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Anonymous
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Work mom's they are just jealous!
I can afford stay at home, have a range rover and go to pilates class/shopping/lunch with my girlfriends or just stay at home. And at dinner time if i am not in the mood to cook dinner we all go out to eat...have sex 4 times a week with husband and 3 kids beautiful kids at GDS  and i dont care what other jealous mom's think!!!
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Anonymous
Is English your first language? Strike the apostrophe in mom's, nitwit. |
Anonymous
| Blah |
Anonymous
| LOL 9:17, I'm guessing you don't have a graduate degree? Enjoy being a kept woman until your husband finds a newer model. |
Anonymous
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9:17 here.
LOL...Just for the record i do have a degree. I just cant understand why are moms so judgemental when it comes to staying at home or going to work...i think moms should support each other..but anyways... 9:48..i feel so sorry for you babee..really! You seem very bitter :p So i am done with this forum...be good ladies...heading to my pilates and lunch ..peace!!! xxxx |
Anonymous
Fake. |
Anonymous
No, your husband can afford all of these things. Your contribution is mindless babble, probably surrounding the current sofa selections at Pottery Barn. |
Anonymous
| I need to 'have no time". I am a total slacker if I have a few hours of free time. I was a lazy slob on my maternity leaves. I will procrastinate every chance I get. Soooo-- being busy and having structure is the best thing for me. I can be like superwoman when I have a tight schedule---it's a challenge to me. No complaints. |
Anonymous
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Why did this turn into a mom vs. mom thing?
NEITHER way is easy. There's pros and cons to both. If people are unhappy with their situation then either figure out a way to change it.. or figure out how to be happier with it. It's not any other mom's fault that you are annoyed with THEIR life. It's their life.. not yours. So what if the laundry is piled up? As long as it's your laundry in your house it's nobody else's business. Same with the garbage as long as you haven't gone my SIL's route. (Weeks of garbage piled up, rotten food on the counter, etc.) Some mom's put a higher priority on keeping things up. Some of us don't function well if that stuff isn't kept up. Mess and clutter bug me. (Laundry piles count as clutter around here) If necessary I would be up until 1 AM getting things done when I was a WOHM. That was my choice, it didn't mean my neighbor had to do it, too. It didn't mean she was lazy because she didn't do it. It didn't bother her. Sometimes I was jealous of that. |
Anonymous
This post is really depressing for some reason. Also, since WOHMs are doing what you are doing and working, you clearly could make different choices as to how to spend your time during the workday and then squeeze all of this in before and after the workday. |
Anonymous
OK, this just has to be addressed! I'm pretty sure that nobody here is jealous of the life that you lead. To be honest, it really doesn't sound appealing or even remotely interesting. Let's dissect if for a moment, shall we? You are unemployed. The question is what will you do when your looks have faded and you're forced to get a job. Do you have any job experience to fall back on or a degree? A Range Rover? Really? Is it a status symbol for you or do you actually like the vehicle? Does it get good gas mileage? When you're ass is working, that would be a good detail for you to find out. Pilates class, shopping and lunch with your girlfriends? Can't you at least show some creativity when it comes to spending time with your friends. If I did the same thing all the time with friends, I would be so completely bored. If your not working, at least do something different! Live a little. Your life sounds like a total bore. You're not the only woman in the world that takes her family out to eat just because she doesn't feel like cooking. I'd bet all of us do that from time to time. That doesn't make us jealous. It makes you seem petty and small. Sex 4 times a week. Big whoop, lady. If I took a poll of all of the posters on DCUM about how many times a week they have sex and a different poll asking how many times their husbands want to have sex a week, the nuber would vary. Having sex 4 times a week is so not a big deal. I'd bet we could all have sex (at least) 7 times a week. Women decide how much sex they have, so the men pretty much take it when they can it. Cupcake, you're life is nothing to be jealous over. You may think that it's all rainbows and sunshine right now, but the bottome has a way of falling out and then you have to learn to exist on your own. Can you do that? You seem much too dependent on your man and hopefully you won't ever have to learn to live without him. I wouldn't wish that on anyone. You need to learn to be self sufficient and be a woman who can stand on her own because right now, you sound like nothing more than a pet, depending on someone else to meet all of it's needs. So you see, you're life is not the kind of life that makes other women jealous. I guarantee that I'm not the only woman who feels this way. |
Anonymous
| 1644 poster made me so thankful that im a WOHM mom. OMG OMG. Thank god that is not my day. I will never ever complain about my dirty house; my stack of chores; my laundry--never. Im so happy to drive one hour to work because if I was to ever list making coffee as something i do in my day, i would want someone to kick me. |
Anonymous
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"So you see, you're life is not the kind of life that makes other women jealous. I guarantee that I'm not the only woman who feels this way."
Carm down, it's a fake. |
Anonymous
I agree. |
Anonymous
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LMAO...I am a SAHM and I can honestly say that I have NEVER had a day like the illiterate one. Pilates classes and lunch with friends etc. Your husband must be extremely well off so that your maid is paid to maintain your house, and the nanny who must be taking care of your kids.
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