Worried About DH's Ultimatum

[Anonymous]

If you are in your mid-50's and have been married for 25 years, it sounds like you didn't get married until around 30. How were you supporting yourself before then?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, your husband is a human being who is entitled to his preferences. You are not a disabled child or a pet he signed up to be responsible for for the rest of his life. Whether you choose to stay or leave is up to you, but you will need to get back into the workforce either way. Not working with one (!) child in school (!) was a bad decision, given the fact you are not wealthy. Now you get to take the responsibility for that decision.

A lesson to all women who didn't marry rich.

Thank God I married rich!

Good for you. Most are not that lucky.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:OP, your husband is a human being who is entitled to his preferences. You are not a disabled child or a pet he signed up to be responsible for for the rest of his life. Whether you choose to stay or leave is up to you, but you will need to get back into the workforce either way. Not working with one (!) child in school (!) was a bad decision, given the fact you are not wealthy. Now you get to take the responsibility for that decision.

A lesson to all women who didn't marry rich.

Thank God I married rich!

Good for you. Most are not that lucky.

I was being sarcastic to an idiot poster. You can do everything right and life happens and you regret decisions that you made which were appropriate under the circumstances. To be self-righteous in the face of other people's misfortune shows a lack of character and compassion.

[Anonymous]

Wow, some people are mean. OP is obviously stressed about her situation and all some people can do is preach as to "what she should have done'. Well, it's too late for that. She's asking what to do now? OP, you could take on child care, babysitting, or nannying (all of those jobs pay more than $8 an hour which is what $16k equals.

Do try to get your degree. Others are right that a teaching job would pay more. Sales or telemarketing would pay more too. Most things would. Good luck! Sounds like a sad situation.

[Anonymous]

OP, your kid is graduating soon, and you'll soon have more time than before. Now is your opportunity to figure out how you want to spend your time. Forget about what your DH wants, and even what your kid may want, what do YOU want? Go back to college, maybe become an art teacher, graphic designer, teach art classes? Consider seeing a career counselor, find what makes YOU happy, and do it! Good luck.