Sleeping with someone for first time when you're over 50

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

LOL. If she’s f..g you first time with no condoms by definition she’s not thoughtful about her sexual health. And you might have a number of deceases already that men are not routinely tested for

That's why I wrote 'at all thoughtful'. This is not binary.

A number? What diseases that are not on a routine panel can harm men if they're not causing symptoms.

The point is these deceases may not necessarily cause problems for you, but for a woman for sure. HPV, herpes, urea and mycoplasma, lice eggs etc. I’ve seen men online posting their Ds photos with obvious penile papillomas and they had no clue.

[Anonymous]

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

[Anonymous]

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

LOL. If she’s f..g you first time with no condoms by definition she’s not thoughtful about her sexual health. And you might have a number of deceases already that men are not routinely tested for

That's why I wrote 'at all thoughtful'. This is not binary.

A number? What diseases that are not on a routine panel can harm men if they're not causing symptoms.

The point is these deceases may not necessarily cause problems for you, but for a woman for sure. HPV, herpes, urea and mycoplasma, lice eggs etc. I’ve seen men online posting their Ds photos with obvious penile papillomas and they had no clue.

Well like I said I never push for no condoms. I've never had a symptom and get blood work multiple times per year. If a woman asked me to get the fullest spectrum bloodwork there is I'd do it. So that's on them.

[Anonymous]

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

LOL. If she’s f..g you first time with no condoms by definition she’s not thoughtful about her sexual health. And you might have a number of deceases already that men are not routinely tested for

That's why I wrote 'at all thoughtful'. This is not binary.

A number? What diseases that are not on a routine panel can harm men if they're not causing symptoms.

Are you exchanging test results? Because if you are not and you are not using condoms from the get go, I’m struggling to see where thoughtful come in. Seems like the thoughtful is hiding from you how often she had unprotected sex.

[Anonymous]

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Never came across anyone who insisted on no protection first time having sex!

I never insist or push at all. But if she's cool with no condoms and I get the impression that she's at all thoughtful about sexual health I'm going for it.

I know it's a risk. Don't care. Hasn't bitten me yet.

LOL. If she’s f..g you first time with no condoms by definition she’s not thoughtful about her sexual health. And you might have a number of deceases already that men are not routinely tested for

That's why I wrote 'at all thoughtful'. This is not binary.

A number? What diseases that are not on a routine panel can harm men if they're not causing symptoms.

Are you exchanging test results? Because if you are not and you are not using condoms from the get go, I’m struggling to see where thoughtful come in. Seems like the thoughtful is hiding from you how often she had unprotected sex.

I have done the exchange. IME this is uncommon and people just mention when their test was, when their last partner was, etc.

I wouldn't be surprised if one or more women I've slept with embellished the timeline or other details. Oh well.

[Anonymous]

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

Don't feed the misogynistic troll. Im sure you look fine.

Yep. I believe you

Because im mid-50s and gorgeous
(as gorgeous as any age, not just "for my age)

Im not going to bother responding to all the posters who lament that it cant possibly be true lol!!

So...yes i believe you are beautiful.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I am 55 and married. If I were single and dating at this age, you bet I would continue to use condoms. Anyone who came of age in the 1980s should remember when HIV/AIDS was a death sentence; condoms became a standard part of the sex protocol after that, for almost everyone I know.

Yes, they dulled the sensation a bit -- but they also improved one's staying power. If a fifty-something guy refuses to wear a condom now, it's probably because his equipment no longer works quite as well as it did. Because I guarantee you when he was hooking up with randos he met at parties and bars in the 1990s, he was wearing a jimmy hat when they got down to business.

Why are you commenting on something you know nothing about? I am willing to bet you have a dead bedroom and are bitter that this woman is finding joy and having a second chance at life. GTFO.

I’m puzzled by your post. What are you trying to say. The poster seems to just reminding people about reasons to wear condoms. Are you saying that you cannot find joy and start with safe sex?

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
https://ibb.co/FxkbTv3
https://ibb.co/tqdPQBq
https://ibb.co/0qTyLkh
https://ibb.co/PZsBrXd
https://ibb.co/L6z8k1z
https://ibb.co/gvhhHMq

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Here is what all the men’s bravado, and women’s passivity yields:

https://thehill.com/changing-america/well-being/prevention-cures/4564052-stds-have-risen-among-adults-55-and-older-cdc/

I’m 50. There was definitely sex education when I was in school. Maybe 60+ didn’t have it? But 55 years old did.

[Anonymous]

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As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
https://ibb.co/FxkbTv3
https://ibb.co/tqdPQBq
https://ibb.co/0qTyLkh
https://ibb.co/PZsBrXd
https://ibb.co/L6z8k1z
https://ibb.co/gvhhHMq

Very nice. Best thread on DCUM in years.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

As a man, I can tell you that so many divorced women post-40 are willing to bang without condoms and just a simple ask of “you’re clean, right?” without actually verifying my STD status by trading results. I insist on confoms and you can see the disappointment in their face.

I have a vasectomy. It’s like nectar to bees - women see it as an invite to disregard condoms from the get-go. They assume that because I am responsible enough to get a vasectomy, I’m also responsible enough to avoid catching an STD.

Snipped man here and this is all true IME.

As a sterile woman in my 40s I don’t believe it a bit. I still ask for both STD test AND condoms. All my single friends who ate dating /professional high income women in dmv are also using condoms for dating. Of course if exclusivity is confirmed everyone forgoes condoms. I’m told I’m a beauty so maybe men are more amenable to my terms. Or all these women from the apps you bang are desperate single moms waiting for whoever calls them back after a night of unprotected sex. I also never hook up and had sex with only a few men who actually dated me. Not those who invited to hang out at their place on date 2, without an actual date.

“I’m told I’m a beauty”. Right.

I mean, that’s what men text me after dates. Gorgeous, beauty, pretty..

👄 💨 🍑

They are trying to finagle an invite to the bedroom. The game is the game.

100%. Men say this to every person they are willing to have sex with. I promise you are reading too much into your status as a “beauty”.

I’m happy to post a bathing suit photo if you explain how - Imgur doesn’t work for me for some reason

We require multiple angles. Upload here:
https://imgbb.com/

Can’t show the full face here but sure, here are some.

https://ibb.co/QnCvK0N
https://ibb.co/FxkbTv3
https://ibb.co/tqdPQBq
https://ibb.co/0qTyLkh
https://ibb.co/PZsBrXd
https://ibb.co/L6z8k1z
https://ibb.co/gvhhHMq

Very nice. Best thread on DCUM in years.

That’s my female empowerment statement for all late 40s women deemed “expired” on dcum.

[Anonymous]

Posting your pictures on dcum…trashy AF. That’s some attention seeking at a whole other level.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Posting your pictures on dcum…trashy AF. That’s some attention seeking at a whole other level.

The photos are set to expire. I modeled and have my photos published before.
To the poster above - why don’t you post your photos or those of your GF from behind in bathing suit so we could compare ?

[Anonymous]

14:17 and 14:24 are just jealous.

NP

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:14:17 and 14:24 are just jealous.

NP

I know they are. Have no issues with my self assessment, esteem and posted it for women not for men. As I said, my modeling photos were published before. It was done to show that a woman can look gorgeous at any age.