How bad is it to sleep with a married man?

[Anonymous]

OP here. I haven't slept with him and we haven't even flirted.
It's just a thought. I figured it's not the best idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:No kids. I'm looking for discreet sex, no relationship.

And you can't find a single or divorced guy to have sex with you? It's not like your standards are that high.

Exactly.

It's pretty scummy and pathetic and can only lead to pain and rejection.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:OP here. I haven't slept with him and we haven't even flirted.
It's just a thought. I figured it's not the best idea.

Start thinking of bigger and better things for yourself. Only losers sleep with married men.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Women were way more interested in sex with me when I was married. That was the biggest surprise about divorce.

How do you know that?

[Anonymous]

It is a terrible idea, because you are going to catch feelings and he is not. Then you are left being strung along for sex (because, that is the main thing he is missing in his marriage) and then you won't be getting the other stuff.

You, however, would not be morally responsible for helping the married man cheat, breaking up a marriage. You are in no way responsible for his marriage. Those problems (him not getting sex at home) are due to his wife and him.

Don't get guilted by the people who will say it's your fault, but don't do it, either.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.

That's a bit dramatic.

Ah, just a bit. I mean, she's THINKING about it and considering the implications. I would never ever even consider thinking about sex with somebody other than my lawful wedded husband. That is clearly a mortal sin. I mean, sex itself even with a spouse is practically a venial sin.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.

she is just an average female, trying to sell her vagina. every woman does this.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.

That's a bit dramatic.

Ah, just a bit. I mean, she's THINKING about it and considering the implications. I would never ever even consider thinking about sex with somebody other than my lawful wedded husband. That is clearly a mortal sin. I mean, sex itself even with a spouse is practically a venial sin.

WTF are you talking about? Bible beating nutter.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:It's totally fine. Don't listen to the nay sayers. He's an adult who will follow his own free will. Be that with you or someone else.

+1

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.

That's a bit dramatic.

Ah, just a bit. I mean, she's THINKING about it and considering the implications. I would never ever even consider thinking about sex with somebody other than my lawful wedded husband. That is clearly a mortal sin. I mean, sex itself even with a spouse is practically a venial sin.

Just lay back and think of England

[Anonymous]

I'm single, sleep with me? It's a better idea.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's totally fine. Don't listen to the nay sayers. He's an adult who will follow his own free will. Be that with you or someone else.

+1

It’s hard to believe there are such morally corrupt people who have no sense of right and wrong.
Of course it is bad. You know he is married. And, I am pretty sure you know it is wrong.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.

That's a bit dramatic.

Ah, just a bit. I mean, she's THINKING about it and considering the implications. I would never ever even consider thinking about sex with somebody other than my lawful wedded husband. That is clearly a mortal sin. I mean, sex itself even with a spouse is practically a venial sin.

WTF are you talking about? Bible beating nutter.

Sorry, that was dry humor. Doesn't come over the boards very well.

[Anonymous]

I'll admit this is a little trollish but his body his choice. and fidelity is not a need.

On a more constrictive note. A married man is going to have baggage even when kids are not involved. A true open marriage is fairly rare. more often there are issues at home and one spouse declared open marriage or doesn't tell their spouse about it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:It's bad. You are an evil person. You should rot in h*ll.

That's a bit dramatic.

Ah, just a bit. I mean, she's THINKING about it and considering the implications. I would never ever even consider thinking about sex with somebody other than my lawful wedded husband. That is clearly a mortal sin. I mean, sex itself even with a spouse is practically a venial sin.

WTF are you talking about? Bible beating nutter.

Sorry, that was dry humor. Doesn't come over the boards very well.

Ok phew!