S/O: Ladies do you ever think about your exes?

Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I do. But I am a professional psychic and it's because he thinks of me a lot- being psychic I feel it when he does. I still have fond feelings for him and we had a very deep connection so I don't mind terribly. But it can be intrusive. I care about him also though so it's not the worst thing ever. But it can be difficult when it's frequent


Fascinating! Tell me more...
Are you really a professional psychic as in make a living from it? And how do you KNOW he thinks of you a lot, is that really how it works? Do you think it goes both ways?


Yes I am! I do know. Psychic work is interesting, and somewhat hard to describe to someone who doesn't do it. But it feels like an intrusion- like someone pulling at your consciousness. I don't have children but I imagine it's a bit like washing the dishes and you feel your toddler child continuously grabbing at your skirt, until finally you look down and see them. I've also gotten other psychic readings (most professional psychics ask others to do readings for them- kind of like a lawyer never handles their own cases, as its good to have a second opinion) and they always pick up on his energy too. For a while I was very annoyed as it is a bit of a nuisance and a deterrent to moving on. But unless I wanted to do some kind of intense energy removal spell (which I've considered), I'm stuck with it. It's also kind of comforting at times, because I can tap into him when I need to, and it's nice to know he thinks of me.

BTW- I think most people are capable of psychic energy. They've done studies that have demonstrated this. If you suddenly get an intense thought of a person from your past, apropos of nothing and very concentrated- chances are that's psychic energy being directed at you. Professional psychics just learn to channel this until we get paid for it. But most people are capable of giving and receiving psychic energy.


If this is true, Dwayne Johnson thinks about me all the time.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Yes, I do think about one ex in particular. The others were not that important. But the one ... it isn't the sex, it isn't that I'd want to be with him (well, maybe a little), but mostly it's him. He was my best friend, and I miss him. It has gotten less the further I've gotten away from him (20 years).


This - though I don't want to be with him. I do miss our friendship a lot and think about him often. The other ex - nope, don't miss him at all. Dodged a huge bullet and he isn't worth any of my time.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.
Anonymous
Just one of them. At least once a day. Circumstances kept us apart, but the physical and emotional connection was sublime.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:Can the psychic tell if you are well hung without seeing it?


Yes I would, if I wanted to! I also think most women would be able to pick up on a man's size, or at least his feelings about his size, because this tends to be an issue that hangs largely (pun intended) in the male psyche, so his feelings of confidence or insecurity in this area would probably project out of him enough to where only the extremely unintuitive would pick it up. Hope that helps!
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


Nope. Some were spectacular. You are just insecure because you think you're not the one who is being 'thought about'.

I can say that I am married to a desired guy - I had to beat one of his ex-gf's away with a stick as she was panting around him for a LONG time.
She needed to go on and accept the life that she chose, she had her chance with no interference from me at the time
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


It's not just his 'thing' but what he does with it and how good he is. Is he considerate of a woman's needs and desires?
Once they go out and experience the opposite they're doing that boomerang thing and coming on back.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


+1
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.
Anonymous
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Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.


NP. You've obviously never been with a guy with a DICK. There are some beautiful, big, just gorgeous ones.
Anonymous
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:
Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....


A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.


That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.


Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?


I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.


We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!


You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?


Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face
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