Divorced women in their 40s seem to be doing better in the dating market

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

😂. This so funny. Cute though. It's true most men cannot resist a woman's charm. And some women are ridiculously charming. Why do you think 80 years old signing over their entire wealth to their new younger bride is more common than women doing so? Female attraction is the answer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced

As a 45 years old man I completely agree with your post. What you said about women and meaningful love is very true. I'll admit that as a divorced man. I don't think I have my ex the kind of love she deserved not because I am a bad person it is what it is. However I am not damaged though lol. Am I stressed? Oh hell yes. Why? Child support, alimony, elderly parents, college savings, midlife crisis, some health issues despite being fit and active you name it. I have a lot of sh**t going with me. And also raising our teens (2 boys going though the typical teenage years). Dating is out of the question for me.I don't have room in my brain for another woman.

My ex wife though she is receiving good alimony and child support, I let them keep the house, and she has a lot of love to offer. So I can see her going with a younger man and being happier. I don't have any anger in me. I wish happiness to everyone.

When a woman loves you she does everything for you it's crazy. All she talks about is you. When she sees you she is happy etc.

But some.of us men who are very high earning and work a lot unfortunately neglect our wives. I never cheated on her but I never reciprocated the love she had for me. So when she requested divorce i wasn't surprised and I made the process as easy as possible.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced

The reality is, while some older women may be attracted to younger men, the dynamic typically works the other way around—older men with younger women. Biology plays a significant role here. Men can remain fertile well into their 50s and beyond, which makes them more likely to seek younger partners who are still in their prime fertility years. Women, on the other hand, experience menopause, and their ability to have children diminishes, which is why we rarely see older women in relationships with much younger men.

It’s also important to recognize that younger men usually seek partners who align with their life stage, focusing on shared goals like building a family. Older men, however, are often attracted to younger women because of their vitality, and youth, and the potential for starting a family—biological factors still play a significant role in these dynamics. So, while older women might date younger men occasionally, it’s far less common than older men dating younger women. The stats back this up, with large age-gap relationships between older men and younger women being far more prevalent.

In short, biology gives older men an advantage in dating younger women, while it’s much rarer to see older women consistently dating much younger men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think it has more to do with the women that divorced men in their 40s are looking for. These men often want women in their 30s. These women though are looking for single never married men.

If these men go for women in their 50s they will find plenty of options.

Divorced women in their 40s are just lucky with timing. The younger men they want don't want anything serious. So it works for both.

Uh, yeah. Men refer to these as “pump and dumps”—it’s not something to be bragging about.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced

As a 45 years old man I completely agree with your post. What you said about women and meaningful love is very true. I'll admit that as a divorced man. I don't think I have my ex the kind of love she deserved not because I am a bad person it is what it is. However I am not damaged though lol. Am I stressed? Oh hell yes. Why? Child support, alimony, elderly parents, college savings, midlife crisis, some health issues despite being fit and active you name it. I have a lot of sh**t going with me. And also raising our teens (2 boys going though the typical teenage years). Dating is out of the question for me.I don't have room in my brain for another woman.

My ex wife though she is receiving good alimony and child support, I let them keep the house, and she has a lot of love to offer. So I can see her going with a younger man and being happier. I don't have any anger in me. I wish happiness to everyone.

When a woman loves you she does everything for you it's crazy. All she talks about is you. When she sees you she is happy etc.

But some.of us men who are very high earning and work a lot unfortunately neglect our wives. I never cheated on her but I never reciprocated the love she had for me. So when she requested divorce i wasn't surprised and I made the process as easy as possible.

This why single ladies be careful before marrying a very high earning man. Yes the stability and money is good but these men as PP himself admitted are sometimes not the kind of partner to be there for you emotionally. PP was fair in his shortcomings but some of these men can be very vengeful as well and make the divorce process hell. His ex wife dodged a bullet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

Haha I left my 15 years older exH when I was early 40s. Best decision of my life!

These 40s women give you a side glance because you look like her dad

[Anonymous]

Divorced women in their 40s are overall on average less likely to seek to date very much and more likely to focus on their children, their jobs, their other interests, themselves. Newly divorced men on average do less well with being single. More and more women are successfully having children in their late 30s or even 40s and it is raising the question of whether the conventional wisdom that female fertility falls completely off a cliff at 35 is partly socialized. There is a cohort of 20-something men who pursue substantially older and successfully/secure women. I am not totally sure what trends/motivations are driving that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced

The reality is, while some older women may be attracted to younger men, the dynamic typically works the other way around—older men with younger women. Biology plays a significant role here. Men can remain fertile well into their 50s and beyond, which makes them more likely to seek younger partners who are still in their prime fertility years. Women, on the other hand, experience menopause, and their ability to have children diminishes, which is why we rarely see older women in relationships with much younger men.

