Ladies who made it their job to marry a rich man-how did you do it?

[Anonymous]

I'm not talking about being a sugar baby either. Women who were worth less than their current or former husbands and knew they wanted to marry for money over love how did you attract your rich husband?

[Anonymous]

Your premise is false— people don’t sit down and say they are “marrying for money over love”. They limit their dating pool to people who were in strong career fields, or whose families were comfortably off (the Venn diagram between these two groups is nearly a circle). Then just like any other dating relationship they hit it off with someone they want to marry.

I wouldn’t say I know anyone who made it their “job” to marry rich, I would say I know plenty of people who are self aware enough to know they don’t want to be poor or to struggle.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your premise is false— people don’t sit down and say they are “marrying for money over love”. They limit their dating pool to people who were in strong career fields, or whose families were comfortably off (the Venn diagram between these two groups is nearly a circle). Then just like any other dating relationship they hit it off with someone they want to marry.

I wouldn’t say I know anyone who made it their “job” to marry rich, I would say I know plenty of people who are self aware enough to know they don’t want to be poor or to struggle.

You have a very limited circle if you don't know anyone or haven't heard of people specifically marrying for money.


To the OP, from what I've seen you have to put yourself in their circles.

[Anonymous]

My college roommate and she did it.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Your premise is false— people don’t sit down and say they are “marrying for money over love”. They limit their dating pool to people who were in strong career fields, or whose families were comfortably off (the Venn diagram between these two groups is nearly a circle). Then just like any other dating relationship they hit it off with someone they want to marry.

I wouldn’t say I know anyone who made it their “job” to marry rich, I would say I know plenty of people who are self aware enough to know they don’t want to be poor or to struggle.

You are parsing words. Not many would actually admit they made it their job (esp in certain circles) but they absolutely had the requirement and sought out those men.

I think it happens the other way around too. Especially men who want to go into politics.

[Anonymous]

Meet him in college before he’s rich
Going to top college helps.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your premise is false— people don’t sit down and say they are “marrying for money over love”. They limit their dating pool to people who were in strong career fields, or whose families were comfortably off (the Venn diagram between these two groups is nearly a circle). Then just like any other dating relationship they hit it off with someone they want to marry.

I wouldn’t say I know anyone who made it their “job” to marry rich, I would say I know plenty of people who are self aware enough to know they don’t want to be poor or to struggle.

You have a very limited circle if you don't know anyone or haven't heard of people specifically marrying for money.


To the OP, from what I've seen you have to put yourself in their circles.

Yep, work in a field the type of man you want works or frequently appears socially. That could mean anything from doing some entry level position on up.

If you want to be first wife, go to a top school and meet in college.

[Anonymous]

Find out within the first couple dates what they do for a living, where they live, what they drive. If it doesn’t meet your standards move on to the next. Never waiting time on someone who doesn’t live a certain life style etc.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:

Anonymous wrote:Your premise is false— people don’t sit down and say they are “marrying for money over love”. They limit their dating pool to people who were in strong career fields, or whose families were comfortably off (the Venn diagram between these two groups is nearly a circle). Then just like any other dating relationship they hit it off with someone they want to marry.

I wouldn’t say I know anyone who made it their “job” to marry rich, I would say I know plenty of people who are self aware enough to know they don’t want to be poor or to struggle.

You are parsing words. Not many would actually admit they made it their job (esp in certain circles) but they absolutely had the requirement and sought out those men.

I think it happens the other way around too. Especially men who want to go into politics.

Exactly. The person sounds naive af. I live in NYC and women wanting to marry rich is a dime a dozen but it truly is very hard!

[Anonymous]

You have to be a certain kind of person. Thin very attractive and kind. You have to get them young. Like in college or grad school. It can be done but it’s a full time job. It helps if you have chops of your own to add. Many rich men praised me for my kindness and soothing voice. Who knew?

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:I'm not talking about being a sugar baby either. Women who were worth less than their current or former husbands and knew they wanted to marry for money over love how did you attract your rich husband?

1. My family had money, just not as much as his.
2. I'm pretty and good in bed.
3. My mother told me to never marry for money, just go where the money is then fall in love.
4. I'm smart and I enjoy the same nerdy nonsense that he does.

[Anonymous]

Anonymous wrote:Meet him in college before he’s rich
Going to top college helps.

And being a good reliable faithful spouse after. That’s how it’s done.

[Anonymous]

women here are sick

[Anonymous]

What’s your definition of rich?

[Anonymous]

Honestly it’s not complicated. I never dated anyone who didn’t seem like they had solid income potential, and I was very very good at it. Even my high school boyfriend is wealthy now.

Just as some women screen dates for height, dark hair, whatever, for me it was always a first screen for who I would even consider dating.

My husband is not the wealthiest man I ever dated, but he’s close. But no tears for him. I have earned close to as much as him every year of our marriage all while birthing 3 of his kids.