S/O: Ladies do you ever think about your exes?
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Anonymous
I don't know what he did, but try to let it go for you. |
Anonymous
| Every day. My ex is one of my dearest friends, and we talk every day. My husband also talks to him every day. Our kids benefit from our relationship and we wouldn't have it any other way. |
Anonymous
Threesome? |
Anonymous
| Not really. Just the on again off again one because I'm not over him. But it's not a sex thing so much as just wishing he would call me. |
Anonymous
I finally found her: the one woman who can speak for all women. |
Anonymous
I'm a woman and I disagree! But re the OP: of the 4 serious exes I have, there's only one who EVER crosses my mind in a wistful 'what might have been' way. The other 3 - great guys, I think well of them and wish them the best, but if I were to see them I'd be entirely unaffected. This guy is different (and, thankfully, does not live locally). But I will easily go 10 months without him crossing my mind, then have a random intense few days where he'll pop up in a dream or something and then he's kind of on my mind for a bit. Then it passes and I don't think about him again for awhile |
Anonymous
Not true. |
Anonymous
| Nope. |
Anonymous
Not true for me either |
Anonymous
| I think about him a lot because I am single. Pretty certain if I were in another relationship I wouldn't think about him much. |
Anonymous
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I think about one ex because everything I did and said led to an argument and I have funny conversations in my head where I, for instance, select an apple at Giant and create and argument with Larlo about it:
Me: Selecting an apple Larlo: You selected that apple because you knew that I wanted the Granny Smith instead. Me. I had no idea you wanted Granny Smith Larlo: I told you last week how much I love Granny Smith I think I still have PTSD almost 15 years later. |
Anonymous
| Yes, I do think about one ex in particular. The others were not that important. But the one ... it isn't the sex, it isn't that I'd want to be with him (well, maybe a little), but mostly it's him. He was my best friend, and I miss him. It has gotten less the further I've gotten away from him (20 years). |
Anonymous
| Yes, but I think mostly because it was a more secretive, sneaking-off type relationship. It was exciting. He was terrible for me. I would never act on anything with him again but it was fun to be that person for awhile. |
Anonymous
You know what every woman thinks about? |
Anonymous
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I don't think about sex with exes. I generally don't think about them at all -- there was a reason each relationship ended.
Every 5-6 years I might wonder what they are up to. Googling or checking Facebook has always confirmed that neither of us would have been happier if we'd stayed together. |