It’s also important to recognize that younger men usually seek partners who align with their life stage, focusing on shared goals like building a family. Older men, however, are often attracted to younger women because of their vitality, and youth, and the potential for starting a family—biological factors still play a significant role in these dynamics. So, while older women might date younger men occasionally, it’s far less common than older men dating younger women. The stats back this up, with large age-gap relationships between older men and younger women being far more prevalent.

In short, biology gives older men an advantage in dating younger women, while it’s much rarer to see older women consistently dating much younger men.

Biology plays another role- making men hornier in general and desperate for women in a way that women do not reciprocate. Hence women will always have the upper hand in dating. For a long time there was a major societal stigma against older women/ younger man relationships, but as that lifts, you’re seeing women taking full advantage of the interest younger men have always had in older women. And many of these relationships flourish

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced

As a 45 years old man I completely agree with your post. What you said about women and meaningful love is very true. I'll admit that as a divorced man. I don't think I have my ex the kind of love she deserved not because I am a bad person it is what it is. However I am not damaged though lol. Am I stressed? Oh hell yes. Why? Child support, alimony, elderly parents, college savings, midlife crisis, some health issues despite being fit and active you name it. I have a lot of sh**t going with me. And also raising our teens (2 boys going though the typical teenage years). Dating is out of the question for me.I don't have room in my brain for another woman.

My ex wife though she is receiving good alimony and child support, I let them keep the house, and she has a lot of love to offer. So I can see her going with a younger man and being happier. I don't have any anger in me. I wish happiness to everyone.

When a woman loves you she does everything for you it's crazy. All she talks about is you. When she sees you she is happy etc.

But some.of us men who are very high earning and work a lot unfortunately neglect our wives. I never cheated on her but I never reciprocated the love she had for me. So when she requested divorce i wasn't surprised and I made the process as easy as possible.

The simp of dcum. More likely a fat old 40yr old woman pretending

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man.

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced

As a 45 years old man I completely agree with your post. What you said about women and meaningful love is very true. I'll admit that as a divorced man. I don't think I have my ex the kind of love she deserved not because I am a bad person it is what it is. However I am not damaged though lol. Am I stressed? Oh hell yes. Why? Child support, alimony, elderly parents, college savings, midlife crisis, some health issues despite being fit and active you name it. I have a lot of sh**t going with me. And also raising our teens (2 boys going though the typical teenage years). Dating is out of the question for me.I don't have room in my brain for another woman.

My ex wife though she is receiving good alimony and child support, I let them keep the house, and she has a lot of love to offer. So I can see her going with a younger man and being happier. I don't have any anger in me. I wish happiness to everyone.

When a woman loves you she does everything for you it's crazy. All she talks about is you. When she sees you she is happy etc.

But some.of us men who are very high earning and work a lot unfortunately neglect our wives. I never cheated on her but I never reciprocated the love she had for me. So when she requested divorce i wasn't surprised and I made the process as easy as possible.

This why single ladies be careful before marrying a very high earning man. Yes the stability and money is good but these men as PP himself admitted are sometimes not the kind of partner to be there for you emotionally. PP was fair in his shortcomings but some of these men can be very vengeful as well and make the divorce process hell. His ex wife dodged a bullet.

The PP is not a high-earning man. He can't even put a proper sentence together.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women.

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple.

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away

That must be it. I mean, someone(s) who claims to be uninterested in dating 40-something women is really fixated on their dating lives.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think it has more to do with the women that divorced men in their 40s are looking for. These men often want women in their 30s. These women though are looking for single never married men.

If these men go for women in their 50s they will find plenty of options.

Divorced women in their 40s are just lucky with timing. The younger men they want don't want anything serious. So it works for both.

Uh, yeah. Men refer to these as “pump and dumps”—it’s not something to be bragging about.

No, they are not necessariliy "pumps and dumps"--that is a ONS. People can have long FWB relationships with older women and younger men. I have had some that were 18+ months. I "dumped" the man. Not the other way around. I have never had a ONS. I don't want to get married ever again, so it works for me.