Divorced women in their 40s seem to be doing better in the dating market

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:here are the facts, women over 30 go down in value

here are facts, you’re a dumsh*t incel

no need for the insults, these are the facts, i can add more supporting data if needed. FYI I've been married for a while and its not lost on me whats out there if divorced.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and single. I think women in their 40s are beautiful. But women in their 30s still find me attractive and I prefer dating them. If a divorced woman in her 40s were to approach me, would I date her? No. Not because she is old, it's because women my own age still want to date me. Everytime I go on OLD I don't have an issue finding dates. But right now I am solely focus on building myself and dating is not on my radar.

So no one is talking about you dude. 32 is young. I agree with you. You will probably be married by your late 30s so its a moot point anyway. But single men in their late 30s have much fewer options than you at 32.

Life comes at you fast. People on this board love to talk about how women are dried up by their late 30s but trust me, if you are a man who is never married in your late 30s there’s a huge stigma for a lot of a lot of women below 35… why hasn’t some hottie snapped you up?

My friends in their 40s who are dating younger men, the topic of this thread, are mostly dating mid to late 30s or early 40s divorced guys. No one is talking about a 32 year-old never married single guy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and single. I think women in their 40s are beautiful. But women in their 30s still find me attractive and I prefer dating them. If a divorced woman in her 40s were to approach me, would I date her? No. Not because she is old, it's because women my own age still want to date me. Everytime I go on OLD I don't have an issue finding dates. But right now I am solely focus on building myself and dating is not on my radar.

So no one is talking about you dude. 32 is young. I agree with you. You will probably be married by your late 30s so its a moot point anyway. But single men in their late 30s have much fewer options than you at 32.

Life comes at you fast. People on this board love to talk about how women are dried up by their late 30s but trust me, if you are a man who is never married in your late 30s there’s a huge stigma for a lot of a lot of women below 35… why hasn’t some hottie snapped you up?

My friends in their 40s who are dating younger men, the topic of this thread, are mostly dating mid to late 30s or early 40s divorced guys. No one is talking about a 32 year-old never married single guy.

Not really, there is a small pool of men looking for late 30s women its a weird age because they are almost too old for a family and need to come to terms with that and date older men who are already divorced with kids or are looking not to start a family. Most men in their 40s are either divorced with kids or are at a point where their career is established and are looking to start a family. If it's the later it will be seeking a younger woman in prime children bearing age which is late 20s and early 30s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is it really true that divorced women in their 40s are looking and/or dating younger? I don't know any of my divorced friends who are dating younger men the way some women claim it on this forum. They tend date around the same age.

Yes, it is true. If your divorced friends are dating men around their own age then they probably don’t have their own money, and they need a serious relationship and a man’s money. I’m not taking on any more projects of men or their kids or anything else. I don’t need a man’s money and I don’t want to ever get married again so I only date younger men without kids and I’m always the one who cuts it off because they’re the ones who gets serious. I’ve limited time and it’s just easier to date men without kids who are younger because they’re not as demanding and I don’t have to deal with any other custody schedules. Attractive women can do this really easily.

How callous and gross. It’d be gross if a man was this transactional in using and discarding younger women as sex objects, and it’s gross when women do it. This is not a flex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Real data:

I’m 50 divorced, dad bod, balding, two little kids 50/50. Yes my job title indicates good money and education. But clearly not a billionaire.

I signed up for hinge and paid for one week. Swiped right on attractive 30-42 young, white, professional women. not overweight.

single or divorced, kids or no kids is fine with me.

I only swipe on women attractive to me. I was married to a model for 15yr so have pretty high standards

I got 70+ matches within 30miles of Tyson’s corner. Granted none of the 70 matches are modelesque but they all meet my basic minimum attractiveness criteria

Have 7 dates set up for this week and about a dozen other conversations going on

In previous online dating iterations I was pretty much the one to reject my dates after date one or two as I didn’t feel it

Who said guys don’t have a chance. Don’t let the DCUM crowd of older mostly unattractive women depress you guys

Secret to my success I will admit I had my friend take some really nice and interesting pics of me. Interesting being the key word. I’m definitely not what people would call classically attractive like I said balding dad bod haha

100% spot on!

