Is it a Thing For Men to Ask a Woman How Many Fathers Her Kids Have?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:4 kids is a lot.

Op here, My youngest is 16. Would the fact that my kids are older change your position?


I don't have young kids and would not consider actively dating if I did.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 kids is a lot.

Op here, My youngest is 16. Would the fact that my kids are older change your position?


I don't have young kids and would not consider actively dating if I did.

You are forty yes old with 4 kids and the youngest is 16.... and you let a man pick you up at parking lot because he drives a Benz. Ok.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 kids is a lot.

Op here, My youngest is 16. Would the fact that my kids are older change your position?


I don't have young kids and would not consider actively dating if I did.

You are forty yes old with 4 kids and the youngest is 16.... and you let a man pick you up at parking lot because he drives a Benz. Ok.

She’s desperate and looking for a meal ticket. 4 kids ain’t cheap.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 kids is a lot.

Op here, My youngest is 16. Would the fact that my kids are older change your position?


I don't have young kids and would not consider actively dating if I did.

You are forty yes old with 4 kids and the youngest is 16.... and you let a man pick you up at parking lot because he drives a Benz. Ok.

She’s desperate and looking for a meal ticket. 4 kids ain’t cheap.

It's not a true story. Someone was bored today.

[Anonymous]

It’s pretty sad that meeting someone in person is such an anomaly to some of you. I personally am suspicious of guys with luxury cars initially, as I consider the cars bait for easy sex, but it’s not a dealbreaker. I’m 35 with an 8 year old. My mom still gets approached by men in person.

[Anonymous]

Do women ask men how many baby mommas they have? Look how many guys are married 2-3x and don’t even have 50/50 custody. Why aren’t women wondering about poor decision-making, drama, and how much of his money goes to CS?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do women ask men how many baby mommas they have? Look how many guys are married 2-3x and don’t even have 50/50 custody. Why aren’t women wondering about poor decision-making, drama, and how much of his money goes to CS?

I care very much about this actually. I would never date a guy with multiple kids from different moms.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do women ask men how many baby mommas they have? Look how many guys are married 2-3x and don’t even have 50/50 custody. Why aren’t women wondering about poor decision-making, drama, and how much of his money goes to CS?

I care very much about this actually. I would never date a guy with multiple kids from different moms.

Do you ask how many moms when a guy says 3 kids or do you assume one mom unless he offers the info?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do women ask men how many baby mommas they have? Look how many guys are married 2-3x and don’t even have 50/50 custody. Why aren’t women wondering about poor decision-making, drama, and how much of his money goes to CS?

Before a date, I want to know if they are single, have kids, whether they have been previous married and if so how many times, etc. I don’t date divorced men with kids, I am 29,never married/no kids and only date the same. These are not unreasonable questions before a first date. Don’t care what make and model of car they drive though

[Anonymous]

Why would a man w/o kids want a mom of four???

[Anonymous]

Multiple baby daddies is a massive red flag

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 kids is a lot.

Op here, My youngest is 16. Would the fact that my kids are older change your position?


I don't have young kids and would not consider actively dating if I did.

You are forty yes old with 4 kids and the youngest is 16.... and you let a man pick you up at parking lot because he drives a Benz. Ok.

She’s desperate and looking for a meal ticket. 4 kids ain’t cheap.

You guys are brutal, lol. Furthest thing from the truth. I have a great job and my ex has an even better one. My kids don't need a dad nor financial support outside of what we provide for them.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:4 kids is a lot.

Op here, My youngest is 16. Would the fact that my kids are older change your position?


I don't have young kids and would not consider actively dating if I did.

You are forty yes old with 4 kids and the youngest is 16.... and you let a man pick you up at parking lot because he drives a Benz. Ok.

She’s desperate and looking for a meal ticket. 4 kids ain’t cheap.

It's not a true story. Someone was bored today.

Nope, 100% true story. Not sure why it's so unbelievable.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It’s pretty sad that meeting someone in person is such an anomaly to some of you. I personally am suspicious of guys with luxury cars initially, as I consider the cars bait for easy sex, but it’s not a dealbreaker. I’m 35 with an 8 year old. My mom still gets approached by men in person.

People who don't meet people in real life either look like ass, or give off a major "do not disturb" vibe. I side eye people who can only date online. To me that is an indicator of a personality defect. I like men who approach in real life-- it's the way nature intended. It takes courage to approach a female. Not all of this hiding behind keyboards, catalog shopping for dates.

[Anonymous]

I'd want to know. Says a lot about the person I'm potentially dating.