I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just slogged through all 77 pages in one sitting. Do I get a cookie?

How long did that take you? Maybe an Advil along with your cookie?

[Anonymous]

22:30 - There is no evidence of real poaching. There is apparently a legitimate bobcat hunting season in Maine, so bf's cover story would be plausible in a different month. At first OP was afraid to contact authorities, and we were all considering the possiblility that bf was in jail for poaching, but eventually the hunting story just looked like a lie. BF might have gotten away with it except for the super skepticism and googling skills of the DCUMers.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:So after laughing through 80 pages, I'm still wondering if the OP actually drove up and spent the night in the guys actual house. Did she go in the house, stay in his bed, you know do GF stuff. Or was it hey come stay at a motel.

The Sheriff probably sent a car over to the guys house and found him home from a hard days work hauling cows (HAHA). with his regular in town girl at his side. And the guy probably told the Sheriff the OP was some wacko from 4 hours away he once met on line that can't leave him alone.

Then the Sheriff left and the guy went back to banging his local. With whom he was at her parents home for Easter weekend having a nice dinner and time off work with his phone off.

OP here: good story. I never spoke to the sheriff or even told them the story. I called the station and said I had concerns about my boyfriend who I hadn't heard from in a few days and was told the sheriff would call me back which he never did.

I think you can stop referring to him as your BF.

Did you ever call the Uncles business?

What did he have to say?

I was so hoping to find a post on his Facebook like "DCUM: Steve is ok."

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Calling this the winner:

Missing Boyfriend, Poaching Bobcat.

Sounds like: Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon.

Well, done!!

Yes, this is far and away the winner.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:To poach a bobcat: When someone says they are going somewhere and you never hear from them again.

Ex: Jason went out to buy some smokes. That was two days ago. I think he poached a bobcat.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Poaching bobcats = Bunbury-ing?

I love you.

Yay! I was worried nobody would get the reference and just think I was strange.

[Anonymous]

Has anyone on DCUM contacted the uncle? He seems like the kid of guy that might enjoy all this attention. To the PP who said her DH wanted to take a trip up there with the outfitters - if you do that - you MUST tell him about all us back here in DC who want to be his friend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:The drug dealer thing came up when someone made a connection between bf's work of moving cattle and the meth trade. Plus, OP can't really explain where bf's money comes from, and since cattle hauling doesn't seem particularly lucrative, DCUM has jumped to the conclusion that bf is a drug dealer. Logical, no?

OP here: LOL wait what? I can't explain where his money comes from? LOL you're making it sound like I made it seem like he has a ton of money he spends which I never did at all.

Sorry, OP. I was oversimplifying in trying to explain why folks think he is a drug dealer.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Has anyone on DCUM contacted the uncle? He seems like the kid of guy that might enjoy all this attention. To the PP who said her DH wanted to take a trip up there with the outfitters - if you do that - you MUST tell him about all us back here in DC who want to be his friend.

A few people called his shop but I don't think anyone got into the business about the nephew.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:In OP's previous post from 2 months ago, she said BF had a habit of going MIA and being shady. That's why nobody thinks he's dead.

I think I remembered a thread that sounded familiar - he worked on a farm and for a couple days each week, he just wouldn't answer texts? Is that the one?

Here you go:

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/446821.page

That's EXACTLY the one I remembered and thought sounded familiar. Why in the hell was OP still dating him?

[Anonymous]

You know what, after a glass of wine and an episode of the housewives I have decided this is a cleverly crafted troll.

They knew enough about a real person to seem convincing but none of this makes any real sense when you look at it as a whole.

Shes the type who "needs answers" but she drags her feet and twiddles her thumbs when the answer might be a DEAD boyfriend. Everyone was trying to help her easily find the answer yet she hemmed and hawed and made up excuses as to why she couldn't.

She was here constantly to fight any naysayer. She hid the fact that she had previous trollish post or at the very least reason to suspect he was a cheater.

Maybe shes an ex of bobcat boyfriend and just wanted to stir up trouble for him, but my money is on troll.

[Anonymous]

b/c the OP is pathetic

OP are you keeping this thread alive b/c you crave attention? Would putting a lock on it be symbolic for you to realize it's over with this guy?

[Anonymous]

I still think she was afraid to contact authorities because she knew something else about Bobcat Boyfriend that she didn't tell us, but which she knew would incriminate him if police were involved. I don't think we have all the known details about this guy.

[Anonymous]

Anyone suggesting this thread be locked has no business being here. Go poach a bobcat!!

[Anonymous]

OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.