Woman of color who prefers white men

[Anonymous]

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A PP made a valid point about your future children. I would hope that you have only daughters but then you might teach them to also think like you. There are Black men who speak just as poorly as you do of Black women and you all come across as wounded people pretending to be unbothered. I'm sure you've met some real assholes who are also Black men. Was every man in your family a piece of filth as well? What about Dr. King? (I'd mention Obama, but you'd probably credit his White side.) Like it or not, your son will be viewed as a Black man and he will have to deal with other people's (often negative) perceptions of what his capabilities are. It would be nice if he doesn't have a Black mother who isn't also inherently biased as well.

Uhh, notorious philanderer.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hats off to white men.
They are the epitome of perfection in a partner for women of every ethnicity.
Damn...if only people of color were more proactive and persistent in invading foreign soils raping enslaving exploiting and outright eliminating non-whites, maybe men of African or Asian or Native American descent could be as admired and adored.

This post says it all....sad but true. We can't change the past, only move forward.

Well, non-whites have been doing this in the Middle East, Africa and Latin America for ages...and I do mean ages. Violence has never been limited to one race.

Oh I'm not talking about violence, I'm talking about using the psychology of persuasion and propaganda to alter perception. I mean think about it, white men went out and conquered other countries and continents with guns blazing wiping out indigenous peoples en masse and those they didn't kill they conquered mentally by dehumanizing and denigrating the oppressed so severely that the conquered became convinced of the superiority and sovereignty of white men and ended up believing they were indeed lesser beings in comparison. You got non-white people all over the world to this day worshipping white men despite all the hell and horror they have inflicted because the subliminal psychological suggestions embedded in their psyche has been that prevalent and persistent. That's some deep shit.

Lol no that's quite alright I'll pass.


You've convinced me. Now let's go burn down Baltimore.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hats off to white men.
They are the epitome of perfection in a partner for women of every ethnicity.
Damn...if only people of color were more proactive and persistent in invading foreign soils raping enslaving exploiting and outright eliminating non-whites, maybe men of African or Asian or Native American descent could be as admired and adored.

Yeah cause everyone knows people of color aren't constantly slaughtering each other in Africa because we're too fucking stupid to bother to actually learn about whst's going on in the world before we spew on the internet.

Which is exactly why I have to hand it to white men they've managed to do all kinds of despicable shit and still maintain a positive magnetic image that has women of every ethnicity enthralled with them while non-whites are marginalized, criminalized, and demonized for similar behavior. Gotta give credit where credit is due.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hats off to white men.
They are the epitome of perfection in a partner for women of every ethnicity.
Damn...if only people of color were more proactive and persistent in invading foreign soils raping enslaving exploiting and outright eliminating non-whites, maybe men of African or Asian or Native American descent could be as admired and adored.

Yeah cause everyone knows people of color aren't constantly slaughtering each other in Africa because we're too fucking stupid to bother to actually learn about whst's going on in the world before we spew on the internet.

Which is exactly why I have to hand it to white men they've managed to do all kinds of despicable shit and still maintain a positive magnetic image that has women of every ethnicity enthralled with them while non-whites are marginalized, criminalized, and demonized for similar behavior. Gotta give credit where credit is due.

White men (at least Americans) are perceived as more egalitarian and respectful of women. Black men are seen as macho and old-fashioned when it comes to gender roles.

Some women like the former, some prefer the latter.

[Anonymous]

I don't agree that white men have such a positive image. Any history book that was written since around the 1970s is basically a catalog of How YT Effed Everything Up. Old White Males are probably the most hated demographic in the world and are used as the scapegoat for basically all modern social ills by various groups and world leaders.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Hats off to white men.
They are the epitome of perfection in a partner for women of every ethnicity.
Damn...if only people of color were more proactive and persistent in invading foreign soils raping enslaving exploiting and outright eliminating non-whites, maybe men of African or Asian or Native American descent could be as admired and adored.

Yeah cause everyone knows people of color aren't constantly slaughtering each other in Africa because we're too fucking stupid to bother to actually learn about whst's going on in the world before we spew on the internet.

Which is exactly why I have to hand it to white men they've managed to do all kinds of despicable shit and still maintain a positive magnetic image that has women of every ethnicity enthralled with them while non-whites are marginalized, criminalized, and demonized for similar behavior. Gotta give credit where credit is due.

White men (at least Americans) are perceived as more egalitarian and respectful of women. Black men are seen as macho and old-fashioned when it comes to gender roles.

Some women like the former, some prefer the latter.

Well like Andre Agassi used to say in those 80's Canon commercials, "Image is everything."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don't agree that white men have such a positive image. Any history book that was written since around the 1970s is basically a catalog of How YT Effed Everything Up. Old White Males are probably the most hated demographic in the world and are used as the scapegoat for basically all modern social ills by various groups and world leaders.

Maybe so, but white men are still more beloved and sought after by women worldwide than anyone else. Can't knock the hustle.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder how white women feel about white men going for nonwhite women. I have definitely been hurt by losing a few white female friends who just couldn't believe that white men they found attractive wanted and preferred dark "exotic" me. No one told them that Disney movies aren't real, lol.

The dagger stares I received from some white women who saw me out with my various nonwhite girlfriends (African American and Asian) over the years still haunt me.

White women definitely care. They react very poorly to any indication that they are not the gold standard. I have had white waitresses "accidentally" spill water on me or refuse to look at me when taking my order. I have had white female coworkers ask very rude questions like "do you think he has a fetish?" To these women, a man of color dating a white woman is normal, but a white man dating a woman of color must have an unhealthy fetish. Okay then.

