How bad is it to sleep with a married man?
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Anonymous
| No kids. I'm looking for discreet sex, no relationship. |
Anonymous
| Very. |
Anonymous
| It's totally fine. Don't listen to the nay sayers. He's an adult who will follow his own free will. Be that with you or someone else. |
Anonymous
| Bad idea, but you already know that |
Anonymous
| Bad. Selfish. |
Anonymous
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It's bad but it's within the range of mistakes most people make. He is a big boy, go for it.
Just know that he is never leaving his wife for you. Never. |
Anonymous
| It's stupid and selfish. Find someone single. They can meet more. |
Anonymous
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For me it sucked, but after I divorced him I had some great sex!
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Anonymous
| A lie of that magnitude is always wrong |
Anonymous
Come on. You know that last part isn't true. Some men absolutely leave their wives for their AP. It may not be the majority, but I'd say it's in the 5-10% range. |
Anonymous
And you can't find a single or divorced guy to have sex with you? It's not like your standards are that high. |
Anonymous
Op here. I don't want him to! Part of why I'm tempted to go down this route is because I don't even want the possibility of a relationship. |
Anonymous
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Could you live with yourself if you caused a marriage to break up, leading to a lifetime of heartache, confusion and distress for the children?
You do know, don't you, that there are extreme cases where the cheated-on spouse has gone ballistic and harmed themselves, their spouse, or others--even children? Could you live with yourself if someone died because of actions in which you participated? |
Anonymous
To be fair, they don't have children. |
Anonymous
| Terrible idea. You would be morally responsible for helping a jerk (the married man) be unfaithful. |