I haven't heard from my boyfriend since Friday night

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:1. He forgot his charger at home, so even once back in reception, he couldn't charge it up

or

2. He met some fit hiker chick in the woods and has run off with her.

OP here: I'll respond to your #1 and he had a phone charger in his truck as we talked on his way up there and he was using that as GPS.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:He's probably fine. He's a grown man who went on a trip with other grown men and has gone to this specific place many times before. he's probably just busy at work or lost his phone or something. Don't get yourself worked up into a tizzy.

OP here: I understand that is a possibility too however, he only works until 5 or 6pm every day so he would have been off by now. Also, even if he lost his phone, he has a tablet that he could have logged onto facebook with to let me know he was ok when he got home.

[Anonymous]

Wait till tomorrow evening then try calling his work place

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:He's probably fine. He's a grown man who went on a trip with other grown men and has gone to this specific place many times before. he's probably just busy at work or lost his phone or something. Don't get yourself worked up into a tizzy.

OP here: I understand that is a possibility too however, he only works until 5 or 6pm every day so he would have been off by now. Also, even if he lost his phone, he has a tablet that he could have logged onto facebook with to let me know he was ok when he got home.

Maybe he's more important to you than you are to him, and calling you is simply not his priority, Maybe work got busy, friends invited him out, or he just needs to do some laundry or something and you're on the list but not at the top. Clearly, I'm not a worrier. I care, but I don't worry.

[Anonymous]

Op, I say this nicely but if you've been dating half a year and have no way to contact him outside a cell phone, maybe he's not as serious as you and just decided to take another day up in Maine.

[Anonymous]

Ok well this has sort of exposed that you really don't know what's going on in his life except through him, so that needs to be remedied ASAP when he shows up.

I disagree with other PPs here (not about the "don't freak out," but about "don't do anything." I took flight school years ago and under the topic of why one should *always* file a flight plan, it came up that this is a common scenario--the Friday leaving, not showing up to work on Monday, and no one calls to figure out where the person is. Everyone says, "I'll wait until Tuesday," or even "Wednesday" and by that time, if there's been an accident, it's often too late.

In addition (I hope this doesn't ruin my argument, but here goes) I hike a lot and used to watch "I shouldn't be alive" and time and time again, it was the same thing--hiker(s) or rafter(s)doesn't say where he is going, and is going on a Friday or for a long weekend or week, and then is overdue, and nobody really does anything about it because hiker did not designate a person to pay attention or did not have a good communication system or a solid return date.

Please update us when you find out what is going on, OP. My gut is that it won't be anything safety-concerning, but it may be that he was not really going to Maine--only because you have zero contact information--esp. about where he works--and that just sounds wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Op, I say this nicely but if you've been dating half a year and have no way to contact him outside a cell phone, maybe he's not as serious as you and just decided to take another day up in Maine.

OP here: I have Facebook too. How else should I be able to contact him? We are long distance and see eachother every 2-3 weekends so it's hard to get to know all of his family and friends when it's like this. He hasn't been active on FB since Thursday and I just messaged him on there too. Idk what else I can possibly do besides go and drive 4 hours up to his house which I don't think would be the best thing to do at the moment.

[Anonymous]

Are you "in a relationship" on FB? Just because he has no means of contacting you doesn't mean his family has no means of contact with anyone.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Are you "in a relationship" on FB? Just because he has no means of contacting you doesn't mean his family has no means of contact with anyone.

OP here: yes we are

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, I say this nicely but if you've been dating half a year and have no way to contact him outside a cell phone, maybe he's not as serious as you and just decided to take another day up in Maine.

OP here: I have Facebook too. How else should I be able to contact him? We are long distance and see eachother every 2-3 weekends so it's hard to get to know all of his family and friends when it's like this. He hasn't been active on FB since Thursday and I just messaged him on there too. Idk what else I can possibly do besides go and drive 4 hours up to his house which I don't think would be the best thing to do at the moment.

OP, listen to yourself. "It's hard to get to know all of his family and friends"? You don't seem to know ONE family/friend or ONE work phone number.
Snap out of it. You have NO IDEA where he is. If he's in Maine or not. Who he's with. Assuming he ends up fine (most likely he will), you need to fix this right away or get out.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Are you "in a relationship" on FB? Just because he has no means of contacting you doesn't mean his family has no means of contact with anyone.

OP here: yes we are

Then if something happened someone would contact you. You both need to have a conversation after this. You are clearly not on the same pages with things

[Anonymous]

I think this is the same troll who recently had multiple threads removed from this forum by Jeff. The writing feels familiar and the scenario is soap- opera style ridiculous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I think this is the same troll who recently had multiple threads removed from this forum by Jeff. The writing feels familiar and the scenario is soap- opera style ridiculous.

OP here-nope, not at all and he'd be able to confirm that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Op, I say this nicely but if you've been dating half a year and have no way to contact him outside a cell phone, maybe he's not as serious as you and just decided to take another day up in Maine.

OP here: I have Facebook too. How else should I be able to contact him? We are long distance and see eachother every 2-3 weekends so it's hard to get to know all of his family and friends when it's like this. He hasn't been active on FB since Thursday and I just messaged him on there too. Idk what else I can possibly do besides go and drive 4 hours up to his house which I don't think would be the best thing to do at the moment.

OP, listen to yourself. "It's hard to get to know all of his family and friends"? You don't seem to know ONE family/friend or ONE work phone number.
Snap out of it. You have NO IDEA where he is. If he's in Maine or not. Who he's with. Assuming he ends up fine (most likely he will), you need to fix this right away or get out.

OP here: I know his two best friends and his uncle which I stated. I'm sorry but when I've only been up there about 4 times, it's hard to get to know everyone in his life. He comes here more often then I go up there and even in the 6 months, he's only met my best friend, dad and sister.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think this is the same troll who recently had multiple threads removed from this forum by Jeff. The writing feels familiar and the scenario is soap- opera style ridiculous.

OP here-nope, not at all and he'd be able to confirm that.

I've asked him to.

If you were that concerned you wouldn't be on here rebutting me. Troll score C-