you go and put on a good face.
Think of it like that.

No, sorry it's not like that. I like sex because it fulfills my own physical desires. I want my husband to want me physically as well. It's no secret, many people enjoy sex, without regard to outside factors from our day.

- married 16 years

[Anonymous]

"Lie back and think of England!"

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Why are you over sex?

Get me out of the house, to a hotel and I am game. Doing it in the marital bed, with the kids in the next room, with the same person, with a ton of things on my mind. Not so much. Oh, and I have an O every time, my husband is good at that department.

I totally understand the appeal of lesbian bed death.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Why are you over sex?

Get me out of the house, to a hotel and I am game. Doing it in the marital bed, with the kids in the next room, with the same person, with a ton of things on my mind. Not so much. Oh, and I have an O every time, my husband is good at that department.

I totally understand the appeal of lesbian bed death.

Well hell, you aren't dead yet, spice things up. I won't get explicit, but obviously there are other places and ways to get the job done. Have an affair with your husband!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Like everything compromise. A lot of us are over it like many things. You know like in-laws, steps, etc. but you go and put on a good face.
Think of it like that.

Sounds like you think "Compromise" means the DW does what her husband wants. You need to learn the real definition

What's that? That the husband does what the wife wants?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Like everything compromise. A lot of us are over it like many things. You know like in-laws, steps, etc. but you go and put on a good face.
Think of it like that.

Sounds like you think "Compromise" means the DW does what her husband wants. You need to learn the real definition

What's that? That the husband does what the wife wants?

Awwww, someone doesn't like it when the shoe's on the other foot!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Why are you over sex?

Get me out of the house, to a hotel and I am game. Doing it in the marital bed, with the kids in the next room, with the same person, with a ton of things on my mind. Not so much. Oh, and I have an O every time, my husband is good at that department.

I totally understand the appeal of lesbian bed death.

This is my wife.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Why are you over sex?

Get me out of the house, to a hotel and I am game. Doing it in the marital bed, with the kids in the next room, with the same person, with a ton of things on my mind. Not so much. Oh, and I have an O every time, my husband is good at that department.

I totally understand the appeal of lesbian bed death.

+100000

It's awesome to go through life not constantly jonesing for sex. 10/10 would recommend

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

There is no secret. I have a libido.... That was God given. When sex was once a week we did not blame each other. When we are tired we don't expect obligatory sex. When somebody would rather take a nap, they take a nap and nobody pouts about it. When somebody was taking too long for bed time routine we were thankful they loved the kids instead of pouting that we were 2nd fiddle. Sex did not define us or our relationship. We enjoy lots of things we don't get every day, we don't bitch about it.

If your a dick/bitch that day, most likely there is no sex. Hence, don't be a dick/bitch.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Why are you over sex?

Get me out of the house, to a hotel and I am game. Doing it in the marital bed, with the kids in the next room, with the same person, with a ton of things on my mind. Not so much. Oh, and I have an O every time, my husband is good at that department.

I totally understand the appeal of lesbian bed death.

Are you serious? The sex is good you have an O every time and you are over sex??? I really don't get that. I miss having sex so much (div.) and think you are so lucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Like everything compromise. A lot of us are over it like many things. You know like in-laws, steps, etc. but you go and put on a good face.
Think of it like that.

Sounds like you think "Compromise" means the DW does what her husband wants. You need to learn the real definition

What's that? That the husband does what the wife wants?

Awwww, someone doesn't like it when the shoe's on the other foot!

I don't understand what you're saying. Compromise is when both people give a little. You're saying the wife giving any isn't compromise. I'm a woman in a healthy relationship. I get compromise. I don't get how never having sex when your partner wants it is compromising, which is what you seem to be implying.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:For all you couples who still want to have sex with each other, I am dying to know your secret.

- a DW who is over sex.

Why are you over sex?

Get me out of the house, to a hotel and I am game. Doing it in the marital bed, with the kids in the next room, with the same person, with a ton of things on my mind. Not so much. Oh, and I have an O every time, my husband is good at that department.

I totally understand the appeal of lesbian bed death.

Are you serious? The sex is good you have an O every time and you are over sex??? I really don't get that. I miss having sex so much (div.) and think you are so lucky.

What is stopping you, did you lose both hands in an accident?

[Anonymous]

What is with people who think that masturbation fulfills all the same needs that loving sex does?!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am a wife, and I can't imagine not having sex with my husband the first night I am home from a business trip. Time to push past that fatigue, lady. And we have been together over 20 years, so I'm neither young nor in a new marriage.

Winner!