My ears are burning! |
Keep dreaming!! |
+100 Would you give him another chance? |
He won't give me the chance - it was an illicit affair and his commitments lay elsewhere. |
I can guarantee you he thinks about it. And has probably thought about it while in the shower. |
Yep, this is me too. He was my best friend and boyfriend in college. He "got me" like few people ever have. If I think about college (and I do on occasion because those were some of the best year of my life), I think about him. We had such fun together! We parted on good terms and are now both have been married for years to other people. My husband also "got me" and "gets me" and I'm 100% loyal to him in the here and now. As such I'm not connected on social media with my college boyfriend because I don't think any good would come of it. I don't need to complicate my life. But I do think of him from time to time. |
+1, exactly my situation too. My husband is wonderful, and I think our marriage is happier / works much better than being married to my college ex would've. But at the same time, he and I had something special, and in general that was just a wonderful fun happy time in my life. I definitely think about him from time to time, and get a little wistful and miss him/what we had. I too have chosen not to connect with him on social media...I see him pop up in mutual friends' pictures from time to time, but I'm sure having the ability to stalk on demand would lead to random nostalgia-fueled walks down memory lane / have him pop up more in my mind than the random passing times it does now. Just no need. |
Did he break it off with you? Or the other way around? |
Broke it off math me after being caught multiple times. He just could lie anymore and had to face the music. |
I wonder how common it is for a woman to occasionally day dream about a really endowed ex? |
Pretty much NONE of them. |
Probably very. |
Obviously the person who said none of them is a man. I think about the big ones that got away daily. I have always had a very healthy sex drive. Is it wrong for women to objectify men as men do with women all the time? Sorry but sometimes it's just sex for the sake of sex. How often do men think of an ex with a great body - odds are all the time. |