Yelling Coaches/ Yelling Parents

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please don't come on our team's side. I don't care if you are complimenting my son. We don't want you there and don't want to hear it. Just saying. Thank you.

Why/Sad someone feel this way?

Sports is where cultures and people mix, it doesn’t have to be a collision
It’s a game not war

And the poster is right there is no rule, it’s county fields and anyone can stand there.
They don’t even have to have a kid on the team

Referee will move people behind goals

[Anonymous]

This is why we have a shortage of referees

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:This is why we have a shortage of referees

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please don't come on our team's side. I don't care if you are complimenting my son. We don't want you there and don't want to hear it. Just saying. Thank you.

Why/Sad someone feel this way?

Sports is where cultures and people mix, it doesn’t have to be a collision
It’s a game not war

And the poster is right there is no rule, it’s county fields and anyone can stand there.
They don’t even have to have a kid on the team

O never said they are breaking any rules by doing it. All I'm saying is that I know my son's team's parents would not like it one bit. There is barely enough room sometimes for the parents the way it is and we don't need parents from the other team coming into our space. There is zero need for a parent to do what this poster is doing. If he or she wants to set up a hard holding session after the game, fine. He or she can mention that to us from the half way line.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please don't come on our team's side. I don't care if you are complimenting my son. We don't want you there and don't want to hear it. Just saying. Thank you.

Why/Sad someone feel this way?

Sports is where cultures and people mix, it doesn’t have to be a collision
It’s a game not war

And the poster is right there is no rule, it’s county fields and anyone can stand there.
They don’t even have to have a kid on the team

O never said they are breaking any rules by doing it. All I'm saying is that I know my son's team's parents would not like it one bit. There is barely enough room sometimes for the parents the way it is and we don't need parents from the other team coming into our space. There is zero need for a parent to do what this poster is doing. If he or she wants to set up a hard holding session after the game, fine. He or she can mention that to us from the half way line.

I meant hand holding.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Please don't come on our team's side. I don't care if you are complimenting my son. We don't want you there and don't want to hear it. Just saying. Thank you.

Why/Sad someone feel this way?

Sports is where cultures and people mix, it doesn’t have to be a collision
It’s a game not war

And the poster is right there is no rule, it’s county fields and anyone can stand there.
They don’t even have to have a kid on the team

O never said they are breaking any rules by doing it. All I'm saying is that I know my son's team's parents would not like it one bit. There is barely enough room sometimes for the parents the way it is and we don't need parents from the other team coming into our space. There is zero need for a parent to do what this poster is doing. If he or she wants to set up a hard holding session after the game, fine. He or she can mention that to us from the half way line.

I meant hand holding.

+1

She cannot have a teen player. Please tell me they are U9/10 or something because it is an unspoken rule, but in some leagues and tournaments it outlines that home team sits across from home bench. Away team across from away bench.

I can’t wait until her kid plays a Jersey or NY team Those parents are f@cking crazy. They’ll let her know.

[Anonymous]

She can go sit down in the middle of the field for a climate protest during the game...just like in New Haven at the Yale v Harvard football game.

[Anonymous]

It's a normal social etiquette for parents to stay on their team's half. It is very rude to not respect that.

It also helps keep the atmosphere more calm.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like to yell.
I only yell positive things.
Complimenting.

I do however like to do so in the midst of the other team’s fans. I stand with them and start the game yelling complimentary things of their players. Then I start to sprinkle in positive things about our team.

I have always had good interactions with other parents this way. It’s an icebreaker and they often start to do the same.

I dont always do it but it always has the same result.
People are inherently pretty good they just need to interact with you and be given a chance.

It’s all good.

m

Wtf?

For chrissakes:
The rule is you are supposed to sit directly on the half of the field across from your team bench.

So much shit happens when parents don’t respect these boundaries.

Most people know this except a few fools.

Show me the rule.
There is'nt one.

Show me where they have parent cards?
There is'nt one.

Like I said, always been positive and always positive reactions.
Then again I understand the game and when I comment 'nice recognition', 'well done on the through ball" or ask parents if their team is taught to play through the pivot or just is doing that naturally I get responses from the knowledgable parents. I can speak in several languages as well.

Again no rule says I can't compliment an opposing team or be friendly with their parents. When done respectfully it is never an issue, quite the opposite: when I see those teams again parents come up to me and say hello and ask how seasons are going.

Get over it.

Yeah, in the NCSL at least there is a definite rule against parents crossing the center line to the opposing parents' half, it says specifically "Members of each team will remain on opposite sides of the centerline". It's incredibly annoying when clueless parents like this sit their fat ass on the wrong side.

[Anonymous]

nevermind, this applies to the players, but it is annoying as hell

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:nevermind, this applies to the players, but it is annoying as hell

Then it’s working!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I like to yell.
I only yell positive things.
Complimenting.

I do however like to do so in the midst of the other team’s fans. I stand with them and start the game yelling complimentary things of their players. Then I start to sprinkle in positive things about our team.

I have always had good interactions with other parents this way. It’s an icebreaker and they often start to do the same.

I dont always do it but it always has the same result.
People are inherently pretty good they just need to interact with you and be given a chance.

It’s all good.

m

Wtf?

For chrissakes:
The rule is you are supposed to sit directly on the half of the field across from your team bench.

So much shit happens when parents don’t respect these boundaries.

Most people know this except a few fools.

Show me the rule.
There is'nt one.

Show me where they have parent cards?
There is'nt one.

Like I said, always been positive and always positive reactions.
Then again I understand the game and when I comment 'nice recognition', 'well done on the through ball" or ask parents if their team is taught to play through the pivot or just is doing that naturally I get responses from the knowledgable parents. I can speak in several languages as well.

Again no rule says I can't compliment an opposing team or be friendly with their parents. When done respectfully it is never an issue, quite the opposite: when I see those teams again parents come up to me and say hello and ask how seasons are going.

Get over it.

Yeah, in the NCSL at least there is a definite rule against parents crossing the center line to the opposing parents' half, it says specifically "Members of each team will remain on opposite sides of the centerline". It's incredibly annoying when clueless parents like this sit their fat ass on the wrong side.

Yes!! I was the team TCL that had to enforce this rule back when my kid played NCSL.

It always is some fat ass that that plunks their chair on the wrong side.

[Anonymous]

Plunks

[Anonymous]

no, not some fat ass, sorry, it’s usually some karen who wants to see the manager.

[Anonymous]

That made me laugh