Need an African American to Explain this Behavior

[Anonymous]

Dear OP, Chipotle mom, yes, you are still overreacting and still made of the crazy.

Please go away.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How is 19:46 a bitch? I'm confused. Btw I'm a white female .

Because she assumed that OP elicited that behavior by acting fearful or looking at the group of guys in the wrong way. So, basically she is saying the guy asked for them to spit on his car bc he was actually the one acting racist. WAY TO TURN IT AROUND, LADY!

Did you not read her dumb ass post? I see a group of young men coming toward me and I profile all of it? Black? Hmm? No? Skin heads? Hmm? Viet - gang? Hmm.. Terrorist? Hmm.
Yes I profile everybody! But I don't feel the need to get on dcum and justify my racism.
There is a chance these men saw her and targeted her.
Based on what she wrote I suspect they saw her dumb fumbling ass and fucked with her and no I feel no sympathy.

But please change daycares.This place is closer to my home and would work better for me.

the OP is a man, btw.

Thanks I actually did miss that- so pissed.
So they punked you out.tough.
Op- watch the documentary by John Singleton (Netflix ) on the LA riots.
You will better understand the tenuous relationship with Asians.
For me (1/2 black 1/2 Chinese dad) mom to 1/2 white kid. Who SAW the damage done to my 1/2 black 1/2 west indie grandmother's skull done by the Asian laundry owner to her when she was 9!
I have NO empathy and you need to get over yourself.
Yes I listed most of my ethinicty so I can call all of you on your bull.

OP here-- Thanks for your insight. I can certainly appreciate your anger and have a pretty good grasp of the stupidity that occurred in the wake of the Rodney King beatings in L.A. My question, however, concerns whether or not there are underlying issues here in the D.C. area-- if you, a representative of your community, tell me that lingering feelings from the L.A. riots contribute toward racial tensions here in D.C., then I believe you and accept that as part of a larger answer to what happened to me today.

So you think the concerning behavior from 92 is no longer present? You are a fool. Change daycares so I can get the slot- again black mommie to white baby.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Is there a daycare "between Cameron Station and Old Town...just off of Duke St?" I can't think of any examples and wonder if the OP is a troll (see the original post).

Yes. Near the rocklands trash dump- no lie.
I didn't even think about signing up
The "play ground" was covered with leaves(fall). And directly adjacent to the rocklands trash container.

[Anonymous]

All y'alls cra cra!

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How is 19:46 a bitch? I'm confused. Btw I'm a white female .

Because she assumed that OP elicited that behavior by acting fearful or looking at the group of guys in the wrong way. So, basically she is saying the guy asked for them to spit on his car bc he was actually the one acting racist. WAY TO TURN IT AROUND, LADY!

Did you not read her dumb ass post? I see a group of young men coming toward me and I profile all of it? Black? Hmm? No? Skin heads? Hmm? Viet - gang? Hmm.. Terrorist? Hmm.
Yes I profile everybody! But I don't feel the need to get on dcum and justify my racism.
There is a chance these men saw her and targeted her.
Based on what she wrote I suspect they saw her dumb fumbling ass and fucked with her and no I feel no sympathy.

But please change daycares.This place is closer to my home and would work better for me.

the OP is a man, btw.

Thanks I actually did miss that- so pissed.
So they punked you out.tough.
Op- watch the documentary by John Singleton (Netflix ) on the LA riots.
You will better understand the tenuous relationship with Asians.
For me (1/2 black 1/2 Chinese dad) mom to 1/2 white kid. Who SAW the damage done to my 1/2 black 1/2 west indie grandmother's skull done by the Asian laundry owner to her when she was 9!
I have NO empathy and you need to get over yourself.
Yes I listed most of my ethinicty so I can call all of you on your bull.

OP here-- Thanks for your insight. I can certainly appreciate your anger and have a pretty good grasp of the stupidity that occurred in the wake of the Rodney King beatings in L.A. My question, however, concerns whether or not there are underlying issues here in the D.C. area-- if you, a representative of your community, tell me that lingering feelings from the L.A. riots contribute toward racial tensions here in D.C., then I believe you and accept that as part of a larger answer to what happened to me today.

So you think the concerning behavior from 92 is no longer present? You are a fool. Change daycares so I can get the slot- again black mommie to white baby.

You are the dangerous kind of racist. The same behavior continues to be exhibited by the Asian community. So no the relationship has not changed. Again, I am more fearfull of the Vietnamese street gangs in northern va then I am of young African American males.
The only gang jump in I ever witnessed was an Asain one in Arlington. Your gangs of youths not only steal but you attack physically elders and women not involved in your crimes. Stealing from
Each other. Murder. Threatening each other. ..

[Anonymous]

Are we really arguing about which race has the worst gangs?Have some pride sister.

AA Man

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:OP here-- PP, I'm asking a pretty simple question. Did people of my race do something to people of their race in recent history to justify this act of overt hostility?

