I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I feel like OP has disappeared. I hope she'll come back to update if she gets anything.

LOL, because it's been a whole 15 minutes since she's posted?

Well I guess, but she's normally right here to respond!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, I just found another relevant recent thread by the OP about her bipolar boyfriend:

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/456093.page

Wait a gd minute- this was her too?
OP, yes he has disappeared before and no everything has not been perfect for the last month if this just happened March 14. Ugh.

In this thread she said she's been with him for 7 months, but she was adamant it was 6 months in this thread. So maybe not the same? Or another inconsistency.

In the OTHER thread from February she said that she met him in mid-December.
In this thread she said at one point that she met him online eight months ago and they have been dating for six months.
It doesn't matter; the point is that YES it is the same person; YES her BF has "disappeared" on her once or twice a week including as recently as mid-March, even though OP has claimed that for the past month everything has been wonderful; when people asked in the March thread if she had posted on this before (which she had), she denied it; OP did not mention the relevant info about bipolar disorder until page 3 of the March 14 thread and not until page 124 or so in the April thread.

Please notice in the March thread there had been some discussions of the OP possibly moving there in the summer.

Also please notice in this thread that around Wednesday of last week OP was teasingly pressuring her BF to let her trim his beard and he was adamant that she was not going to touch it.

So here is another theory. Maybe he goes and disappears when he starts to feel cornered a little bit.

[Anonymous]

Here comes the bobcat. Do I really need to read all 127 pages?! Ugh. Could someone please show mercy and summerize? I'm familiar with the premise LOL

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm sure the police will want to talk to her some more, right? If it is determined that this guy is missing..

He told other people that he was going somewhere so it seems that he is missing on purpose...or at least that is one assumption.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here comes the bobcat. Do I really need to read all 127 pages?! Ugh. Could someone please show mercy and summerize? I'm familiar with the premise LOL

No. You will have to read the book yourself. And no fair skipping the book and just watching the movie instead.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, I just found another relevant recent thread by the OP about her bipolar boyfriend:

http://www.dcurbanmom.com/jforum/posts/list/456093.page

Wait a gd minute- this was her too?
OP, yes he has disappeared before and no everything has not been perfect for the last month if this just happened March 14. Ugh.

In this thread she said she's been with him for 7 months, but she was adamant it was 6 months in this thread. So maybe not the same? Or another inconsistency.

Well it does feel like a month since this 2-day old thread started.

[Anonymous]

She wrote on one of the other threads that she learned he'd been out of contact (in a previous episode) because he'd gotten angry, thrown his phone, and broken it. And he'd been through two phones in the past 7 months, and that she was aware of his "anger issues". She didn't mention this as a possibility in this recent case of bobcat incommunicado.

[Anonymous]

Guys, can I make a request? For those of you convinced she is lying, catfishing, etc.--please go start another thread.

Rightly or wrongly, there are enough of us who accept most or all of OP's story, and want to hear back from OP, and your constant quibbling and rehashing of details from 60 pages ago is not helpful.

Let's face it, we are all on DCUM for our own interests, so why don't you guys go take your interest over to another part of the playground, and let us finish our game? Thanks!

[Anonymous]

I just want to know if boyfriend has been found or heard from and if OP is still around.

[Anonymous]

Whew! I finally caught up with the thread. Sure my toddler is eating m&ms off the floor and watched Toy Story, 2 & 3. But mission accomplished.

SV shave the beard and you have a new identity

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I just want to know if boyfriend has been found or heard from and if OP is still around.

No, no, yes

[Anonymous]

Maybe there should be a summary thread that runs alongside this one that provides updates and set intervals throughout the day.

[Anonymous]

^^^at set intervals

[Anonymous]

OP,

Now you've gotten rid of this lout, what are your plans for the future?

[Anonymous]

OP come back! Hope you're doing ok.