Job insists we share pronouns

[Anonymous]

I don’t feel comfortable doing this. I teach at a preschool. Can they make me share pronouns so they can display on a board for all to see?

[Anonymous]

How can you not feel comfortable sharing your pronouns?? Let people know if you prefer to go by he/she/they. It’s really simple.

[Anonymous]

Just use "They".

[Anonymous]

Are your pronouns obvious? I don’t care if I have to write she/her. Anyone with eyes knows that these are my pronouns.

[Anonymous]

Why are you uncomfortable with it?

[Anonymous]

Is the problem that your appearance doesn’t match your pronouns, or is it that you object to people discussing “pronouns” in the first place?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is the problem that your appearance doesn’t match your pronouns, or is it that you object to people discussing “pronouns” in the first place?

This! I don’t object to it and I will gladly call people by the pronouns they prefer I just don’t think we have to display it - I think it should be a choice.

[Anonymous]

I think it's dumb for me to have to share them if I don't want.
I say I'm doing it in solidarity of people who are not ready to share, but if forced to share they would be writing down something that feels inauthentic.
I'm not totally lying, and it stops ppl from asking me about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t feel comfortable doing this. I teach at a preschool. Can they make me share pronouns so they can display on a board for all to see?

It's ridiculous that employers are still demanding gender pronouns in 2025.

Just put in ZOG or whatever.

The pre-schoolers will find it funny, and that's the only audience that matters.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:How can you not feel comfortable sharing your pronouns?? Let people know if you prefer to go by he/she/they. It’s really simple.

You assume the conclusion inside the question, that sharing pronouns is necessarily comfortable and simple for everyone. By asking How can you not feel comfortable, you dismiss the stated discomfort instead of addressing it. You are begging the question (circular reasoning). You presume what it should be proving, that sharing pronouns is comfortable and easy.

You also lean on a false assumption fallacy: just because something is “simple” for one person doesn’t mean it is universally simple or comfortable for all.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is the problem that your appearance doesn’t match your pronouns, or is it that you object to people discussing “pronouns” in the first place?

What does it matter?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are your pronouns obvious? I don’t care if I have to write she/her. Anyone with eyes knows that these are my pronouns.

Red herring. instead of addressing why someone might not want to declare pronouns, YOU shifts the point to how “obvious” the OP's pronouns supposedly are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Is the problem that your appearance doesn’t match your pronouns, or is it that you object to people discussing “pronouns” in the first place?

What does it matter?

Are you the OP?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I don’t feel comfortable doing this. I teach at a preschool. Can they make me share pronouns so they can display on a board for all to see?

I don't understand- how could you be embarrassed by or uncomfortable with whatever pronouns you prefer? If they make you uncomfortable, pick something else.

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldn't. Keep boundaries.