NO

Even if there were incidents, so what? You have not done anything. They are jerks, no excuse.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Wow! Way to prove there are dumb Asians.

trying too hard to be pc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:That is just reprehensible. I don't know why everyone wants to jump on here claiming it's not representative of young black male behavior, but I have seen this sort of behavior from young black males, too -- and have never seen it from any other race in this country. I don't think this act was racism against OP, but I do think it's a deep cultural and social issue that many urban black males grow up behaving this way, but get a pass because it's "racist" to call them out. I'm calling them out: this is not the way a human being in a civilized nation should ever treat the mother of a baby in front of that baby, and PPs are fooling themselves if they think it doesn't cause people like OP and me to associate those behaviors with the whole group. I know this is an unpopular thing to say and think.

Get oppressed for a couple hundred years and see how chiiper you are.
Based on op's comments I suspect I'd spit on him too.

Op let your wife handle drop off and pick up from now on.
You are an asshole. And I doubt only young black 'you-dths' rub you the wrong way.
By the way feel free to go back to where you came from.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This thread is driving me nuts. OP - stop adding to the freaking responses already, and google are history to figure out if there is beef or not. Then go and spend time with your family.

+1000

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Anonymous wrote:That is just reprehensible. I don't know why everyone wants to jump on here claiming it's not representative of young black male behavior, but I have seen this sort of behavior from young black males, too -- and have never seen it from any other race in this country. I don't think this act was racism against OP, but I do think it's a deep cultural and social issue that many urban black males grow up behaving this way, but get a pass because it's "racist" to call them out. I'm calling them out: this is not the way a human being in a civilized nation should ever treat the mother of a baby in front of that baby, and PPs are fooling themselves if they think it doesn't cause people like OP and me to associate those behaviors with the whole group. I know this is an unpopular thing to say and think.

Get oppressed for a couple hundred years and see how chiiper you are.
Based on op's comments I suspect I'd spit on him too.

Op let your wife handle drop off and pick up from now on.
You are an asshole. And I doubt only young black 'you-dths' rub you the wrong way.
By the way feel free to go back to where you came from.

Well, I guess this is at the root of all of it. Guess what PP? Asians have been oppressed in the US too. Every heard of interment camps? Chinese working on the railroad?

The same narrow minded ignorance you are applying to this situation is at the root of the same problems plaguing African Americans. You too are free to go back to where ever it may be you came from, right?

There is no excuse for spitting at someone holding a baby, and no reasonable black man would argue there was.

[Anonymous]

meant internment

[Anonymous]

NP and Asian woman here. Seems like most of the PP are not Asian.

Anyway, I have lived in a few big cities where there are many ethnic minorities and I will say that although nothing has ever happened to me personally, I have noticed that more AA/blacks in DC are openly hostile towards Asians than any other major city I have lived in. I was actually surprised by this because I am used to being in the same category as blacks in other cities - just another visible minority. In some cities, there are many black/Asian couples (usually black male, Asian woman) but I haven't seen many (if any) in DC. So the hostility/ tension is not a big city phenomenon. It is DC.

But OP - I think the group you encountered were just being bullies and wanted to intimidate you because they assumed (correctly) that you wouldn't speak up. if you were an Asian woman, I doubt this would have happened to you. I think you could have been a short skinny wimpy nerdy-looking white guy and this group of AA males might have spit on your car. I am going to guess that if you were a 6'2" Asian beefcake, they probably wouldn't have tried to intimidate you.

If the above rings true for you, then I would work on developing a more confident stride, get some muscles, a few tattoos, and look like someone no one would dare mess with.

And I'm sorry this happened to you. I would be horrified myself.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:How is 19:46 a bitch? I'm confused. Btw I'm a white female .

Because she assumed that OP elicited that behavior by acting fearful or looking at the group of guys in the wrong way. So, basically she is saying the guy asked for them to spit on his car bc he was actually the one acting racist. WAY TO TURN IT AROUND, LADY!

Did you not read her dumb ass post? I see a group of young men coming toward me and I profile all of it? Black? Hmm? No? Skin heads? Hmm? Viet - gang? Hmm.. Terrorist? Hmm.
Yes I profile everybody! But I don't feel the need to get on dcum and justify my racism.
There is a chance these men saw her and targeted her.
Based on what she wrote I suspect they saw her dumb fumbling ass and fucked with her and no I feel no sympathy.

But please change daycares.This place is closer to my home and would work better for me.

NP here...don't know if you are 1946, but your statement is so damn idiotic. Anyone has the right to look at anyone any way they want - you don't fucking have the right to harass someone in the way the males did. Why is that hard to understand? Are you one of those dumbasses that blames the victim when she is raped because she had a short dress on???

[Anonymous]

I disagree with OP on trying to justify the incident as a racial one, but I absolutely can't understand the posters saying what the males did was not wrong. Anyone who would act the way the male did is disgusting and there is no excuse for that kind of behaviour.