I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

OP, post on his FB page and ask if anyone has heard from him. I know you don't want to do that but it's the best way to reach a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be able to contact otherwise. It could alert someone else who either knows where he is or has other ways to try and contact him. Better yet it might notify a coworker who could let you know if he's been to work or not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, I say this nicely but if you've been dating half a year and have no way to contact him outside a cell phone, maybe he's not as serious as you and just decided to take another day up in Maine.

Yep. I was thinking this. Also OP, how old are the two of you? In your early 20s? If so, it's definitely this.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think this is the same troll who recently had multiple threads removed from this forum by Jeff. The writing feels familiar and the scenario is soap- opera style ridiculous.

OP here-nope, not at all and he'd be able to confirm that.

I've asked him to.

If you were that concerned you wouldn't be on here rebutting me. Troll score C-

OP here: Good for you! So you can feel like an idiot when he tells you that I am not trolling.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, I say this nicely but if you've been dating half a year and have no way to contact him outside a cell phone, maybe he's not as serious as you and just decided to take another day up in Maine.

Yep. I was thinking this. Also OP, how old are the two of you? In your early 20s? If so, it's definitely this.

OP here: We are both in our mid 20's.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP, post on his FB page and ask if anyone has heard from him. I know you don't want to do that but it's the best way to reach a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be able to contact otherwise. It could alert someone else who either knows where he is or has other ways to try and contact him. Better yet it might notify a coworker who could let you know if he's been to work or not.

OP here: Thank you, I didn't want to have to do this but at this point, I am concerned. I know some people think I'm way over reacting but I've known him for 8 months (dating for 6) and this is NOT like him at all.

[Anonymous]

Hope all is well, OP.

[Anonymous]

OP, again I'm the PP whose friend died recently. You would have heard by now if that were the case. He's alive and probably in jail or the woods still.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, post on his FB page and ask if anyone has heard from him. I know you don't want to do that but it's the best way to reach a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be able to contact otherwise. It could alert someone else who either knows where he is or has other ways to try and contact him. Better yet it might notify a coworker who could let you know if he's been to work or not.

OP here: Thank you, I didn't want to have to do this but at this point, I am concerned. I know some people think I'm way over reacting but I've known him for 8 months (dating for 6) and this is NOT like him at all.

PP here. I don't think you're overreacting. And I think the other posters are being assholes. Stop trying to dissect OP's relationship and help her get some ideas. OP I've had a couple LDR and I get that it's hard to meet friends or family. And even if you do it might not be enough to have their email and phone number. Post on FB. Let us know how it goes!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP, post on his FB page and ask if anyone has heard from him. I know you don't want to do that but it's the best way to reach a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be able to contact otherwise. It could alert someone else who either knows where he is or has other ways to try and contact him. Better yet it might notify a coworker who could let you know if he's been to work or not.

OP here: Thank you, I didn't want to have to do this but at this point, I am concerned. I know some people think I'm way over reacting but I've known him for 8 months (dating for 6) and this is NOT like him at all.

Don't do this. b/c you are way over reacting and you will make him think twice about the relationship. It's time to get a hobby and preoccupy yourself.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, post on his FB page and ask if anyone has heard from him. I know you don't want to do that but it's the best way to reach a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be able to contact otherwise. It could alert someone else who either knows where he is or has other ways to try and contact him. Better yet it might notify a coworker who could let you know if he's been to work or not.

OP here: Thank you, I didn't want to have to do this but at this point, I am concerned. I know some people think I'm way over reacting but I've known him for 8 months (dating for 6) and this is NOT like him at all.

Don't do this. b/c you are way over reacting and you will make him think twice about the relationship. It's time to get a hobby and preoccupy yourself.

+1 it will be very embarrasing to everyone involved if he either has cut you loose or is in jail or any thing else happened. Don't post on Facebook. Call people.

[Anonymous]

I don't think your overreacting - it's weird that you have not heard from him by now. I hope it's nothing. I watch way too many shows on Investigation Discovery channel these days.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, post on his FB page and ask if anyone has heard from him. I know you don't want to do that but it's the best way to reach a whole bunch of people you wouldn't be able to contact otherwise. It could alert someone else who either knows where he is or has other ways to try and contact him. Better yet it might notify a coworker who could let you know if he's been to work or not.

OP here: Thank you, I didn't want to have to do this but at this point, I am concerned. I know some people think I'm way over reacting but I've known him for 8 months (dating for 6) and this is NOT like him at all.

Don't do this. b/c you are way over reacting and you will make him think twice about the relationship. It's time to get a hobby and preoccupy yourself.

You know this? Really? How? Here's the thing, if he's fine then yes it could be seen that way. If there is something wrong then people will be alerted to it now....as opposed to much later when it may or may not be even more serious. Chances are he's totally fine and has extended his trip. When I was dating in my twenties plenty of guys flaked this way. BUT what if that isn't the case. She does not have to be dramatic in the post. Just throw it out there.

[Anonymous]

If he went with his uncle and grandfather, do they have someone who'll be looking for them? Spouse, sibling, children? On Facebook?

[Anonymous]

He's just not that into you. Sorry.

[Anonymous]

I can almost guarantee there is a house phone and other family members who have contact with them. If something happened, someone would have reached out to you via Facebook.