If you had to do it all over again would you?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I would. Been married almost 10 years, together 13 years. We have three kids - 5 yo, 3 yo and 3 months - so we are right in the thick of the "stressful" years, I think.

We definitely fight more than we should, but I can't imagine life without my husband. He really compliments me - in fact, I think we compliment each other. We definitely don't have communications problems, other than that I tend to over-communicate and get anger at him more than I should. But my husband really is a great guy.

I sometimes wonder about the "what ifs" and whether I would have been happier with somebody else, but in my heart, I know I lucked out in the husband department.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No, but I don't know if I would be any happier.
But yeah, I would like to be single but still have the same kids if there was a choice.

I agree with this.

Me too. I think back to when we were dating, and how my husband repeatedly showed me what a self-involved ass he is. Why oh why didn't I break it off then.

[Anonymous]

I l-o-v-e my husband. He's just such a great dad, and a great spouse. We argue, but we almost always come to a good space afterwards, thanks, often to his levelheadedness and ability to find the 'core' of any discussion. Sometimes we discover that what we started fighting about isn't the real issue -- it's something more elemental.

Once we identify that, we can figure things out.

Good thing he's not as spazzy and reaction-based as I am.

[Anonymous]

Still new to this, almost 2 years in but YES

[Anonymous]

Negatory. Is a supreme ass to me 95% of the time. Divorce in the near future. Maybe just would have had my DD but wasn't necessary to get married.

[Anonymous]

Yes. He annoys me, I annoy him, we argue, but there is so much more than that. I love waking up in his arms every morning.