What makes a guy "creepy?"

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I wrote the examples list. To whoever posted the run-on sentence saying I'd welcome this behavior from a hot enough guy: nope.

Anyone who doesn't respect boundaries is creepy. Anyone. A physically-appealing person (I won't say attractive, because creepy behavior is repellent) crowding your space and disrespecting my privacy is off-putting because (a) people who are classically good-looking are often used to getting what they want, which can translate to being less good at taking no for an answer; and (b) if you could clearly succeed with women using normal means but are still skulking around me, you're either a 24/7 player or so completely creepy that when people get to know you they flee.

If that was hard to follow, I'll let a dude-bro explain it to you.

Exactly. I think it's just wishful thinking from dudes, hoping that they can explain away their creepiness by lamenting about "poor me, girls find me ugly! Don't think I'm a weird, entitled asshole- feel sorry for me because I'm being discriminated against for being ugly!"

It's a bunch of bullshit. But no matter how many times women continue to reiterate that creepiness has nothing to do with looks, men (and gullible women) will continue to use it as an excuse.

Yeah except how numerous women have disagreed with you but whatever, keep believing that you speaking for all female experiences is feminism.

"Women." There's a lot of bros that like to gaslight on DCUM... js...

Your view isn't the only one in the world, nor is it the last word on creepiness, or anything else. Try to deal with that.

Thanks, Dr. Phil.

My opinion is also completely valid. As is that of the woman I replied to. And WOMEN are the authority on this issue, not men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wrote the examples list. To whoever posted the run-on sentence saying I'd welcome this behavior from a hot enough guy: nope.

Anyone who doesn't respect boundaries is creepy. Anyone. A physically-appealing person (I won't say attractive, because creepy behavior is repellent) crowding your space and disrespecting my privacy is off-putting because (a) people who are classically good-looking are often used to getting what they want, which can translate to being less good at taking no for an answer; and (b) if you could clearly succeed with women using normal means but are still skulking around me, you're either a 24/7 player or so completely creepy that when people get to know you they flee.

If that was hard to follow, I'll let a dude-bro explain it to you.

Exactly. I think it's just wishful thinking from dudes, hoping that they can explain away their creepiness by lamenting about "poor me, girls find me ugly! Don't think I'm a weird, entitled asshole- feel sorry for me because I'm being discriminated against for being ugly!"

It's a bunch of bullshit. But no matter how many times women continue to reiterate that creepiness has nothing to do with looks, men (and gullible women) will continue to use it as an excuse.

Yeah except how numerous women have disagreed with you but whatever, keep believing that you speaking for all female experiences is feminism.

"Women." There's a lot of bros that like to gaslight on DCUM... js...

Your view isn't the only one in the world, nor is it the last word on creepiness, or anything else. Try to deal with that.

Thanks, Dr. Phil.

My opinion is also completely valid. As is that of the woman I replied to. And WOMEN are the authority on this issue, not men.

Read much? No one said it wasn't. And I guess you can't recognize a non-bitter woman when you encounter one. Not surprising.

[Anonymous]

^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I wrote the examples list. To whoever posted the run-on sentence saying I'd welcome this behavior from a hot enough guy: nope.

Anyone who doesn't respect boundaries is creepy. Anyone. A physically-appealing person (I won't say attractive, because creepy behavior is repellent) crowding your space and disrespecting my privacy is off-putting because (a) people who are classically good-looking are often used to getting what they want, which can translate to being less good at taking no for an answer; and (b) if you could clearly succeed with women using normal means but are still skulking around me, you're either a 24/7 player or so completely creepy that when people get to know you they flee.

If that was hard to follow, I'll let a dude-bro explain it to you.

Exactly. I think it's just wishful thinking from dudes, hoping that they can explain away their creepiness by lamenting about "poor me, girls find me ugly! Don't think I'm a weird, entitled asshole- feel sorry for me because I'm being discriminated against for being ugly!"

It's a bunch of bullshit. But no matter how many times women continue to reiterate that creepiness has nothing to do with looks, men (and gullible women) will continue to use it as an excuse.

