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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Always feel relieved that my husband and I both agreed to get fixed when we had our last kid. No matter what happens our kids will not be second fiddle.[/quote]

My spouse and I agree our two kids are the only ones we want.  And it’s laughable to us the men that start an entirely family once their first set of kids reach college.  Ohmygod hell no!  We are 3 years to empty nest and have all kinds of trips and fun plans lined up.  He also got a vasectomy.

Blended family drama - no thanks.  And having to go back to preschool, and teacher conferences and kids sports and busy weekends and worry …no way![/quote]

So, you think its ok women move on and get remarried and have more kids but men should just stay divorced and hand over their entire check to their ex?[/quote]

Not to their ex, to their kids. The kids should not have their dads estate diluted by your kids.[/quote]

No one is entitled to inheritance.   [/quote]

Exactly why the 2nd wife should not expect to get it.[/quote]

Who says we want it? [/quote]

Good we agree, you should not get it.[/quote]

You should also start working stop collecting alimony and start saving for your kids inheritance. Instead of using men as a pay check[/quote]

I actually have always made more money than my ex. Our money is in a trust and my ex can’t get it out without my say so.

I don’t think he’s stupid enough to take on a dependent 2nd wife.

I suspect if he’s stupid enough to remarry she wouldn’t be a slug who expected money from my family trust.[/quote]

Good God! Second wives are slugs are they lol i have a career and don't take a dime from DH.
Seems to me from this thread these poor men WERE 
Married to 'slugs' and now their  baby slugs are crying about inheritance [/quote]

Glad we agree his inheritance goes to his kids when he dies since you are not a slug and you don’t need it.[/quote]

Exactly goes to all kids...not just your greedy baby slugs crying about daddy's money[/quote]

You and he can create an inheritance if you want for your slug. My kids get all the money in our trust during our marriage.

Come on slug I had him during the low earning years… you can do this without your slug getting our money.[/quote]

Get over it..your money lol ? ? Greedy. If you weren't such a greedy cow you would be married.
second wife here just read this to my DH. He says  if you women on this thread weren't such greedy c*ws you would probably still be married [/quote]

That’s why our money always went into a family trust because money grubbing women like you. Not sure why you want my money. Your H sound like a winner, he wants his ex wife to fund his new wife, pathetic. Get a job, build your own trust.[/quote]

I have a job idiot do you not read. It's your crazy as* groveling to us for money because oh no alimony and child support not taking you far. I have put all my cash earnt on my own into a trust for my kids. So your greedy as* doesn't drain me to pay for your kids weddings because your benefit check won't cover it[/quote]

Great you and your h and your kids don’t need the inheritance.

Good on ya hon.

Lol my ex-h’s and my money will pay for the wedding, out of the trust he and I created for our kids and you can’t stand in the way of that, or stop it.

I’m sure you’ll keep a score card and make sure your kids get an equal wedding though… poor sap.[/quote]

What trust you created....lol I have more money than the first wife which I earnt ...
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Great then stop asking for the inheritance. [/quote]

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