How bad is it to sleep with a married man?
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Anonymous
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In theory, you are not doing anything wrong since you (supposedly) do not know his wife so therefore you owe her nothing....Good or bad.
He, on the other hand is betraying + lying to his wife and deceiving her and the family. Which makes him so despicable that I wouldn't want to have anything to do w/such riff raff. 
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MikeL
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PM me. I'm at your service. |
Anonymous
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It's fine. You're both adults.
Just keep it secret and it's no big deal |
Anonymous
This such a troll. Any woman can walk into a bar and leave with a guy. I mean, seriously. |
Anonymous
| If you're his wife, go for it. Please. |
Anonymous
I am not a troll. I have done these random bar hook-ups (when I was much younger) and they end up being a huge disappointment almost every time. But like I said, I'm not going to do it. Too much potential drama. |
Anonymous
| Pretty, pretty bad. |
Anonymous
| I've been on the other end of this, and recently saw my friend's family torn apart by an affair. No way would I do that to someone else. You would be involved in destroying people's lives. Not worth it. Plenty of single men out there. |
Anonymous
Well maybe what you need is a situation with someone you can actually trust, but is not the type of guy where you have to talk every day or see each other every weekend. The problem is, someone always falls for the other person. |
Anonymous
is this really how you conceptualize morality - that if you don't know the person you don't owe them anything? that's pretty sociopathic IMO |
Anonymous
you are delusional that he is in love with you and cares deeply for you. if he did, he never would have slept with you for all those years while still married. It's terribly sad that you've chosen to bring a new life into such a messed up situation. As a mom, I can't tell you the pain you will feel when you realize the same reasons that made him cheat on his wife and child also mean that he is unable to be a really good father to your child. Although I love my child, I feel a lot of pain and guilt now that he is older and I can see how my decisions to ignore the red flags in my relationship with his dad mean that my child suffers the pain of a bad parent. Of course his family is nice to you on the surface. They will never reveal their true thoughts about you for fear of alienating the child. I am courteous to my ex and so are my parents. Many outsiders, and my ex, think we are still friends. We are not. It's transactional - simply to keep tabs on him and maintain influence and control over the kids. |
Anonymous
We owe strangers nothing. That is readily apparent simply by watching people's behavior while they're driving. People will accelerate and block someone trying to merge simply because they can. They didn't need to, they just did it ..... because. So it should be no different with this. |
Anonymous
You want to be like the lowest common denominator in life? I don't cut people off, I let people merge and I don't sleep with men that have a girlfriend or wife. |
Anonymous
I encourage you to look more carefully around you in the world. The world is full of people who help strangers. Just last week, I cut myself while walking in public. A stranger saw me and approached and offered me bandaids from her purse. I was grateful she didn't see me as a stranger to whom she owed nothing. Life is full of graces like these if you are open to them, and, yes, if you treat others the same. Isn't that the golden rule - do unto others as you would have done unto you.? |
Anonymous
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It's not ethical but sleeping with a married man is hot. It's like watching a starving person eat a gourmet meal. They are almost all sex starved and will worship you sexually like a single man can't.
And they are good in bed, they have training Or so I am told. |