Is it weird to ask to wear protection?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.

You're awfully trusting. In my clinic, I've seen more than one person with an STD because their partner was cheating on them. And pregnancy is always a possibility if you're fertile.

I'm only in relationships with women who I'd like to have a child with, and who I trust not to cheat.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.

(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.

What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.

(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.

What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?

Take it off of your boyfriend.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.

you don't want to know they don't have diseases before you sleep with them without a condom? That is weird.

My last two relationships, we both got tested right at the start. It was great, but not as great as bareback.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.

Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.

You go girl! + 100000

The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.

2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.

You do not need to justify your behavior. Live your life!

Trying to hit on her, aren’t you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.

(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.

What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?

Talk to your dad health teacher or doctor.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.

You're awfully trusting. In my clinic, I've seen more than one person with an STD because their partner was cheating on them. And pregnancy is always a possibility if you're fertile.

I was just going to say I work in a Women's Health Clinic the number of late 30s and 40 something women with unplanned pregnancies and STFs is staggering. It's like they didn't have sex ed growing up.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.

You're awfully trusting. In my clinic, I've seen more than one person with an STD because their partner was cheating on them. And pregnancy is always a possibility if you're fertile.

I was just going to say I work in a Women's Health Clinic the number of late 30s and 40 something women with unplanned pregnancies and STFs is staggering. It's like they didn't have sex ed growing up.

Being infected because spouse was cheating is so traumatic for the unsuspecting betrayed wives/husbands.

It's criminal to play with someone else's health like that; expose them w/out their knowledge or consent. And, sometimes, it's an actual death sentence or something with no cure.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.

You're awfully trusting. In my clinic, I've seen more than one person with an STD because their partner was cheating on them. And pregnancy is always a possibility if you're fertile.

I was just going to say I work in a Women's Health Clinic the number of late 30s and 40 something women with unplanned pregnancies and STFs is staggering. It's like they didn't have sex ed growing up.

Being infected because spouse was cheating is so traumatic for the unsuspecting betrayed wives/husbands.

It's criminal to play with someone else's health like that; expose them w/out their knowledge or consent. And, sometimes, it's an actual death sentence or something with no cure.

A lot of these asymptomatic STIs can cause infertility. They can also cause great damage to a fetus.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.

(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.

What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?

Take it off of your boyfriend.

Lol!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️

I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.

(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.

What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?

Wake up from your dream.

[Anonymous]

There is a company that sends condoms of different sizes to you and then you can order that size. My one condom. I think.

Also try skyn and lelo hex. More comfortable than ordinary brands. And use plenty of good lube.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.

You're awfully trusting. In my clinic, I've seen more than one person with an STD because their partner was cheating on them. And pregnancy is always a possibility if you're fertile.

I was just going to say I work in a Women's Health Clinic the number of late 30s and 40 something women with unplanned pregnancies and STFs is staggering. It's like they didn't have sex ed growing up.

Being infected because spouse was cheating is so traumatic for the unsuspecting betrayed wives/husbands.

It's criminal to play with someone else's health like that; expose them w/out their knowledge or consent. And, sometimes, it's an actual death sentence or something with no cure.

The majority aren't married women. Most are single and dating. All that to say, op and everyone else use protection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.

You're awfully trusting. In my clinic, I've seen more than one person with an STD because their partner was cheating on them. And pregnancy is always a possibility if you're fertile.

I'm only in relationships with women who I'd like to have a child with, and who I trust not to cheat.

But do they want to have *your* children? Doubt it.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:Can everyone please ignore the slut-shaming troll on this thread?

Are you the one who called people retards and fags in earlier post?

Are you the one who can't stand the idea of women having sexual pleasure?

Your context is way off. -NP

Explain it then, if you're so smart.