[Anonymous]

44 divorced nice guy here. 2 kids 50/50

Average every thing except I come across as the quintessential nice guy boyfriend type

Not moneyed but do ok about 200k work for government so it’s easy for potential matches to know exactly how much I make

I date late 20s to mid 30s only. Like the other guy I have scores of matches likely over a 100 since summer and it’s the same every time I sign up for a month or 3mo subscription to any of the online apps

And once I get the women to the dates I have basically a tsunami of women hitting me up so much so that I feel like a kid in a candy store. I’m sorry, it was never this good even in my 20s when I was a bit jacked and had all my hair haha

Women just want one thing really. A nice guy. Well this nice guy has so many options

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:here are the facts, women over 30 go down in value

here are facts, you’re a dumsh*t incel

no need for the insults, these are the facts, i can add more supporting data if needed. FYI I've been married for a while and its not lost on me whats out there if divorced.

lol those aren’t facts dummy.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and single. I think women in their 40s are beautiful. But women in their 30s still find me attractive and I prefer dating them. If a divorced woman in her 40s were to approach me, would I date her? No. Not because she is old, it's because women my own age still want to date me. Everytime I go on OLD I don't have an issue finding dates. But right now I am solely focus on building myself and dating is not on my radar.

So no one is talking about you dude. 32 is young. I agree with you. You will probably be married by your late 30s so its a moot point anyway. But single men in their late 30s have much fewer options than you at 32.

Life comes at you fast. People on this board love to talk about how women are dried up by their late 30s but trust me, if you are a man who is never married in your late 30s there’s a huge stigma for a lot of a lot of women below 35… why hasn’t some hottie snapped you up?

My friends in their 40s who are dating younger men, the topic of this thread, are mostly dating mid to late 30s or early 40s divorced guys. No one is talking about a 32 year-old never married single guy.

Not really, there is a small pool of men looking for late 30s women its a weird age because they are almost too old for a family and need to come to terms with that and date older men who are already divorced with kids or are looking not to start a family. Most men in their 40s are either divorced with kids or are at a point where their career is established and are looking to start a family. If it's the later it will be seeking a younger woman in prime children bearing age which is late 20s and early 30s.

No, actually people date in their age range. 20 something women are not looking to date 40+ men. A 40+ man who is “looking to start a family” all of a sudden missed the boat, the same way a 40+ in that scenario did. But if he’s sincere, the best way to settle down would actually be to find a woman in her mid to late 30s.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:44 divorced nice guy here. 2 kids 50/50

Average every thing except I come across as the quintessential nice guy boyfriend type

Not moneyed but do ok about 200k work for government so it’s easy for potential matches to know exactly how much I make

I date late 20s to mid 30s only. Like the other guy I have scores of matches likely over a 100 since summer and it’s the same every time I sign up for a month or 3mo subscription to any of the online apps

And once I get the women to the dates I have basically a tsunami of women hitting me up so much so that I feel like a kid in a candy store. I’m sorry, it was never this good even in my 20s when I was a bit jacked and had all my hair haha

Women just want one thing really. A nice guy. Well this nice guy has so many options

Women in their 20s and 30s generally want to get married & have kids. Is that your plan?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:44 divorced nice guy here. 2 kids 50/50

Average every thing except I come across as the quintessential nice guy boyfriend type

Not moneyed but do ok about 200k work for government so it’s easy for potential matches to know exactly how much I make

I date late 20s to mid 30s only. Like the other guy I have scores of matches likely over a 100 since summer and it’s the same every time I sign up for a month or 3mo subscription to any of the online apps

And once I get the women to the dates I have basically a tsunami of women hitting me up so much so that I feel like a kid in a candy store. I’m sorry, it was never this good even in my 20s when I was a bit jacked and had all my hair haha

Women just want one thing really. A nice guy. Well this nice guy has so many options

I’m replying to my own post. I’m super average. 5’9 (I say 5’10 on apps 😉) and absolutely nothing about my looks that is going to have women take another look.

I’m nice. I’m fun. I have a little bit of confidence not the cocky kind just not that nervous anxious type. I treat women normally and friendly. They just keep coming back for more. I feel once women hit late 20s they are not really looking for 6/6/6 or whatever. Once they hit that age many of them have the clock ticking desperation. I’m open to more kids but it’s not a priority. The 28yr old hotties see me as much more stable mature and serious than guys her own age

In fact I used to match with some under 25 and went on some dates too. The age gap and maturity was an issue so my cut off is 28 now.

Any *decent* average 40s male will have no problem

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and single. I think women in their 40s are beautiful. But women in their 30s still find me attractive and I prefer dating them. If a divorced woman in her 40s were to approach me, would I date her? No. Not because she is old, it's because women my own age still want to date me. Everytime I go on OLD I don't have an issue finding dates. But right now I am solely focus on building myself and dating is not on my radar.

So no one is talking about you dude. 32 is young. I agree with you. You will probably be married by your late 30s so its a moot point anyway. But single men in their late 30s have much fewer options than you at 32.

