Parents of boys who became incels

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Anonymous wrote:It's a problem that the entire discussion in this thread is premised on an assumption that boys are almost inherently at risk of going off the rails and becoming bad. That assumption, which unfortunately has becoming deeply rooted in culture and especially in schools due to liberal political preferences, is the key driver for the problem you are worried about. Right now, girls are boosted and treated like the future at every turn, even in implausible situations. Look at the Super Bowl ads for one example, where, among other things, there was an ad where a minority female implausibly bested the entire men's football team (who were portrayed as hateful ogres throughout). Until you all learn to respect and value boys, expect bad results. Toxic femininity is real and a problem.



Spoken like a true incel. Blaming it all on women with NO accountability for men and boys. I can't take you seriously.

What can parents do to help boys in this new world where women and minorities are rightfully represented. The answer isn't to diminish women or minorities. I want to learn how to help my son coexist and thrive in this new world. I want to avoid prevent him from becoming an incel and recluse.

I appreciate some of the suggestions here regarding chores, etc. Keep those coming.



You are toxic. You treat boys like criminals in waiting while doing everything you can to tell girls they are awesome and can do anything (especially since the world goes out of its way to support them). Then you blame boys for being put off. The problem is you.


PP was right. You do speak like a true incel. The moment you have to relinquish some power to women you feel threatened. For millennia women and girls have been treated like less than but that was all ok, right? Hell, we had to fight for a right to vote while you think that was just inherently yours. So forgive us while the pendulum swings our way for a change.



You're a lost cause, and you will reap what you sow. Look at the media today honestly. It is frankly rah-rah women and anti-male all the time. You can make the world fair and provide equal opportunity without tearing down boys. You don't want to do that, however.

Yep, incel confirmed. It’s extremely unlikely this person has children, let alone a wife he supports. Go back to Reddit.


You know I see many posts here from supposed “incels” but the posts from above containing insults, assumptions, baseless accusations and little substance all seem to come from others. Seems like you don’t have to be an incel in order to be an aggressive jerk.

Again, go back to Reddit if you’re going to spew this BS. Adults are talking.


Thanks for proving my point. Why are you being so hostile? What’s wrong with civility?
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Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.
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An incel means girls don’t like them?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


I think this poster is the OP of the "Husband wants a divorce" thread. Tracks.
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Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?

Neither are gay dads? So is it just straight people who raise incels?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?


Good for boys, of course. Positive role models come in many forms, and not necessarily a parent.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?


Good for boys, of course. Positive role models come in many forms, and not necessarily a parent.


That was exactly my point.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?


I never made any such claim. You are arguing with yourself. I try not to make broad, ignorant claims about the absolute tendencies of diverse identity groups. Try that.
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?


Good for boys, of course. Positive role models come in many forms, and not necessarily a parent.


That was exactly my point.


Not quite. You were arguing that FATHERS are instrumental. Sure it's nice if they have a great father, but many don't and turn out amazing.
Anonymous
This is like the flip side of how ignorant MAGA conversations about “blue haired liberal women” must go. It’s all just the same ignorance. Grow up.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?


Good for boys, of course. Positive role models come in many forms, and not necessarily a parent.


That was exactly my point.


Not quite. You were arguing that FATHERS are instrumental. Sure it's nice if they have a great father, but many don't and turn out amazing.

Dp, but pp isn’t arguing FOR fathers being instrumental, but against the notion that MOTHERS must stay home and do the child rearing. You seem intentionally oblivious to further your anti-woman narrative.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?


Good for boys, of course. Positive role models come in many forms, and not necessarily a parent.


That was exactly my point.


Not quite. You were arguing that FATHERS are instrumental. Sure it's nice if they have a great father, but many don't and turn out amazing.

Dp, but pp isn’t arguing FOR fathers being instrumental, but against the notion that MOTHERS must stay home and do the child rearing. You seem intentionally oblivious to further your anti-woman narrative.


I think you're confused as to who is responding to whom. I am a different PP and have no idea what anti-woman narrative you're talking about. I thought I was responding to the guy stating that mothers staying at home is instrumental and fathers are to make the money bla bla bla
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:The presence of dads being required is cracking me up. You know lesbians aren't raising incels, right?


I think a lot of lesbian couples make an effort to ensure their sons have positive male role models in their lives.


What a stupid generality. Have you seen any data? Nope, just your own bias masquerading as truth.


Have you seen any data indicating that no incels were raised by lesbians? Do you not think positive male role models are good for boys?


Good for boys, of course. Positive role models come in many forms, and not necessarily a parent.


That was exactly my point.


Not quite. You were arguing that FATHERS are instrumental. Sure it's nice if they have a great father, but many don't and turn out amazing.


I argued no such thing. I think we might confused and actually agreeing with each other. Or not. Whatever.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:This is like the flip side of how ignorant MAGA conversations about “blue haired liberal women” must go. It’s all just the same ignorance. Grow up.


Ok, off topic, but could someone clue me in on why blue is popular now?
Whenever see it, I just think about cotton candy.
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