Do you consider flirting cheating?

[Anonymous]

Flirting like at a bar, not with people you know.

[Anonymous]

Yes. If you’re doing something you wouldn’t due in front of your spouse, it’s cheating. It’s a violation of trust and incredibly disrespectful to your partner.

[Anonymous]

Cheating---no.

Disrespectful---yes.

[Anonymous]

Oh gosh no, that's just being alive

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh gosh no, that's just being alive

You are a breath of fresh air. Thank you.

18:50 - take a lesson.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Oh gosh no, that's just being alive

This

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Oh gosh no, that's just being alive

This

+1
DW

but ultimately you gotta know yourself and whether it's getting too hot in the kitchen for you

[Anonymous]

No. Come on, married doesn't mean you can't give or enjoy the attention of others. We're not dead yet.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Cheating---no.

Disrespectful---yes.

Yup

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cheating---no.

Disrespectful---yes.

Yup

+2

Though I will say everyone thinks my normal mode of interaction is flirtatious and I’m glad DH never gives me grief about it because I don’t know how to act any other way.

[Anonymous]

I consider it disrespectful and downright angering to experience when you are the spouse that has to deal with it. I think those who engage are being disrespectful. However, I’ve noticed DCUM doesn’t care in general with flirtation. Me, It’s not cheating but it’s inappropriate. Yes, you are married and not dead but you are married to 1 woman and need to focus your attention on her and making her feel comfortable. But this is just my humble opinion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cheating---no.

Disrespectful---yes.

Yup

+2

Though I will say everyone thinks my normal mode of interaction is flirtatious and I’m glad DH never gives me grief about it because I don’t know how to act any other way.

Lol seriously you don’t know how to talk to another man in a respectful polite way that is not flirtatious?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I consider it disrespectful and downright angering to experience when you are the spouse that has to deal with it. I think those who engage are being disrespectful. However, I’ve noticed DCUM doesn’t care in general with flirtation. Me, It’s not cheating but it’s inappropriate. Yes, you are married and not dead but you are married to 1 woman and need to focus your attention on her and making her feel comfortable. But this is just my humble opinion.

Yeah no. I'm a woman and I will mildly flirt with someone. If my husband wants to do the same, it's fine by me. With boundaries and trust, there's nothing inappropriate about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Cheating---no.

Disrespectful---yes.

Yup

+2

Though I will say everyone thinks my normal mode of interaction is flirtatious and I’m glad DH never gives me grief about it because I don’t know how to act any other way.

I think I'm a little bit like this too.

[Anonymous]

Serious flirting would be disrespectful but DEFINITELY not cheating! Light flirting wouldn’t really bother me… probably because I feel very secure in my marriage.