Winter wedding guest dress - impress boyfriend and FU to ex

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Spend a tad more and get this in blue.

https://www.thereformation.com/products/belden-dress/1318314CRM.html?skip_atc_confirmation=true&dwvar_1318314CRM_color=NVY&quantity=1

Beautiful and so classy.

Agreed - I love this one.

HOW can you love a drab colored ankle-length dress with a neckline to the chin and cut like bad office wear??! HOW?? when OP says she wants a revenge look for a trendy urban wedding with dancing????

This whole thread is a wild ride. But, yes, I strongly agree that that dress is the opposite vibe of what OP is looking for and I do not think it will do her body type any favors.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spend a tad more and get this in blue.

https://www.thereformation.com/products/belden-dress/1318314CRM.html?skip_atc_confirmation=true&dwvar_1318314CRM_color=NVY&quantity=1

Beautiful and so classy.

Agreed - I love this one.

Are you 60? Do you mostly wear Ann Taylor?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spend a tad more and get this in blue.

https://www.thereformation.com/products/belden-dress/1318314CRM.html?skip_atc_confirmation=true&dwvar_1318314CRM_color=NVY&quantity=1

Beautiful and so classy.

Agreed - I love this one.

Are you 60? Do you mostly wear Ann Taylor?

I wear mostly Ann Taylor and even I know that is the ugliest wedding guest dress ever made.

[Anonymous]

All the long dresses in silk and poly are terrible. Unless op is 5 10 and with a concave stomach, these dresses look terrible. You want a fixed waist, show a bit of boob but not too much, and length just above knee, just below knee or midi.

And wearing a revenge dress is totally a legit goal. I’ve been very happily married 25 years and guarantee that if I was going to an event where I thought I’d see my crappy college boyfriend who treated me like crap, not only would I want to “revenge dress” him, my DH would probably be all in on my behalf, making sure he looked awesome too. That’s true love!

[Anonymous]

And depending on the social dynamics, I would avoid black, white, silver, and whatever color the bridesmaids are wearing if there are catty older women relatives in play.

[Anonymous]

if you live near bethesda, take your boyfriend with you and try on some of these dresses at anthro and reformation and see which one he thinks looks best on you. guys often have a different view of what looks good than women do, and you want to impress your ex-bf.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:if you live near bethesda, take your boyfriend with you and try on some of these dresses at anthro and reformation and see which one he thinks looks best on you. guys often have a different view of what looks good than women do, and you want to impress your ex-bf.

This x10000.

This thread is evidence that women can lose sight of what looks objectively good.

[Anonymous]

Is your ex going to be there with a woman young enough to be his daughter, OP? You’re going there with your own boyfriend and not as some sad sack. That should be revenge enough.

[Anonymous]

https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/hybrid/hutch-phillippa-one-shoulder-a-line-maxi-dress?color=030&size=12&type=STANDARD&utm_source=Facebook_Right_Column&utm_medium=paid_social&utm_campaign=Paid_Mid-Funnel-Maids_BHLDN_Non-DPA&utm_term=Retargeting&utm_kxconfid=vx6re1853&utm_content=Retargeting_Apparel_Cross-Category_Dynamic-Carousel_Performance-Product-Set-GuestOf&utm_KXCONFID=VX6RPRTUQ&fb_ad=Retargeting_Apparel_Cross-Category_Dynamic-Carousel_Performance-Product-Set-GuestOf&fb_adid=6613364342916&fb_adset=Retargeting&fb_adsetid=6375424997716&fb_campaign=Paid_Mid-Funnel-Maids_BHLDN_Non-DPA&fb_campaignid=6375424999916&utm_id=6375424999916&fbclid=IwY2xjawN4J6dleHRuA2FlbQIxMABicmlkETFKM0JzZ3Fud2VoZ25GSGJXc3J0YwZhcHBfaWQQMjIyMDM5MTc4ODIwMDg5MgABHqz6mvT14ZmZtrF4v4ayuzUmgNLnGLcPbjD5yyeq9TWenD3q_nfKkcXfaRBl_aem_nWUXinN-elrc_1LUMSpaUA

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I have a wedding to go to at the height of winter. The ceremony is in a beautiful old church and the reception is at a swanky city place with dinner and a fun dancing crowd. I'll be attending with my boyfriend and my cheating ex husband will also be there. I'm late 30s, 5'6in, size 8, hourglass shape.

Any recs on dresses or where to look? I haven't been to a wedding in ages. Ideally budget under $250.

your post w/o your nasty title would've been fine.

[Anonymous]

https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/hutch-corene-strapless-floral-tulle-a-line-midi-dress2?color=060&recommendation=pdp-primary-sfrectray-expansionpla&type=STANDARD&quantity=1

[Anonymous]

I can’t tell if some of these are posted as a joke.

I posted suggestions earlier in the thread, before I am accused of criticizing without offering a suggestion.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I have a wedding to go to at the height of winter. The ceremony is in a beautiful old church and the reception is at a swanky city place with dinner and a fun dancing crowd. I'll be attending with my boyfriend and my cheating ex husband will also be there. I'm late 30s, 5'6in, size 8, hourglass shape.

Any recs on dresses or where to look? I haven't been to a wedding in ages. Ideally budget under $250.

your post w/o your nasty title would've been fine.

If you're scandalized by "FU" don't read a forum for adults lol.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spend a tad more and get this in blue.

https://www.thereformation.com/products/belden-dress/1318314CRM.html?skip_atc_confirmation=true&dwvar_1318314CRM_color=NVY&quantity=1

Beautiful and so classy.

Agreed - I love this one.

HOW can you love a drab colored ankle-length dress with a neckline to the chin and cut like bad office wear??! HOW?? when OP says she wants a revenge look for a trendy urban wedding with dancing????

This whole thread is a wild ride. But, yes, I strongly agree that that dress is the opposite vibe of what OP is looking for and I do not think it will do her body type any favors.

OP is asking for dress advice on mommy board where most of the posters are decades older than her. So I am not sure about her fashion sense either.

As a practical matter, I don’t think I would have spent $250 for a dress for a one night event when I was in my 20s and 30s. I would have spent a lot less, and I tend to think dresses for younger women cost less because they on average for less to spend.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Spend a tad more and get this in blue.

https://www.thereformation.com/products/belden-dress/1318314CRM.html?skip_atc_confirmation=true&dwvar_1318314CRM_color=NVY&quantity=1

Beautiful and so classy.

Agreed - I love this one.

HOW can you love a drab colored ankle-length dress with a neckline to the chin and cut like bad office wear??! HOW?? when OP says she wants a revenge look for a trendy urban wedding with dancing????

This whole thread is a wild ride. But, yes, I strongly agree that that dress is the opposite vibe of what OP is looking for and I do not think it will do her body type any favors.

OP is asking for dress advice on mommy board where most of the posters are decades older than her. So I am not sure about her fashion sense either.

As a practical matter, I don’t think I would have spent $250 for a dress for a one night event when I was in my 20s and 30s. I would have spent a lot less, and I tend to think dresses for younger women cost less because they on average for less to spend.

I posted earlier in this thread; I am in my 30s and $250 for a dress is about right imo. Any cheaper and it's going to be one of those flammable looking things better suited for a college formal. My sister is getting married in a few months and my dress was about $300. And it's just a basic lined chiffon gown.