Life comes at you fast. People on this board love to talk about how women are dried up by their late 30s but trust me, if you are a man who is never married in your late 30s there’s a huge stigma for a lot of a lot of women below 35… why hasn’t some hottie snapped you up?

My friends in their 40s who are dating younger men, the topic of this thread, are mostly dating mid to late 30s or early 40s divorced guys. No one is talking about a 32 year-old never married single guy.

Not really, there is a small pool of men looking for late 30s women its a weird age because they are almost too old for a family and need to come to terms with that and date older men who are already divorced with kids or are looking not to start a family. Most men in their 40s are either divorced with kids or are at a point where their career is established and are looking to start a family. If it's the later it will be seeking a younger woman in prime children bearing age which is late 20s and early 30s.

No, actually people date in their age range. 20 something women are not looking to date 40+ men. A 40+ man who is “looking to start a family” all of a sudden missed the boat, the same way a 40+ in that scenario did. But if he’s sincere, the best way to settle down would actually be to find a woman in her mid to late 30s.

Thats incorrect, a man 40+ can still have children without issues a woman after 35 faces fertility challenges so its not the same, sorry. Look at David grohl he got someone pregnant and they are having a child and he is 55

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:44 divorced nice guy here. 2 kids 50/50

Average every thing except I come across as the quintessential nice guy boyfriend type

Not moneyed but do ok about 200k work for government so it’s easy for potential matches to know exactly how much I make

I date late 20s to mid 30s only. Like the other guy I have scores of matches likely over a 100 since summer and it’s the same every time I sign up for a month or 3mo subscription to any of the online apps

And once I get the women to the dates I have basically a tsunami of women hitting me up so much so that I feel like a kid in a candy store. I’m sorry, it was never this good even in my 20s when I was a bit jacked and had all my hair haha

Women just want one thing really. A nice guy. Well this nice guy has so many options

I’m replying to my own post. I’m super average. 5’9 (I say 5’10 on apps 😉) and absolutely nothing about my looks that is going to have women take another look.

I’m nice. I’m fun. I have a little bit of confidence not the cocky kind just not that nervous anxious type. I treat women normally and friendly. They just keep coming back for more. I feel once women hit late 20s they are not really looking for 6/6/6 or whatever. Once they hit that age many of them have the clock ticking desperation. I’m open to more kids but it’s not a priority. The 28yr old hotties see me as much more stable mature and serious than guys her own age

In fact I used to match with some under 25 and went on some dates too. The age gap and maturity was an issue so my cut off is 28 now.

Any *decent* average 40s male will have no problem

If you’re wasting her time you’re not decent, you’re a jerk. If you’re focused on nailing down a 28 year old “hottie” wife to have a second family with, you also suck.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and single. I think women in their 40s are beautiful. But women in their 30s still find me attractive and I prefer dating them. If a divorced woman in her 40s were to approach me, would I date her? No. Not because she is old, it's because women my own age still want to date me. Everytime I go on OLD I don't have an issue finding dates. But right now I am solely focus on building myself and dating is not on my radar.

So no one is talking about you dude. 32 is young. I agree with you. You will probably be married by your late 30s so its a moot point anyway. But single men in their late 30s have much fewer options than you at 32.

Life comes at you fast. People on this board love to talk about how women are dried up by their late 30s but trust me, if you are a man who is never married in your late 30s there’s a huge stigma for a lot of a lot of women below 35… why hasn’t some hottie snapped you up?

My friends in their 40s who are dating younger men, the topic of this thread, are mostly dating mid to late 30s or early 40s divorced guys. No one is talking about a 32 year-old never married single guy.

Not really, there is a small pool of men looking for late 30s women its a weird age because they are almost too old for a family and need to come to terms with that and date older men who are already divorced with kids or are looking not to start a family. Most men in their 40s are either divorced with kids or are at a point where their career is established and are looking to start a family. If it's the later it will be seeking a younger woman in prime children bearing age which is late 20s and early 30s.

No, actually people date in their age range. 20 something women are not looking to date 40+ men. A 40+ man who is “looking to start a family” all of a sudden missed the boat, the same way a 40+ in that scenario did. But if he’s sincere, the best way to settle down would actually be to find a woman in her mid to late 30s.

Thats incorrect, a man 40+ can still have children without issues a woman after 35 faces fertility challenges so its not the same, sorry. Look at David grohl he got someone pregnant and they are having a child and he is 55

typical dumbsh*t incel. obviously we understand biology. but 20-something women don’t want to date 40+ men no matter how much the PPs here are deluding themselves. Maybe you match on Hinge but they are going to end up with a guy their own age.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and single. I think women in their 40s are beautiful. But women in their 30s still find me attractive and I prefer dating them. If a divorced woman in her 40s were to approach me, would I date her? No. Not because she is old, it's because women my own age still want to date me. Everytime I go on OLD I don't have an issue finding dates. But right now I am solely focus on building myself and dating is not on my radar.

