Is it weird to ask to wear protection?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.

What ruins the feeling more - condoms or the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy or STD?

Meh.

Always hated them. So I made choices many of you are not willing to make:

- long term relationships/ waiting longer for sex, and
- only had sex with exclusive partners.

If you want to sleep around and have tons of meaningless ONS, then you’d better use condoms; I suggest double wrapping it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.

What ruins the feeling more - condoms or the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy or STD?

The thought of that risk just makes it hotter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.

+ One billion

But I still wear them.

The feeling of making a partner uncomfortable is way worse than the discomfort of a condom.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.

What ruins the feeling more - condoms or the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy or STD?

The thought of that risk just makes it hotter.

+1

Forget one night stand excitement. This is potentially the last "clean" night stand! That'll get the blood rushing!

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.

+ One billion

But I still wear them.

The feeling of making a partner uncomfortable is way worse than the discomfort of a condom.

Meh.

Me again. I never made any partner feel uncomfortable; hence, the reason I often waited until they were comfortable and wanted to have sex.

I am a very patient man. I get that many of you are not patient. Wear a condom if so.

I also didn’t have sex if we were not exclusive. That’s me.

If you do not care about exclusivity, then I suggest you wrap that thing.

[Anonymous]

I've been with 25 women in my lifetime outside of marriages. I think only 3 maybe 4 required I use a condom. A few asked me too be a use they were fertile but quickly changed their mind after finding out I had a V.

Flame me all you want but condoms are not the only way, or even the best way to prevent catching a STD. I'd almost rather not have sex if I have to use a condom, but of course I will.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been with 25 women in my lifetime outside of marriages. I think only 3 maybe 4 required I use a condom. A few asked me too be a use they were fertile but quickly changed their mind after finding out I had a V.

Flame me all you want but condoms are not the only way, or even the best way to prevent catching a STD. I'd almost rather not have sex if I have to use a condom, but of course I will.

How many marriages?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been with 25 women in my lifetime outside of marriages. I think only 3 maybe 4 required I use a condom. A few asked me too be a use they were fertile but quickly changed their mind after finding out I had a V.

Flame me all you want but condoms are not the only way, or even the best way to prevent catching a STD. I'd almost rather not have sex if I have to use a condom, but of course I will.

Well, yeah, complete abstinence from any kind of sexual activity is the best way.

Other than that, EVERY MAJOR Health and Medical regulator/scientist would disagree with you---condoms are the best way to protect against HIV and other sexually transmitted diseases. Period. There are some with no symptoms and there are some that are contagious but not yet showing on an antibody test.

The amount of misinformation is mind-boggling with the promiscuous.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I've been with 25 women in my lifetime outside of marriages. I think only 3 maybe 4 required I use a condom. A few asked me too be a use they were fertile but quickly changed their mind after finding out I had a V.

Flame me all you want but condoms are not the only way, or even the best way to prevent catching a STD. I'd almost rather not have sex if I have to use a condom, but of course I will.

Huh?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I've been with 25 women in my lifetime outside of marriages. I think only 3 maybe 4 required I use a condom. A few asked me too be a use they were fertile but quickly changed their mind after finding out I had a V.

Flame me all you want but condoms are not the only way, or even the best way to prevent catching a STD. I'd almost rather not have sex if I have to use a condom, but of course I will.

Huh?

I also wondered about that statement.

[Anonymous]

I will not have sex with a guy if he can't show me a most recent STD test panel that is negative AND he needs to use a condom. My gynecologist told me that she has lots of patients in my age range (mid 40's to early 50's) that are divorced/single and come in with STD's. I have lived my entire life without an STD and I'm not about to start now. I would rather not have sex.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will not have sex with a guy if he can't show me a most recent STD test panel that is negative AND he needs to use a condom. My gynecologist told me that she has lots of patients in my age range (mid 40's to early 50's) that are divorced/single and come in with STD's. I have lived my entire life without an STD and I'm not about to start now. I would rather not have sex.

The most prevalent STIs are easily cured. HIV and HSV are easily managed.

I can't imagine going without sex but you do you.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I will not have sex with a guy if he can't show me a most recent STD test panel that is negative AND he needs to use a condom. My gynecologist told me that she has lots of patients in my age range (mid 40's to early 50's) that are divorced/single and come in with STD's. I have lived my entire life without an STD and I'm not about to start now. I would rather not have sex.

The easiest way to not have sex is to stay married.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I will not have sex with a guy if he can't show me a most recent STD test panel that is negative AND he needs to use a condom. My gynecologist told me that she has lots of patients in my age range (mid 40's to early 50's) that are divorced/single and come in with STD's. I have lived my entire life without an STD and I'm not about to start now. I would rather not have sex.

The most prevalent STIs are easily cured. HIV and HSV are easily managed.

I can't imagine going without sex but you do you.

You really go into this thinking that it's no big deal and you'll just treat whatever disease you get? There is NO CURE for HIV. While you can manage it, there is no cure. This means that once you get it, you could be infecting future partners FOREVER. You think that's no big deal?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.

+ One billion

But I still wear them.

The feeling of making a partner uncomfortable is way worse than the discomfort of a condom.

Thank you. From the bottom of my heart, thank you.