Is virginity a red flag at 40?

Anonymous
For the past couple years now there have been news reports going on saying that there is a rise of sexless men
Anonymous
On Facebook in a group a woman disclosed that she is a virgin at 42 and she has never been in a relationship longer than 4 months and she feels what has kept her a virgin is a condition called Vaginismus.
Anonymous
I would have just hired a hooker at that point to check the box. Maybe he can’t get it up and just has not told you.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I would have just hired a hooker at that point to check the box. Maybe he can’t get it up and just has not told you.


Considered the world's oldest profession
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:I am male and dated a 44 year old female virgin. She definitely did have some major issues but she was a very nice person and I enjoyed my time with her. We took things very slowly and ended up having some very nice sexual experiences. She was attractive and had a toned body but she had never removed all of her clothes with anyone before me. Her first O in her life was about two months into the relationship. We never had intercourse because she has vaginismus (can't relax vaginal canal) but, with a little time and guidance, she ended up being good in bed in other ways. She eventually became very passionate. I think we eventually might have figured out how to have intercourse, but we broke up. No regrets. I'm glad I got to know her.


What was the trigger for the breakup, bro?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I am male and dated a 44 year old female virgin. She definitely did have some major issues but she was a very nice person and I enjoyed my time with her. We took things very slowly and ended up having some very nice sexual experiences. She was attractive and had a toned body but she had never removed all of her clothes with anyone before me. Her first O in her life was about two months into the relationship. We never had intercourse because she has vaginismus (can't relax vaginal canal) but, with a little time and guidance, she ended up being good in bed in other ways. She eventually became very passionate. I think we eventually might have figured out how to have intercourse, but we broke up. No regrets. I'm glad I got to know her.


What was the trigger for the breakup, bro?


Definitely more shocking for a woman to be a virgin at that age unless she was saving it for marriage
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, that's weird for a guy. Red flag.

I also assume there's something "off" with men who are 40 and never married. Red flag.

I'd end it asap.
Are you knew to this forum? Why, because marriage is so great? Would you jump off a balcony if they told you that you had a 50 percent chance of making it? Marriage is a scam and the happiest people I know don’t plan on ever getting married.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:For the past couple years now there have been news reports going on saying that there is a rise of sexless men


You mean incels?

Sounds like OP is willing to DTD with this guy so he's not one of those...
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