So no one is talking about you dude. 32 is young. I agree with you. You will probably be married by your late 30s so its a moot point anyway. But single men in their late 30s have much fewer options than you at 32.

Life comes at you fast. People on this board love to talk about how women are dried up by their late 30s but trust me, if you are a man who is never married in your late 30s there’s a huge stigma for a lot of a lot of women below 35… why hasn’t some hottie snapped you up?

My friends in their 40s who are dating younger men, the topic of this thread, are mostly dating mid to late 30s or early 40s divorced guys. No one is talking about a 32 year-old never married single guy.

Not really, there is a small pool of men looking for late 30s women its a weird age because they are almost too old for a family and need to come to terms with that and date older men who are already divorced with kids or are looking not to start a family. Most men in their 40s are either divorced with kids or are at a point where their career is established and are looking to start a family. If it's the later it will be seeking a younger woman in prime children bearing age which is late 20s and early 30s.

No, actually people date in their age range. 20 something women are not looking to date 40+ men. A 40+ man who is “looking to start a family” all of a sudden missed the boat, the same way a 40+ in that scenario did. But if he’s sincere, the best way to settle down would actually be to find a woman in her mid to late 30s.

Thats incorrect, a man 40+ can still have children without issues a woman after 35 faces fertility challenges so its not the same, sorry. Look at David grohl he got someone pregnant and they are having a child and he is 55

typical dumbsh*t incel. obviously we understand biology. but 20-something women don’t want to date 40+ men no matter how much the PPs here are deluding themselves. Maybe you match on Hinge but they are going to end up with a guy their own age.

I match, date, and have sex with women in their 20s all the time on hinge (I’m mid 40s.) Yes, of course, they are going to end up with someone closer to their own age.

Dating for 6-8 weeks and then they get bored and say they feel really bad but need to move on is the perfect sweet spot for me because, for whatever reason, it is then extremely easy for me to rinse and repeat for going on 8 years now.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I am 32 and single. I think women in their 40s are beautiful. But women in their 30s still find me attractive and I prefer dating them. If a divorced woman in her 40s were to approach me, would I date her? No. Not because she is old, it's because women my own age still want to date me. Everytime I go on OLD I don't have an issue finding dates. But right now I am solely focus on building myself and dating is not on my radar.

So no one is talking about you dude. 32 is young. I agree with you. You will probably be married by your late 30s so its a moot point anyway. But single men in their late 30s have much fewer options than you at 32.

Life comes at you fast. People on this board love to talk about how women are dried up by their late 30s but trust me, if you are a man who is never married in your late 30s there’s a huge stigma for a lot of a lot of women below 35… why hasn’t some hottie snapped you up?

My friends in their 40s who are dating younger men, the topic of this thread, are mostly dating mid to late 30s or early 40s divorced guys. No one is talking about a 32 year-old never married single guy.

Not really, there is a small pool of men looking for late 30s women its a weird age because they are almost too old for a family and need to come to terms with that and date older men who are already divorced with kids or are looking not to start a family. Most men in their 40s are either divorced with kids or are at a point where their career is established and are looking to start a family. If it's the later it will be seeking a younger woman in prime children bearing age which is late 20s and early 30s.

No, actually people date in their age range. 20 something women are not looking to date 40+ men. A 40+ man who is “looking to start a family” all of a sudden missed the boat, the same way a 40+ in that scenario did. But if he’s sincere, the best way to settle down would actually be to find a woman in her mid to late 30s.

Thats incorrect, a man 40+ can still have children without issues a woman after 35 faces fertility challenges so its not the same, sorry. Look at David grohl he got someone pregnant and they are having a child and he is 55

typical dumbsh*t incel. obviously we understand biology. but 20-something women don’t want to date 40+ men no matter how much the PPs here are deluding themselves. Maybe you match on Hinge but they are going to end up with a guy their own age.

I match, date, and have sex with women in their 20s all the time on hinge (I’m mid 40s.) Yes, of course, they are going to end up with someone closer to their own age.

Dating for 6-8 weeks and then they get bored and say they feel really bad but need to move on is the perfect sweet spot for me because, for whatever reason, it is then extremely easy for me to rinse and repeat for going on 8 years now.

having one night of bad internet dating s*x is not actually dating success.