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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I'm not going to do it. I'm just so horny with no prospects in sight. [/quote]

Try adult friend finder, co?

I slept with a married man for years. They had no children when it started, and then they had a child. He eventually left her for me. We are in love, and care deeply for eachother. I am pregnant with our first child together. 
I would never do it again, or recommend it to someone else. It's a waste of time. I hate the way our relationship started. I've met his family, they seem to really like me. It all starts off innocently until feelings get involved. 
Just my 2 cents [/quote]

you are delusional that he is in love with you and cares deeply for you.  if he did, he never would have slept with you for all those years while still married.  It's terribly sad that you've chosen to bring a new life into such a messed up situation.  As a mom, I can't tell you the pain you will feel when you realize the same reasons that made him cheat on his wife and child also mean that he is unable to be a really good father to your child.  Although I love my child, I feel a lot of pain and guilt now that he is older and I can see how my decisions to ignore the red flags in my relationship with his dad mean that my child suffers the pain of a bad parent.

Of course his family is nice to you on the surface.  They will never reveal their true thoughts about you for fear of alienating the child.  I am courteous to my ex and so are my parents.  Many outsiders, and my ex, think we are still friends.  We are not.  It's transactional - simply to keep tabs on him and maintain influence and control over the kids.[/quote]

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