It's the being 'content' part I would love to have. I'm really close to getting there finally.
I didn't enjoy being at home long term, but career is also not my thing. |
I'll be honest. I think LESS of women who choose to simply be wives and mothers. You can imagine what I think about the patriarchy but I would get kicked off if I typed it here. |
I think it’s great. If they’re happy, that’s all that counts. I love being a wife and mother. My family means everything to me. They are my world. But I also went back to work and that makes me happy also. |
Do the people judging women have a problem with men who stay home? |
I'm not talking about parents who have no choice financially. I'm talking about parents who don't want to be the primary caregiver for their children when they are infants and toddlers. We did that as a family with very little extra money, prioritizing my children over everything else. |
Why? |
Indo not give them a single thought because I believe in their right to choose what is best for them. I do, however, have thoughts about women who love to start wars between SAH and WOHM because their own lives are pathetic. |
I agree, at least in part. Staying home full time isn’t for everyone but it’s weird when wealthy couples with choices choose to spend minimal time with their children. (Particularly childcare situations that are more than full time.) |
Glad they have that option. |
It really just robbed your kids of many experiences. |
What don’t u understand? |
I only think of them when I see the many, many complaints on social media (being a SAHM is the hardest job, wahh wahhh look at meeeeee) or someone makes a snotty remark to me. Like all I said was, I'm sorry I'm not available to meet for coffee at 10 am Tuesday because I will be working and suddenly heather is over here blathering about how you can NeVEr MaKE uP THe TIme. Yeah you sound so secure! |
+1. I don’t “think” anything. I have a full life and don’t spend my days pondering the choices of other moms. I DGAF. |
And so did your choice, just different experiences, I guess we value those experiences differently. |
I think most women, very secure in their finances and marriage, would love to not work. Work is . . . work. It sucks. I'd love to not work and everything be paid for me. I totally understand moms who don't work. Except the few who pretend not working is same as working. No, it's not. Either you are employed, or unemployed. |