Woman of color who prefers white men

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am glad this has been your experience, but it has definitely not been mine. Both stats and my real life experiences and the experiences of my friends who have dated black men confirm that there is a real crisis of misogyny, promiscuity and all around classless behavior among black men. I am not going to disregard my real life experience in order to please you. As I said before, the behaviors of black men that I describe are cultural and I can decide not to raise my son to behave in such ways.

When you cite unnamed "stats" you're basically arguing that you're racist because it's okay because racism is somehow justified. Fuck off, you've got nothing in the way of evidence and nobody is buying your horseshit.

[Anonymous]

Ugh, OP decided to reproduce and raise her son with this racist bs? foh

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder how white women feel about white men going for nonwhite women. I have definitely been hurt by losing a few white female friends who just couldn't believe that white men they found attractive wanted and preferred dark "exotic" me. No one told them that Disney movies aren't real, lol.

I seriously have ZERO opinions on the matter. There is no shortage of good white men to go around.

[Anonymous]

Believe me, I've seen with my own 2 eyes that some (not all) white women will get blood boiling angry if a white man is interested in a woman of any color except them.

As far as I'm concerned, date whoever you want to date. It's no one's business who you choose to be in a relationship with no matter what color.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Believe me, I've seen with my own 2 eyes that some (not all) white women will get blood boiling angry if a white man is interested in a woman of any color except them.

As far as I'm concerned, date whoever you want to date. It's no one's business who you choose to be in a relationship with no matter what color.

Yes, it happens. I've received a glare and racist comment from a white woman when I (Asian) was with my DH (white). I've also heard negative comments from some Asian men about Asian women dating white men. It probably happens in every race.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Believe me, I've seen with my own 2 eyes that some (not all) white women will get blood boiling angry if a white man is interested in a woman of any color except them.

As far as I'm concerned, date whoever you want to date. It's no one's business who you choose to be in a relationship with no matter what color.

I've never seen that. Maybe because I'm a DC native and there are so many mixed race couples.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I wonder how white women feel about white men going for nonwhite women. I have definitely been hurt by losing a few white female friends who just couldn't believe that white men they found attractive wanted and preferred dark "exotic" me. No one told them that Disney movies aren't real, lol.

The dagger stares I received from some white women who saw me out with my various nonwhite girlfriends (African American and Asian) over the years still haunt me.

[Anonymous]

Op, you sound ugly, inside and out. Expand your circle!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wonder how white women feel about white men going for nonwhite women. I have definitely been hurt by losing a few white female friends who just couldn't believe that white men they found attractive wanted and preferred dark "exotic" me. No one told them that Disney movies aren't real, lol.

It sounds like you want to believe white women are upset about this. We aren't. Go for it! I'm not seething about what race a white man dates. If he's not dating me, I don't care and hope everybody's happy.

+1

[Anonymous]

OP sounds hurt and rejected. I hope that she eventually gets some help. I have no problem with her marrying or preferring to date white men but she will come into contact with men from all races in the future (at work and socially).

I really feel sorry for her.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, you sound ugly, inside and out. Expand your circle!

She's not...she's stating the truth.

[Anonymous]

Why does the same poster keep attacking? Do we have angry black men here?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you sound hurt and like you have unresolved issues with Black men. If you're happily engaged, enjoy it. Why are you focused on what's lacking in men other than your future husband?

Yes! If ever a thread needed a "cool story bro" it's this one.

[Anonymous]

Op here and I have no idea why some people to whom this thread presumably does not apply are posting ad hominems repeatedly. If you think black men are great, then go date one. If you disapprove of interracial dating, then date intraracially. Save the rest of your drama for someone who cares.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, you're a piece of work. While I am glad you've found your Prince Charming, your prejudice against black men is truly disgusting. I hope you seek therapy if you decide to have children, as any sons of yours will someday be black men.

Why are you saying her kids will be black as if you think it's a curse?