Is it weird to ask to wear protection?

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Anonymous wrote:Can everyone please ignore the slut-shaming troll on this thread?

Are you the one who called people retards and fags in earlier post?


Are you the one who can't stand the idea of women having sexual pleasure?


Your context is way off. -NP


Explain it then, if you're so smart.


You need your crayons.
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Given abortions may be gone unless you're totally cool with a pregnancy now make him wrap it up
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Anonymous wrote:Given abortions may be gone unless you're totally cool with a pregnancy now make him wrap it up


Do you live in Mississippi?
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Anonymous wrote:Given abortions may be gone unless you're totally cool with a pregnancy now make him wrap it up


Do you live in Mississippi?


Do you ever read or watch the news? Roe v Wade is going. DC isn’t a State abs will follow Fed Regs.

Most states in the country it will be illegal.

Thank god all the hos around here live in MD.
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Anonymous wrote:I'm not having sex unless I'm in a relationship, and if I'm in a relationship I'm unlikely to need a condom.


You're awfully trusting. In my clinic, I've seen more than one person with an STD because their partner was cheating on them. And pregnancy is always a possibility if you're fertile.



I was just going to say I work in a Women's Health Clinic the number of late 30s and 40 something women with unplanned pregnancies and STFs is staggering. It's like they didn't have sex ed growing up.


Being infected because spouse was cheating is so traumatic for the unsuspecting betrayed wives/husbands.

It's criminal to play with someone else's health like that; expose them w/out their knowledge or consent. And, sometimes, it's an actual death sentence or something with no cure.


The majority aren't married women. Most are single and dating. All that to say, op and everyone else use protection.


We see a fair share of married women getting infected at our clinic.
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Why do so many WOMEN prefer no protection?
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Anonymous wrote:Why do so many WOMEN prefer no protection?


Because it feels better.
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Anonymous wrote:Why do so many WOMEN prefer no protection?


Because it feels better.


DP. "Feels better" is a crap reason to risk pregnancy and/or STDs.

There are condoms designed to make it "feel better" than bare for women. But if you don't like the ribs etc. and still think bare feels best, well, maybe sacrifice a little of that good feeling for the reduced chances of hearing you're pregnant with some random's kid, or even a sort-of-boyfriend's kid, or you've got a disease. In other words, use your brain before you use your genitals. Men often don't, so unfortunately it often falls on women to lead with their brains.

You can still get an O even if he's wrapped. And if he complains it's too difficult for him to get erect with a condom on? Say goodbye. This isn't difficult. Adults realize that they can't always have everything exactly the way they like it. In sex or in life.
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Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️


I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.


(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.


What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?
I finally got wise and bought the Magnums. Perfect fit. The regular brands are just way too tight.
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Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️


I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.


(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.


What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?
I finally got wise and bought the Magnums. Perfect fit. The regular brands are just way too tight.


I'm worried the clerk will look at me funny when I buy those.
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Anonymous wrote:Why do so many WOMEN prefer no protection?


Because it feels better.


I honestly can’t really tell a difference
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Anonymous wrote:How many different men are you sleeping with? Your poor children.


Stop. Children have nothing to do with this.

I am a different poster but I had a near completely sexless marriage for many many years and now that I’m divorced I will sleep with whomever I want. (I also will never marry again so if I’m sleeping with somebody or somebody else a few months after that because the first person didn’t work out, it has absolutely no affect on my kids…they will never meet anyone…my sex life is a complete mile private part of my life (and I use condoms and get tested)…save your sanctimonious attitude that is irrelevant to parenting.


You go girl! + 100000


The “100000” are the men she’s sleeping with.


2 men in 4 years is not a lot. I had zero sex for 7 years while married. My number is probably less than yours.


You do not need to justify your behavior. Live your life!


Trying to hit on her, aren’t you?


acá straight woman, no I’m not
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Anonymous wrote:As they age, men have a harder time performing with condoms. Solution: go for younger guys. 🤷‍♀️


I don’t know why this didn’t get any traction. It’s true-as men age, it’s harder to use condoms. I’ve also found that men that are a little on the smaller side have a hard time keeping them on.


(1). Viagra
(2). Wrong size. Plenty of “snug” brands out there.


What should I do if condoms are so tight that they hurt?
I finally got wise and bought the Magnums. Perfect fit. The regular brands are just way too tight.


I'm worried the clerk will look at me funny when I buy those.
Then you’re not mature enough to be having sex.
Anonymous
Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.
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Anonymous wrote:Man here.

I hate condoms. Ruins the feeling.


What ruins the feeling more - condoms or the possibility of an unwanted pregnancy or STD?
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