I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

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Anonymous wrote:I still think she was afraid to contact authorities because she knew something else about Bobcat Boyfriend that she didn't tell us, but which she knew would incriminate him if police were involved. I don't think we have all the known details about this guy.

OP here: Um not at all and I have said 4948576595 times not that I DID contact his local police department. There is nothing I am not telling you guys at all. I told you literally everything I know about him which is very obvious considering some were able to find out who he was.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:You know what, after a glass of wine and an episode of the housewives I have decided this is a cleverly crafted troll.

They knew enough about a real person to seem convincing but none of this makes any real sense when you look at it as a whole.

Shes the type who "needs answers" but she drags her feet and twiddles her thumbs when the answer might be a DEAD boyfriend. Everyone was trying to help her easily find the answer yet she hemmed and hawed and made up excuses as to why she couldn't.

She was here constantly to fight any naysayer. She hid the fact that she had previous trollish post or at the very least reason to suspect he was a cheater.

Maybe shes an ex of bobcat boyfriend and just wanted to stir up trouble for him, but my money is on troll.

Agreed. Like 70 pages back agreed. So are people still on the case for the fun of the soap opera car wreck? Or do you think other posters really are this naive?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Anyone suggesting this thread be locked has no business being here. Go poach a bobcat!!

Exactly! I didn't spend my afternoon trolling strangers FB pages and reading about a bearded, cow-hauling liar for this thread to end up locked!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Jeff didn't vouch for you. He said he wasn't sure if you are a troll because you're remarkably consistent with your theme across threads. Your appeal to authority for legitimacy makes me even more convinced you're troling....master class though.

[Anonymous]

When your man has gone and poached the bobcat you have two choices - Sit around and pine for him, waiting for his call. Or you can go out and see if you can strike you a bass.

I say go get yourself a bass Op!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Jeff didn't vouch for you. He said he wasn't sure if you are a troll because you're remarkably consistent with your theme across threads. Your appeal to authority for legitimacy makes me even more convinced you're troling....master class though.

OP here: Okay, again...I really don't care what you do and don't believe. If he wants to lock or delete this thread, I really don't care at this point. I'd almost prefer it at this point as the nastiness is getting insane. I would NEVER sit on an anonymous forum and treat someone like such shit just because I could hide behind my computer and have no one know who I really was. It's really disgusting to be honest.

I keep asking for people to back off and stop being nasty as I was and STILL am slightly concerned but obviously now, the situation is a bit different as someon PP's figured out that he was most likely lying about the Maine thing for me but that doesn't mean I'm not still slightly worried about him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

+1

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: do you really think that I am going to post a picture of myself on here? No. However, I'm sure Jeff would be able to find out who I am (name, etc.) and be able to look me up and see that I have told the truth about myself, age, where I live, that I have my own business, etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Jeff didn't vouch for you. He said he wasn't sure if you are a troll because you're remarkably consistent with your theme across threads. Your appeal to authority for legitimacy makes me even more convinced you're troling....master class though.

What else can she do to "prove" her legitimacy except mention Jeff?

[Anonymous]

OP, I am ashamed to admit I have read this entire thread, and it is clear you don't really know this guy very well, although you claim to be in love with him. You can't answer some very basic questions about his life, associations etc. Either this is all made up, or you are missing some very basic info on this guy that should have raised red flags earlier.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: actually, I can post a screen shot of our text convo where he sent me a selfie of himself at work just mid last week. If someone can tell me how I can upload that, I'll glady do that to prove I do in fact know him, talk to him...whatever you wanna say.

[Anonymous]

Op, this sucks, I'm sorry.

One day, it will all be over, promise.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: do you really think that I am going to post a picture of myself on here? No. However, I'm sure Jeff would be able to find out who I am (name, etc.) and be able to look me up and see that I have told the truth about myself, age, where I live, that I have my own business, etc.

Yet you will expose him, his uncle, his aunt, their business. Their dog OP, their cute dog with diabetes!

T-R-O-L-L-I-N-G
You ain't got no alibi you're trolling hey hey you're trolling.

Please don't post a text and a selfie of this poor guy. You've already caused him to scrub his internet presence.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP Here: to the 3 PP's, seriously...believe whatever you want. I'm pretty sure Jeff said that I'm not a troll. I post on here a lot and have never trolled before....at all. I came on here yesterday because I legitimately was worried about him and since then, more and more info has come up that has made me question it. It's IMPOSSIBLE for me to respond to every question and comment so if I don't respond to once comment or question, it automatically means I'm avoiding it? No. So again, believe whatever you want. I feel like I did enough that now it's out of my hands.

Do you have a photo of you and bobcat boyfriend together?

OP here: actually, I can post a screen shot of our text convo where he sent me a selfie of himself at work just mid last week. If someone can tell me how I can upload that, I'll glady do that to prove I do in fact know him, talk to him...whatever you wanna say.

Have only read about a 1/4 of this but it is very clear to me that you would great benefit from therapy. Please look into it.