I was seen multi dating by the guy I like more

[Anonymous]

Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

Not at all. But if you're the woman and the dude you're not fucking moves on don't be surprised

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

Not at all. But if you're the woman and the dude you're not fucking moves on don't be surprised

excatly. and then starts 'why aren't there any good guys left?'. well, good guys don't like being made fools of and move on and find women who treat them honestly and with respect.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

Not at all. But if you're the woman and the dude you're not fucking moves on don't be surprised

excatly. and then starts 'why aren't there any good guys left?'. well, good guys don't like being made fools of and move on and find women who treat them honestly and with respect.

Treating a man with respect == putting out on the 1st date. Got it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

Not at all. But if you're the woman and the dude you're not fucking moves on don't be surprised

excatly. and then starts 'why aren't there any good guys left?'. well, good guys don't like being made fools of and move on and find women who treat them honestly and with respect.

Treating a man with respect == putting out on the 1st date. Got it.

LOL woman logic.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

Not at all. But if you're the woman and the dude you're not fucking moves on don't be surprised

With that attitude, I would be thrilled for him to move on.

[Anonymous]

Where did OP imply or say that she had not slept with Guy 1, anyway?

[Anonymous]

No exclusivity talk. A woman or man can fuck how many ever people they want as long as their is no talk of exclusivity.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Where did OP imply or say that she had not slept with Guy 1, anyway?

She didn't. Some in likes to manufacture details to make a point.

[Anonymous]

Someone*

[Anonymous]

And where did she say she was withholding sex from Guy 1? There are plenty of reasons that they may not have had sex yet, but nowhere does she say that she doesn't plan to have sex with him ever or that she's punishing him for being a nice guy by withholding sex. She said they have great chemistry.

Again, these scorned men are projecting their BS relationship issues on this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

Not at all. But if you're the woman and the dude you're not fucking moves on don't be surprised

excatly. and then starts 'why aren't there any good guys left?'. well, good guys don't like being made fools of and move on and find women who treat them honestly and with respect.

Treating a man with respect == putting out on the 1st date. Got it.

No, but if you tell me you like me but want to get to know me first, and then I find out that you are sleeping with others who you just met, what does it tell me?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP give us an update. You aren't exclusive therefore you did nothing wrong.

Did she say they weren't exclusive? I didn't see that posted anywhere. Maybe there was an assumption on his part, which means he should have been clear.

OP, Be honest with him. If he asks if you slept with #2, don't lie.

No, we never said we're exclusive but I'm pretty sure he thought we were. And I don't want to lie but I also don't want to tell him I slept with the other guy especially since we haven't done it yet. Really a delicate situation and I don't want to make things worse than they are

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Okay, so if she fucks one guy she's dating, she must immediately fuck all the others, especially the ones she likes. Gotcha.

Not at all. But if you're the woman and the dude you're not fucking moves on don't be surprised

excatly. and then starts 'why aren't there any good guys left?'. well, good guys don't like being made fools of and move on and find women who treat them honestly and with respect.

Treating a man with respect == putting out on the 1st date. Got it.

No, but if you tell me you like me but want to get to know me first, and then I find out that you are sleeping with others who you just met, what does it tell me?

WHERE DID SHE SAY ANY OF THIS? Please stop manufacturing imaginary dialogue!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:And where did she say she was withholding sex from Guy 1? There are plenty of reasons that they may not have had sex yet, but nowhere does she say that she doesn't plan to have sex with him ever or that she's punishing him for being a nice guy by withholding sex. She said they have great chemistry.

Again, these scorned men are projecting their BS relationship issues on this.

He's too special to have sex with