MIL parking across the street daily — tell DH?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As a mom to 3 boys this makes me feel so, so sad.

As a mom of boys I’m certain you need therapy. Your job is to raise your children and let them go. You are already acting like a jealous ex girlfriend. You’ve already assumed any woman who comes into your son’s lives is there to take them away from you. You don’t want to let your sons grow up and let them go. Not normal.

Raising them to be adults and respecting their autonomy, of course. But estrangement is sad. That’s not an outcome to be celebrated. Warranted or not it’s a sad thing.

No it’s utterly weird to be so upset by a post just because you have sons. She’s already starting a war with a non existent female who is taking her son away.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a mom to 3 boys this makes me feel so, so sad.

As a mom of boys I’m certain you need therapy. Your job is to raise your children and let them go. You are already acting like a jealous ex girlfriend. You’ve already assumed any woman who comes into your son’s lives is there to take them away from you. You don’t want to let your sons grow up and let them go. Not normal.

Raising them to be adults and respecting their autonomy, of course. But estrangement is sad. That’s not an outcome to be celebrated. Warranted or not it’s a sad thing.

No it’s utterly weird to be so upset by a post just because you have sons. She’s already starting a war with a non existent female who is taking her son away.

How is she starting a war? She’s saying it’s sad to her to imagine this situation, particularly because she has sons. There’s nothing aggressive or war like about that.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a mom to 3 boys this makes me feel so, so sad.

As a mom of boys I’m certain you need therapy. Your job is to raise your children and let them go. You are already acting like a jealous ex girlfriend. You’ve already assumed any woman who comes into your son’s lives is there to take them away from you. You don’t want to let your sons grow up and let them go. Not normal.

Raising them to be adults and respecting their autonomy, of course. But estrangement is sad. That’s not an outcome to be celebrated. Warranted or not it’s a sad thing.

No it’s utterly weird to be so upset by a post just because you have sons. She’s already starting a war with a non existent female who is taking her son away.

How is she starting a war? She’s saying it’s sad to her to imagine this situation, particularly because she has sons. There’s nothing aggressive or war like about that.

But what does “having sons” have to do with it? I’m a woman who is estranged from her mother and father. What do my sex organs have to do with it? Serious question.

[Anonymous]

It’s weird behavior
Tell your husband what his mother is doing.

Not
So
Deep

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Go out and talk to her.

This. Say hello and go out and talk to her while she is sitting in the car.

Absolutely not.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a mom to 3 boys this makes me feel so, so sad.

As a mom of boys I’m certain you need therapy. Your job is to raise your children and let them go. You are already acting like a jealous ex girlfriend. You’ve already assumed any woman who comes into your son’s lives is there to take them away from you. You don’t want to let your sons grow up and let them go. Not normal.

Raising them to be adults and respecting their autonomy, of course. But estrangement is sad. That’s not an outcome to be celebrated. Warranted or not it’s a sad thing.

No it’s utterly weird to be so upset by a post just because you have sons. She’s already starting a war with a non existent female who is taking her son away.

How is she starting a war? She’s saying it’s sad to her to imagine this situation, particularly because she has sons. There’s nothing aggressive or war like about that.

But what does “having sons” have to do with it? I’m a woman who is estranged from her mother and father. What do my sex organs have to do with it? Serious question.

She has sons. She’s imagining the sadness of a relationship so broken that a son estranges from a mother.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a mom to 3 boys this makes me feel so, so sad.

As a mom of boys I’m certain you need therapy. Your job is to raise your children and let them go. You are already acting like a jealous ex girlfriend. You’ve already assumed any woman who comes into your son’s lives is there to take them away from you. You don’t want to let your sons grow up and let them go. Not normal.

Raising them to be adults and respecting their autonomy, of course. But estrangement is sad. That’s not an outcome to be celebrated. Warranted or not it’s a sad thing.

No it’s utterly weird to be so upset by a post just because you have sons. She’s already starting a war with a non existent female who is taking her son away.

How is she starting a war? She’s saying it’s sad to her to imagine this situation, particularly because she has sons. There’s nothing aggressive or war like about that.

But what does “having sons” have to do with it? I’m a woman who is estranged from her mother and father. What do my sex organs have to do with it? Serious question.

She has sons. She’s imagining the sadness of a relationship so broken that a son estranges from a mother.

Sure, Jan.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:As a mom to 3 boys this makes me feel so, so sad.

I'm sad for you that you think they ended up in this situation just because rather than due to something the MIL actually did and is now being held responsible for.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Go out and talk to her.

This. Say hello and go out and talk to her while she is sitting in the car.

Absolutely not.

+1. If anyone should go out and talk to her, it's DH. Tell him his mom is out there and leave the next step up to him.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As a mom to 3 boys this makes me feel so, so sad.

I'm sad for you that you think they ended up in this situation just because rather than due to something the MIL actually did and is now being held responsible for.

She didn’t say anything like that. You quoted her words and then made up stuff she didn’t say to attack.