how do I hide this particular trip from this particular friend?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Niagra Falls?

That’s what I was thinking too

You think the OP's husband, and one free of her kids, share a fascination with . . . Niagra Falls?

I suppose anything is possible.

This is likely why OP isn't sharing where the actual destination is. Because people like you will criticize and start saying how dumb it is. Smart move OP. Don't cave.
P.S. Niagara Falls is awesome to visit.

I was thinking Graceland. Maybe the kid is an Elvis fan.

Could be mount rushmore. Maybe even the alamo.

[Anonymous]

Can you afford to bring her along?
If so - would you be willing to finance her trip??

If not >> no worries.
You are under no obligation to do so.

I would just let her know that you + your hubby will be visiting and act like it is not a big deal.
Because if you try to hide the fact that you will be visiting, she may very well be hurt that you hid this face from her.

You could offer to stop by & see her kids, if doing so will not make her feel badly.

[Anonymous]

*fact, not face