My married daughter seems headed for disaster. Help.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:a lot of people seem to be carrying around weird hangups with their own mothers.

Really, Dr. Freud? Really?

yes, really. if you actually read the thread you would have noticed multiple people referencing their own mothers and their "hateful" comments, most often in respect to their weight. so yeah people are projecting big time.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Something is wrong if she gained that much weight that quickly. The prickly at work is also a major sign that something is amiss. I wouldn't worry about the marriage, but I would worry about your daughter. It sounds like she could possibly be depressed or need some sort of counseling. If you have a close relationship, you should ask her if she's happy, would she consider getting some help, etc. If she is letting herself and her work go, the grandchildren will also feel the affects of whatever the issue is.

+1. I was going to say the same thing. That's a lot of weight to gain in 7 years. There's something physical or psychological going on. This isn't just lack of healthy eating and exercising.