How bad is it to sleep with a married man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.

That's a bit dramatic.

[Anonymous]

Is lying wrong?

Is it wrong to aid and abet breaking a vow?

Is it OK to intentionally inflict emotional harm on another person?

Is adultery morally acceptable?

Is it OK to potentially spread a disease to a person who does not consent to the assault?

You don't need to ask these questions if you have even a 4-year-old's moral compass.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you have psychological issues? Why would you even want to sleep with a married man? Are you so pathetic that you can't find a single guy? Even if he does not have children, why would you choose to commit a act that would deeply wound another person?

When I was young and single I sometimes had married try to pick me up. I thought they were gross and disgusting. But that is probably because I have morals.

Get over yourself.

Yes, I definitely have psychological issues and my self-esteem is in the gutter. I could find a single guy, but don't want anyone catching feelings - I just want to get laid once or twice a week.

His wife is a wacko and I'm pretty sure she's cheating on him. So....I don't feel so bad about it.

All the more reason to stay a way. Do you really want a wacko person to suddenly turn against you?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Do you have psychological issues? Why would you even want to sleep with a married man? Are you so pathetic that you can't find a single guy? Even if he does not have children, why would you choose to commit a act that would deeply wound another person?

When I was young and single I sometimes had married try to pick me up. I thought they were gross and disgusting. But that is probably because I have morals.

Get over yourself.

Yes, I definitely have psychological issues and my self-esteem is in the gutter. I could find a single guy, but don't want anyone catching feelings - I just want to get laid once or twice a week.

His wife is a wacko and I'm pretty sure she's cheating on him. So....I don't feel so bad about it.

Wow, so.... really? That doesn't sound like a good idea...

[Anonymous]

I watched porn about this last night. Everyone in the video seemed pretty pleased with the situation.

[Anonymous]

How do you know his wife is a whacko? And why do you suspect she is cheating?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women were way more interested in sex with me when I was married. That was the biggest surprise about divorce.

This is my experience as well

[Anonymous]

Unless you know for a fact that the person has an open marriage, pretty bad.

[Anonymous]

pretty bad

[Anonymous]

It's unequivocally wrong.

[Anonymous]

Personally, at the end of the day, I have to look at myself in the mirror. I have too much integrity and compassion for the wife to ever stoop so low. Tons of single me to screw.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Personally, at the end of the day, I have to look at myself in the mirror. I have too much integrity and compassion for the wife to ever stoop so low. Tons of single me to screw.

+1 Don't do it.

[Anonymous]

What? No one wrote that he could be OP's soulmate?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Could you live with yourself if you caused a marriage to break up, leading to a lifetime of heartache, confusion and distress for the children?

You do know, don't you, that there are extreme cases where the cheated-on spouse has gone ballistic and harmed themselves, their spouse, or others--even children? Could you live with yourself if someone died because of actions in which you participated?

Meh. If he's cheating, there are already some major cracks in the foundation.

[Anonymous]

Don't be trashy.