White woman here. I had no idea that some white women hated seeing women of color date white men. I do think a lot of white guys have an Asian fetish which creeps me out and makes me glad I'm not an Asian woman dealing with that but generally I don't care who a white guy dates.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't agree that white men have such a positive image. Any history book that was written since around the 1970s is basically a catalog of How YT Effed Everything Up. Old White Males are probably the most hated demographic in the world and are used as the scapegoat for basically all modern social ills by various groups and world leaders.

Maybe so, but white men are still more beloved and sought after by women worldwide than anyone else. Can't knock the hustle.

Sought after, maybe. Beloved? I don't know.

Money talks. That's the "secret." White guys are "sought after" because of the perception that they have money and "privilege." If Filipino men had a reputation for being rich and powerful and controlling the world, then women would be after Filipinos. When white males stop having money and power we'll see how beloved and sought after we are.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't agree that white men have such a positive image. Any history book that was written since around the 1970s is basically a catalog of How YT Effed Everything Up. Old White Males are probably the most hated demographic in the world and are used as the scapegoat for basically all modern social ills by various groups and world leaders.

Maybe so, but white men are still more beloved and sought after by women worldwide than anyone else. Can't knock the hustle.

Sought after, maybe. Beloved? I don't know.

Money talks. That's the "secret." White guys are "sought after" because of the perception that they have money and "privilege." If Filipino men had a reputation for being rich and powerful and controlling the world, then women would be after Filipinos. When white males stop having money and power we'll see how beloved and sought after we are.

Yup, that's it. In the U.S. because of history, institutions, laws, policy and a host of other bullshit, white men are and have been privileged. If and when things change, you will see more diversity in many areas, more eligible gentlemen of all hues, and the corresponding ratio of assholes in all stripes. So, all women be forewarned...

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Hats off to white men.
They are the epitome of perfection in a partner for women of every ethnicity.
Damn...if only people of color were more proactive and persistent in invading foreign soils raping enslaving exploiting and outright eliminating non-whites, maybe men of African or Asian or Native American descent could be as admired and adored.

Yeah cause everyone knows people of color aren't constantly slaughtering each other in Africa because we're too fucking stupid to bother to actually learn about whst's going on in the world before we spew on the internet.

Which is exactly why I have to hand it to white men they've managed to do all kinds of despicable shit and still maintain a positive magnetic image that has women of every ethnicity enthralled with them while non-whites are marginalized, criminalized, and demonized for similar behavior. Gotta give credit where credit is due.

White men (at least Americans) are perceived as more egalitarian and respectful of women. Black men are seen as macho and old-fashioned when it comes to gender roles.

Some women like the former, some prefer the latter.

Good thing people date individual human beings with unique individual characteristics, instead of dating an abstract notion like skin color

[Anonymous]

NP here: Latina married to a white man. A Southern white man at that.

Never expected to be - I dated and had LTRs with foreign men and Latinos and blacks. I really kind of avoided white men as a rule, as I harbored negative stereotypes based on my unfortunate experiences (including, indeed, being fetishized by white men because of my Latino background).

Life is funny that way, I guess.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I don't agree that white men have such a positive image. Any history book that was written since around the 1970s is basically a catalog of How YT Effed Everything Up. Old White Males are probably the most hated demographic in the world and are used as the scapegoat for basically all modern social ills by various groups and world leaders.

Maybe so, but white men are still more beloved and sought after by women worldwide than anyone else. Can't knock the hustle.

Sought after, maybe. Beloved? I don't know.

Money talks. That's the "secret." White guys are "sought after" because of the perception that they have money and "privilege." If Filipino men had a reputation for being rich and powerful and controlling the world, then women would be after Filipinos. When white males stop having money and power we'll see how beloved and sought after we are.

I don't think beloved is a stretch. There was a thread in the Entertainment and Pop Culture Forum not to long ago where ladies were naming their crushes from the Silver Screen. There were mentions of Marlon Brando, James Dean, Clark Gable, Cary Grant, Gene Kelly, and Paul Newman...the list went on and on without a single mention of anyone non-white and you know why, because discrimination excluded non-whites as leading men in Hollywood and thus the prototype of the perfect male was established which had one primary prerequisite --- he was white. Women across the country and around the globe swooned the hunks on screen while subliminal media persuasion and propaganda planted in their minds the standard for success and attractiveness in a man and it remains the standard to this day.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:NP here: Latina married to a white man. A Southern white man at that.

Never expected to be - I dated and had LTRs with foreign men and Latinos and blacks. I really kind of avoided white men as a rule, as I harbored negative stereotypes based on my unfortunate experiences (including, indeed, being fetishized by white men because of my Latino background).

Life is funny that way, I guess.

Glad to see you overcame your racist anti-white upbringing, unlike so many other anti-white racists posting here who are too stupid and racist to realize it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wonder how white women feel about white men going for nonwhite women. I have definitely been hurt by losing a few white female friends who just couldn't believe that white men they found attractive wanted and preferred dark "exotic" me. No one told them that Disney movies aren't real, lol.

The dagger stares I received from some white women who saw me out with my various nonwhite girlfriends (African American and Asian) over the years still haunt me.

White women definitely care. They react very poorly to any indication that they are not the gold standard. I have had white waitresses "accidentally" spill water on me or refuse to look at me when taking my order. I have had white female coworkers ask very rude questions like "do you think he has a fetish?" To these women, a man of color dating a white woman is normal, but a white man dating a woman of color must have an unhealthy fetish. Okay then.

White woman here. I had no idea that some white women hated seeing women of color date white men. I do think a lot of white guys have an Asian fetish which creeps me out and makes me glad I'm not an Asian woman dealing with that but generally I don't care who a white guy dates.

Typical ww underhanded comment. You just proved pp's point.