Yeah except how numerous women have disagreed with you but whatever, keep believing that you speaking for all female experiences is feminism.

"Women." There's a lot of bros that like to gaslight on DCUM... js...

Your view isn't the only one in the world, nor is it the last word on creepiness, or anything else. Try to deal with that.

Thanks, Dr. Phil.

My opinion is also completely valid. As is that of the woman I replied to. And WOMEN are the authority on this issue, not men.

Read much? No one said it wasn't. And I guess you can't recognize a non-bitter woman when you encounter one. Not surprising.

NP

That kind of statement cracks me up. Written words between strangers are not so easily interpreted. What I just wrote could have been written with a number of different tones but I will tell you it was mildly sarcastic at the beginning and matter of fact the end.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

NP

Wow, you completely missed the mark on what the pp said.

Signed,
A man.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

NP

Wow, you completely missed the mark on what the pp said.

Signed,
A man.

No bro. I think YOU missed the point on the casual misogyny in her statement.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

NP

Wow, you completely missed the mark on what the pp said.

Signed,
A man.

No bro. I think YOU missed the point on the casual misogyny in her statement.

Can women be misogynistic? I feel like that's saying a black person is racist.

-one of the women pps who disagrees with you who you are convinced is a gas lighting man

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

NP

Wow, you completely missed the mark on what the pp said.

Signed,
A man.

No bro. I think YOU missed the point on the casual misogyny in her statement.

Can women be misogynistic? I feel like that's saying a black person is racist.

-one of the women pps who disagrees with you who you are convinced is a gas lighting man

Here you go:
http://goo.gl/lycqLJ

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

NP

Wow, you completely missed the mark on what the pp said.

Signed,
A man.

No bro. I think YOU missed the point on the casual misogyny in her statement.

The comment seemed specific to you based on your posts, not because you are a woman. Calm down.
Uh oh, was that misogyny too??

[Anonymous]

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2. He is undesireable.

Don't let the spinsters and harpies here fool you, it all comes down to this.

[Anonymous]

There are about one thousand different definitions of what makes a man "creepy," which is inherent problem with the word's use.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

NP

Wow, you completely missed the mark on what the pp said.

Signed,
A man.

No bro. I think YOU missed the point on the casual misogyny in her statement.

Can women be misogynistic? I feel like that's saying a black person is racist.

-one of the women pps who disagrees with you who you are convinced is a gas lighting man

Here you go:
http://goo.gl/lycqLJ

Wow lol. That is so demeaning of a woman's ability to have her own thoughts on a subject.

If it matters not only am i a woman who disagrees with you (and thinks you are insanely obnoxiously) but I'm a highly educated, professional liberal woman! But you probably will just write that off as a lie since my existence seems to contradict your world view. Ha. Internalized misogyny.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:^Bahahaha. So now I'm bitter?

Cool. What else from the "insult women" playbook do you wanna throw at me? Let's see... whore, bitch, shrew.... what other cliches can you put out there?

NP

Wow, you completely missed the mark on what the pp said.

Signed,
A man.

No bro. I think YOU missed the point on the casual misogyny in her statement.

Can women be misogynistic? I feel like that's saying a black person is racist.

-one of the women pps who disagrees with you who you are convinced is a gas lighting man

Here you go:
http://goo.gl/lycqLJ

Wow lol. That is so demeaning of a woman's ability to have her own thoughts on a subject.

If it matters not only am i a woman who disagrees with you (and thinks you are insanely obnoxiously) but I'm a highly educated, professional liberal woman! But you probably will just write that off as a lie since my existence seems to contradict your world view. Ha. Internalized misogyny.

Um. You are an anonymous person online, professing that you are a woman.

You could be three boys in a trenchcoat, for all I know...

[Anonymous]

What makes a guy creepy is when he impersonates a woman. (not to be confused with TG)

[Anonymous]

There are lots of entitled guys who do well with the ladies. A sense of entitlement really does not seem to be the common thread in determining what women generally find creepy and what they do not.