From US diplomat (trailing spouse) to squatter

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Anonymous wrote:You get 100s of job offers a day? Do you mean those travel agencies that reach out to you saying they have assignments available? Those aren't job offers....
RNs get at least 100 offers a day...I have 50 recruiters programmed into my phone alone and had to change my #. The rest I get in email bc of Indeed and I am in all their data banks. You're not a nurse, are you? Oh, so you don't know wtf you're talking about. Nice attempt at a dis, but you lose...

I didn't mention I am a fighter, did I? That's the only way I stayed alive and the only way I kept my kid from a monster. I refused to share legal custody. And I have full legal custody. I refused to sign for a dip passport and my kid doesn't have a dip passport.

Very intelligent and powerful people get traumatized and develop PTSD, which can really hurt their ability to function in everyday life, but it doesn't make them a drooling idiot.


I am an RN. Those aren't actual job offers as in you still need to pass interviews to get them. Its not like you just call and say "I accept the offer!". The company still has to accept you and then you still need to interview at the hospital. I'm well familiar with them as I also get probably 50 a day and I used to be a travel RN so I know how it works.
Clearly, if you're a nurse, you understood what I meant. No, they're not formal offers, they're jobs where RNs are needed and I look at each one and decide if I can handle it safely and if it will work. So, can't believe I am explaining this to a NURSE!


You don't have to be explain it to me. But you're posting misleading info. You wouldn't even make it past the interview process and yet you're acting like you have all these job offers ready for you.
I have made it past many interviews and have been heavily recruited by nurse managers...I can't take the jobs. I am not ready. Remember- safety concerns. In nursing school, we figured out that the class (and the profession) is split- 1/2 are kind hearted empaths and the other are Nurse Ratched. I think it's clear which camp you're in.
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Op did ask for people to be gentle.

Op, what could we help you with?
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OP you not only have PTSD but possibly something else that also requires psychiatric treatment. You sound manic. Please get help.

Others, suggest we stop replying to this thread. Mental illness is not a spectator sport.
GenLeRoy
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Anonymous wrote:OP you not only have PTSD but possibly something else that also requires psychiatric treatment. You sound manic. Please get help.

Others, suggest we stop replying to this thread. Mental illness is not a spectator sport.
People who say, "Please get help" are the ones who need the help. Always. Look in the mirror and figure out your issues...I could take a few guesses. It's funny, you thought since I am a victim in a DV case that you can pick on me, but that's where you're wrong. I don't put up w/a-holes. Get a life. Go work at your big job or love on that big family (that you probably don't have, which I can see why)...Leave me alone.
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Stop responding and baiting OP who is clearly unstable. Going to ask for thread to be locked.
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Anonymous wrote:Stop responding and baiting OP who is clearly unstable. Going to ask for thread to be locked.
I am standing up for myself since the trolls and bullies are online. I have responded completely in-kind to how I have been treated.
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Anonymous wrote:Op did ask for people to be gentle.

Op, what could we help you with?
Thanks...some folks helped and it really was helpful. I just hoped to get resources up here for State folks, since I know most are in DC. I wish there were a "trailing spouses" woman's group up here or something. But one woman gave me loads of info regarding vouchers, etc. and that's good. 20-years was a long time to not work. It's hard getting back in, especially in this day and age and in my state- and with ageism and so much changing...But I will figure it out. Thanks for being kind! G
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This has all been fun. Thanks for the people who were kind and sincere and gave me advice. I really appreciate it. The rest of you, have fun in the cesspool of a life you exist in...I am out!
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