How bad is it to sleep with a married man?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Could you live with yourself if you caused a marriage to break up, leading to a lifetime of heartache, confusion and distress for the children?

You do know, don't you, that there are extreme cases where the cheated-on spouse has gone ballistic and harmed themselves, their spouse, or others--even children? Could you live with yourself if someone died because of actions in which you participated?

Oh don't be so melodramatic, you've been watching too much crime TV.

[Anonymous]

Women were way more interested in sex with me when I was married. That was the biggest surprise about divorce.

[Anonymous]

Considering some other woman just had sex with my husband (we have kids though) I can tell you I now think it's one of the cruelest things you can do to another woman. I truly think there's a special place in hell (or a lifetime of bad karma) for women who knowingly sleep with married men. And for the record, the same is true x 100 for the married men who do this to their wives.

[Anonymous]

I did and it was the best sex of my life.
We also fell in love and wrecked our lives.
He wanted to be with me and I wanted to be with him but we cannot be together.
Everyday is a living hell.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's bad but it's within the range of mistakes most people make. He is a big boy, go for it.

Just know that he is never leaving his wife for you. Never.

Op here. I don't want him to! Part of why I'm tempted to go down this route is because I don't even want the possibility of a relationship.

So I didn't want him to leave his wife either (I was definitely slumming it, but the sex was really good). I never asked for him to leave her, never alluded to a future. He was just my twice a week "me time". Then one day he called me and told me he had moved out and we could finally be together. That was awkward.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's bad but it's within the range of mistakes most people make. He is a big boy, go for it.

Just know that he is never leaving his wife for you. Never.

While I think the OP would be a horrible person to become involved with a married man, the pessimist in me demands that I point out that, yes, many married men DO leave their wives for their affair partners. I've seen this happen multiple times to colleagues/acquaintances. And the fact that it is so common among celebrities would indicate that many men WOULD dump the wife for the AP if the man had the money/fame to attract younger, attractive women.

(But OP, do you WANT a man who would do this?)

[Anonymous]

Yes it's bad.

And your not wanting a relationship excuse is BS and you know it.

You are inviting far more drama into your life than a FWB or an ONS ever could.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's bad but it's within the range of mistakes most people make. He is a big boy, go for it.

Just know that he is never leaving his wife for you. Never.

None of what you wrote is true.

[Anonymous]

Do you have psychological issues? Why would you even want to sleep with a married man? Are you so pathetic that you can't find a single guy? Even if he does not have children, why would you choose to commit a act that would deeply wound another person?

When I was young and single I sometimes had married try to pick me up. I thought they were gross and disgusting. But that is probably because I have morals.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Do you have psychological issues? Why would you even want to sleep with a married man? Are you so pathetic that you can't find a single guy? Even if he does not have children, why would you choose to commit a act that would deeply wound another person?

When I was young and single I sometimes had married try to pick me up. I thought they were gross and disgusting. But that is probably because I have morals.

Get over yourself.

Yes, I definitely have psychological issues and my self-esteem is in the gutter. I could find a single guy, but don't want anyone catching feelings - I just want to get laid once or twice a week.

His wife is a wacko and I'm pretty sure she's cheating on him. So....I don't feel so bad about it.

[Anonymous]

Not only do you have psychological issues you are really stupid. News flash! Single unattached men also want sex with no feelings. There are tons of them out there. You could go to any bar right now and have a one night stand. It is not hard if you are attractive enough which I doubt you are.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:For me it sucked, but after I divorced him I had some great sex!

[Anonymous]

No, I wouldnt. When I was single I had plenty of single guys to choose from. No need to go after someone who had complications. Plus, it's so much easier to have a FWB when they are single. Horny at 9pm on a Wednesday? Your single FWB is way more likely to come over for a quickie than a married guy who needs to come up with an excuse.

[Anonymous]

Fine if you are married to him!

[Anonymous]

It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.