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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DCUM Is hilarious, trying to push the narrative that 40-year-old pre menopausal women are raking up young 20-year-old dudes, it's not true, but go ahead with this fantasy. It's quite the contrary, with 40+-year-old men getting the younger women. [/quote]

Fact.

Look outside every where (except on dcum anonymous forum that is full of old women past prime) and this fact will be in your face so much that it is the norm.

It is norm and has been for thousands of years. Can’t change biology

The old ladies here are hilariously trying to create a make believe fantasy world.

Look at any age gap related threads here and see how pathetically the dcum middle aged moms respond

As a 46yr old married to and having a kid with a 26yr old we see this all the time. when we go out it’s the old middle aged women giving us ugly looks. Guys couldn’t be bothered. Young girls couldn’t be bothered. The only ones bothered by us is the 40+ mediocre looking women.

When it happens I always joke to my wife don’t you be that old jealous lady 20yrs from now when you see an age gap couple. [/quote]

lol keep fantasizing that older women are seething in rage at the image of you with your wife. The reality is most of them left behind an older man exactly like you, and zero part of them is fantasizing about the 40 year old potbellied baldy pushing around a baby. [b]Why is it men want the approval and attention of older women so bad? [/b]Why can’t you just be happy with your young wife? Why do you have to concoct this fantasy that younger women are staring with lust and envy and rage? You sound like a loser.[/quote]

I've been wondering this as well: Why is the person or persons so riled up about a certain demographic not being interested in them? They claim to not be interested either, so it's a mutual no.  [/quote]

Because it was an older woman who threw them out on their behind and they can’t take it. Even the dating of a young woman is done not out of genuine desire, but spite and a desperate desire to get back at the woman who didn’t see their value. Hence the fixation never really goes away[/quote]

I am 45. I would love to meet and even marry a 26 years old in an IDEAL world..but I am realistic. I cannot offer anything to a 26 years old at my age. And sexually although I consider myself still really good she would be better better of with a 26 years clone of me from the past.

Personally I think am older woman is better off with a younger man especially if she wants to have some control over the relationship. Younger men tend be more open to changes and pleasing their partners than men my age. Most men my age are stubborn in their way and will not want to make changes to please a new woman. Another reason I believe older divorced women are better off with younger men has to with love. I think a lot of divorced women have not given up on love. The same cannot be said of men. Many of us to be honest are done with that. So an older woman going with a younger guy will enjoy better quality years of companionship with a younger man. [/quote]

I think a lot of older women are actually pretty pragmatic about it, know exactly what they want. Hence going for the young guy with the good body, good attitude, good d**k[/quote]

That's a benefit that older woman have. It's not necessarily pragmatism. And older man going for a similarly young and good attitude woman with good p**y is a massive minefield. Biology does not lie. Men are primarily driven by fertility even when they are snipped. Men can say all they long they will not remarry but the minute they need a hot young woman with charm (you know those rolling eyes, feminine mannerism those are killers for men my age). For this reason I stay clear of younger women because I don't believe I will keep my stance of never remarrying again.

Yes women can absolutely fall for the same young hot man. But woman's biology is very different from men's. Once women are past their prime fertility age they are not driven by those raw emotions to go all ga-ga for a hot man.  [/quote]

It is pragmatism. For many women, marriage takes the rose colored glasses off. They realize many men are simply not capable of the kind of deep, selfless love women are. Plus many women experience “real love” with their children and the contrast between that and their selfless DHs behavior is very apparent. Hence going after more surface things like looks and body and bed ability (plus many of them are equally able to bond emotionally with a 20 something man as a 45 year old. Also many 45 year old men have a chip on their shoulder and are deeply damaged, hence why their wife divorced [/quote]

The reality is, while some older women may be attracted to younger men, the dynamic typically works the other way around—older men with younger women. Biology plays a significant role here. Men can remain fertile well into their 50s and beyond, which makes them more likely to seek younger partners who are still in their prime fertility years. Women, on the other hand, experience menopause, and their ability to have children diminishes, which is why we rarely see older women in relationships with much younger men.

It’s also important to recognize that younger men usually seek partners who align with their life stage, focusing on shared goals like building a family. Older men, however, are often attracted to younger women because of their vitality, and youth, and the potential for starting a family—biological factors still play a significant role in these dynamics. So, while older women might date younger men occasionally, it’s far less common than older men dating younger women. The stats back this up, with large age-gap relationships between older men and younger women being far more prevalent.

In short, biology gives older men an advantage in dating younger women, while it’s much rarer to see older women consistently dating much younger men.[/quote]

Biology plays another role- making men hornier in general and desperate for women in a way that women do not reciprocate. Hence women will always have the upper hand in dating. For a long time there was a major societal stigma against older women/ younger man relationships, but as that lifts, you’re seeing women taking full advantage of the interest younger men have always had in older women. And many of these relationships flourish [/quote]

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