S/O: Ladies do you ever think about your exes?

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

I tend to remember how they treated me above all. People who think about their exes frequently tend to reinvent the past that wasn't all that great. Probably they aren't that happy with things in their life so it's a fantasy thing. I've looked up a few exes on FB and got a few chuckles. That's about it. Much healthier to move on.

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.

lol Same here and that's a good thing.

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face

+1

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face

LOL. I love this answer. It/he must've left quite an impression on you!

[Anonymous]

I think about my college boyfriend occasionally, but mostly if I see a movie we watched or listen to a song that came out during college. It's more of an association thing than nostalgia. That relationship ending was a very good thing for both of us, and we haven't spoken since we broke up, and probably will never speak again.

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.

Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.

Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.

+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.

Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.

+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.

OK - I'm now curious. What made it so beautiful?

[Anonymous]

There is one I have dreams about every couple months for nights on end. They are always very similar: we see each other again and realize how long it's been and how much there is to catch up on. I hate the dreams; they wake me up with this nagging loneliness and nostalgia despite the fact I am very happy in my life and I assume he is as well.

I do have a belief we will one day see each other again, unlikely as that seems, and sit down and have a talk and enjoy seeing who we became. It feels like there is some unresolved stuff there. Not that we belong together for good. But that at one point we were very, very important to one another and some strange bond still exists and we both deserve to look each other in the face once more and know the other one is still who they were then at least in the presence of the other one.

[Anonymous]

I had this wonderful boyfriend in college but we broke up at the end of senior year at my initiation as I was heading out west for a job and he was going to business school in the east. While my job and a few boyfriends kept me busy I couldn't shake the feeling I had for him. I kept comparing the new guys to him and they came up short. Over 8 years I had no contact with him as there was no social media back in the early 90's. I was transferred to NY in 1992 and at my first client presentation who walks in but my old boyfriend. I was almost speechless and barely made it through the presentation. Afterwards we only had time for a brief chat in which I not so subtly told him I was still single and he said he was single to. But he was in a serious relationship and nothing ever happened between us. He's been happily married for almost 25 years and I've been married and divorced the last three years. So no happy ending for me and I still think about him.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.

Sorry but not all penises are the same. Therefore a dick is not a dick is a dick - there is a lot of variety.

+1 And some are objectively better than others. My ex's dick was just absolutely beautiful.

OK - I'm now curious. What made it so beautiful?

It was big and just- pretty. Nothing flawed about it- just smooth and large and just pretty. I guess I have to invoke the Supreme Court line "You know it when you see it." Also he was absolutely ripped with a six pack so it was just gorgeous jutting out under that...

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I had this wonderful boyfriend in college but we broke up at the end of senior year at my initiation as I was heading out west for a job and he was going to business school in the east. While my job and a few boyfriends kept me busy I couldn't shake the feeling I had for him. I kept comparing the new guys to him and they came up short. Over 8 years I had no contact with him as there was no social media back in the early 90's. I was transferred to NY in 1992 and at my first client presentation who walks in but my old boyfriend. I was almost speechless and barely made it through the presentation. Afterwards we only had time for a brief chat in which I not so subtly told him I was still single and he said he was single to. But he was in a serious relationship and nothing ever happened between us. He's been happily married for almost 25 years and I've been married and divorced the last three years. So no happy ending for me and I still think about him.

Damn I was hoping for a happy ending to that

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:There is one I have dreams about every couple months for nights on end. They are always very similar: we see each other again and realize how long it's been and how much there is to catch up on. I hate the dreams; they wake me up with this nagging loneliness and nostalgia despite the fact I am very happy in my life and I assume he is as well.

I do have a belief we will one day see each other again, unlikely as that seems, and sit down and have a talk and enjoy seeing who we became. It feels like there is some unresolved stuff there. Not that we belong together for good. But that at one point we were very, very important to one another and some strange bond still exists and we both deserve to look each other in the face once more and know the other one is still who they were then at least in the presence of the other one.

+1 I had a BF who I absolutely adored but I ran him off due to my stupidity. That was 30 years ago. While I'm happily married I've often thought how nice it would be to hear about his life and apologize for my behavior. While I love my DH, my first real love will always be special.

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

NP here.

I remember his Member's Only jacket.

No, seriously, I don't reminisce fondly over their members. I mean ... no, I don't. A dick is a dick is a dick if he can use it well and if I'm into him. I might remember if they were big, but ultimately, it isn't how I remember the men I've been with. But, perhaps I haven't been with enough men to catalog them by their members.

Ahh then...you've never seen an unfortunate dick. Lemme tell ya

[Anonymous]

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Anonymous wrote:I think about a particular X every time I see my H naked. Sigh.... what I wouldn't give for that one piece of anatomy....

A guy posted this. Women don't think about sex with their exes - no matter how good. They leave that stuff in the past.

That's bullshit. I think about my ex and sex with him fairly often. I am a woman.

Ha! Woman here. This made me laugh a little.

Do some women really occasionally think about an ex's member? If it was really...impressive?

I'm sure they remember the good lovers but they're not thinking about his "member". Plus, women overestimate size. Guys that they think are large are most likely barely above average.

We actually do think about the member. I've been with enough men to know what is big and what is not. I've maybe had 4 huge guys in my life - I remember them for sure because it was memorable!

You've thought about their members? How so - sleeping with them or what?

Periodically through the day I'll think about an ex who was really well hung and just marvel at the fact that I got to play with the big boy - always brings a smile to my face

I'm sure HE appreciated you playing with it too. In fact, I'm sure he'd love to give you another chance!